The most important step of how to get your ex girlfriend back is the no contact. This is double-edged sword my friend. If you use it carefully you will definitely increase your chances of getting ex girlfriend back but if you cheat it then you are the only one who will get hurt from it. There are many men who won their ex girlfriend because of no contact technique and people who don’t get their ex girlfriend because they didn’t do no contact or make mistakes.

The logical approach to get your ex back seems that you should tell them how much you care for them and how much you love them as soon as possible before it’s too late. But trust me it’s not a good idea.

Italiano: Riconquistare la Tua Ex, Português: Conseguir Seu ou Sua Ex de Volta, Deutsch: Deine Ex zurück gewinnen, Français: reconquérir son ex, Русский: вернуть своего бывшего, 中文: 与你的前男友或前女友重新开始, Nederlands: Je ex terugwinnen, Čeština: Jak získat svoji bývalou dívku zpět, Español: recuperar a tu ex, 日本語: 別れた恋人とよりを戻す, Bahasa Indonesia: Mendapatkan Mantan Pacar Anda Kembali, العربية: استعادة شريكك السابق, ไทย: ได้แฟนเก่ากลับมา, Tiếng Việt: Giành lại người yêu cũ, 한국어: 전 애인과 다시 결합하는 방법

Getting her to want you back in a committed relationship is more about what NOT to do, than what to do. Because, you have the attraction back by this point from the previous steps, so all you need to do here is get out of your own way, and let the getting-back-together happen on it’s own.

Okay, that wasn’t my best joke. But I am sure you can do something better than that. More importantly, you probably know what tickles her funny bone. So, think of a joke that you think she will find funny and send it to her.

Hello, Happy New Years! I’m a little nervous. Just held out for a party and was checking my snaps and noticed my ex who I am actively trying to get back is out at a party. Noticed a mutual female friend had similar snaps and realized my ex is at our mutual friends house. The mutual friend has a brother who I know is attracted to my ex and my ex is attracted to him too. My ex is 23 and the guy is only 16 or 17 but I’ve seen them flirt since we broke up and I have a feeling if he was older she’d be open to the idea of going out with him, but nervous there’s going to be flirting that might end in a kiss at midnight or further feelings developing. I know there’s nothing I can do to prevent that, but please advise how I can process the possibility and if something was to happen, which I would probably not find out about. How do I keep my cool moving forward? We have been broken up for a few months now with minimal contact. Please advise.

In fact our mission is to share our philosophy and our techniques with as many people as possible and to empower individuals across the world with the tools, guidance and confidence they need to get back with the one they love.

Hey so me and my ex finished our relationship 2 years ago i started one but idk i keep having things remind me of him i always think of little stuff we used to do and me and my new partner are always fighting i went to this party were i saw my ex and his new girlfriend ( which is my ex best friend) their currently engaged but they were arguing and fighting i didnt say hi to them or i didnt show that i was affected by it but i still have that connection with him and idk maybe i just want to talk to him and let things right since he was my bestfriemd for almost 7 years sometimes i do miss him his biethday is coming up and idk if i schould DM him since idk if his girlfriend has his password and i domt want to seem like im desperate what do i do ??? I dont knoe what to do

He needs to desire you, a lot. Be sexy and provocative, but don’t sleep together the first time you meet to “catch up” and see whether he also wants to get back together or not. Let him think about you. Drop a hook, and make him feel horrible when he sees how much you’ve improved, how well you are doing, how sexy you look and how your life is taking another direction. Don’t try to fake it. He knows you and he’ll know whether you’re full of crap or not.

I mean, they really do seem happy. I know she is a rebound but I feel like they might actually last even though they rushed into things. So I’m not sure if I should worry about it or not … I’m following the 5 step plan though because I want to get over this already.

It’s tempting to look at this as starting a whole new relationship, but facts are facts: You’ve dated each other before. “It is important for a couple to build on the past relationship, warts and all,” says Klow. So what if you’ve been there, done that? This is a new chapter, and it’s going to be epic.

Ok me and my ex have recently started back seeing each other. We broke up the 1st time 10 years ago due to me feeling he was too good. I was still young and wanting to party. We connected again 5 years ago and this time he wasn’t ready to be tied down. I reached out to him on Facebook the first week of December and we have talked everyday since. the first time we met up we did not have sex just a hug a peck goodbye which had us both texting about missing each other and how good it felt to be with each other. ( I recently got out of a relationship and now have 2 twin girls 7mths old. More recently we met up and we had sex and held each other all night. Pregnancy came up ( we were protected) just converting about what if my twins where his and what if I get pregnant again with his twins. so to get to the point I know it may be too soon to talk to him about moving forward but I’m confused he came over and we had sex during it he asked do I want to have his baby and he came in me. I’m not ready for more kids I just had 2 he said the same thing but why did he do that. I know my body I’m not ovulating so no worries but is this a sign he’s ready to move forward. I really don’t know how to ask him because I don’t want to seem like I’m rushing but he has been my first love the one I think about even when I’m with someone else.

If you haven’t heard anything from them yet and it has been past a couple of days then this could mean a couple of things. They are either extremely excited by the prospect of moving forward with things and they can sense that you are trying to move things along but this also makes them extremely nervous.

I have foung your website very useful. I am approaching the end of NC that is at the same time as Xmas and my ex’a b-day and also the start of a 2-3 week holiday he is spending with his family he barely sees the whole year.

Another thing you need to be doing is changing yourself to the original self that your ex fell in love with in the first place. You need to be improving yourself too — that means getting fit, being social, and confident and attraction. Make your ex have second thoughts!

You have spent a month not contacting your ex. You spent that entire time working on yourself becoming more and more confident as the days past. Everything seemed to be going fine until you hit your first road block with a negative response. Make no mistake about it, negative responses are never good. However, they don’t EVER mean that you should give up right away. It just means you have to be smarter about how you approach things. Lets take a look at a negative response example (from my past) this is a true story.

For a lot of guys reading this; the idea of accepting the breakup will be a tough one. You may even trick yourself into thinking that you have accepted the breakup when you are secretly still hoping that things will go back to the way they were.

Your body is in good shape and mind now it is time to update your mind as well. You have to update your knowledge by reading books and surfing different websites. It is important to update your information about the topic that is common in between you and your ex. When you both meet together it is also important for your body and mind to meet together as well.

These first few messages are critical! If you can’t get them to crack a smile or talk to you, then unfortunately these next steps are pointless. Once you have their attention, you want to keep them guessing on your next move. Just follow the old psychological rule that says “we always want what we cannot have”. This means stimulating their mind but never actually giving them what they want.

Relationship breakups are really heart breaking. It is disappointing to live without the person you love most in your life. You are ready to do anything to get your ex back, you are ready to beg to your ex to get back in your life. WAIT! Read this carefully this is not the right way to get your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend back.

If you can’t trust her right now, and there are major issues with the relationship, even chasing her and getting her back now would yield the same result as the previous time (in August). If you get back together with her, ideally you want the relationship to be better than before, not the same or what’s the point? THIS is why you should leave it alone for now and disregard whatever your instincts are telling you because it isn’t the way to win her back or sustain a lasting relationship. Work on your issues first and complete NC, then win her back with the changed you.

Truth is that our bodies and heads tell us to act in a certain way after a break up, we act on impulse and our emotions. This is not a good idea as you may already know. It is common to be tearful and erratic, not knowing where to turn, sometimes we can blurt things out to our ex boyfriends that we regret later. Everybody does it, it is human nature to do so, but the thing that you have to remember is that you have to fight against these urges if you are to be successful in making him see you positively and want you back again.

Our first priority is to make sure that whatever it is you did, that made her want to finish with you – we discover what that was NOW. Because you gotta stop doing it, otherwise the simple process I’m about to reveal won’t work.

I realize that I have already given detailed coaching for how to resolve issues with your wife, but over the years I have found that most guys at this point still don’t get it. We as men are so different from women that I am convinced a little redundancy is necessary.

Hi there, you’ve got a great website in here, I kinda read through your steps already. And this is my case, I fell in love with my gf and I’ve waited for 5 years to make sure everything’s right until I proposed to her, everything went good, we’ve been together for nearly two years, everyday having sweet times together and we seldom quarrel because we don’t like quarreling, if we’ve got any problem we’ll just sit down and settle it immediately, until few months ago, she was texting with a guy in the same class as her, I thought it was just friends chat and didn’t really pay much attention to it as I wanted to give her freedom to make friends. Then suddenly it came to this day when she suddenly proposed that we should be friends, she said she likes this guy and she likes me too, but she has lost her feelings on me, most of her friends supported me even her mother like me better than the new guy, they think we should be together instead of her be with the other guy there. I’ve begged her many times and she insist that we should just be friends, she doesn’t even wanna give me a chance to try again, she said that the chance of both of us getting together is quite small, everytime I asked about her and that guy, she’ll just ignore my question, when I asked will she choose that guy over me, she’ll just ignore me, now we’ve stopped texting, what should I do? I really love her very much and she said she did and now even after we broke up, she also would like to hear about me and to know how am I doing lately, she said she still cares about me but it’s just the feeling is not there. I really want her back, should I just let her go try the other guy there? What should I do now?