This section is going to be controversial. It certainly was in my Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO System. Some of you may not agree with this but everywhere I researched said that using your ex boyfriends jealousy to your advantage is one of the most powerful things you can do.
she’s on a year programe in another city, we see once in a month. which isn’t enough closure for me. she’s been on this program for about 5months now. I feel due to this she lost attraction towards me, as we only see once a month, and our calls or texts ended up in arguments.
This is the power of jealousy. Now, I am NOT recommending that you go out and date someone new. I am recommending that you drop certain hints in your communication with your ex boyfriend that you are out meeting new people. The key to this is that YOU CAN’T BE OBVIOUS. Do you think you will get very far if you rub the fact that you are out and about with other guys? The answer is no. There is a subtle art to incorporating jealousy texts into your conversations and I am going to teach you that art.
You first have to understand if him saying that you’re unable to focus on your career is a legitimate worry he has or if it’s an excuse to end things. That would determine if you should contact him, because if it’s a real concern he has, and you are able to convince him that you can stay focused and still be with him, then you should try to fix things.
He does not seem emotionally capable of dealing with serious issues and would rather avoid it altogether, hence why he leaves you in a state of limbo because he himself doesn’t want to deal with it. Sometimes in this case, it would be better for you to make the choice and stick with it because he may never do it on your behalf.
The message seems fine. And I think texting him on that particular day is fine, because ultimately you bear no ill intentions. If the relationship you shared with him was meaningful enough, he would know where you’re coming from, and that you simply wish to let him know that you’ll be there for him.
Your instincts will tell you that if you just agree to everything your ex wants, they will come back. Your instincts will tell you that your needs, your values, your desires, your goals don’t matter. Your instincts will tell you that the only thing that matters is to get your ex back. And for that, you can sacrifice everything.
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My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago kind of out of the blue. We’ve been slowly declining for a while, and I would bring up the fact that I felt like things weren’t going good all the time, but he always ignored my pleas for better communication. It finally came to a head and I broke up with him, and then quickly took it back the next day and we decided to get back together. Things seemed to be going really well and then he broke up with me, also saying he needs time and space. During these 2 weeks I’ve come to realize that a lot of the problems were me. I was so emotionally dependent on him, and I would turn negative if I couldn’t be with him. He was my source of happiness and I didn’t realize that until that was gone. I’ve been working on recognizing my problems and fixing them, because in the end I want him back. I really believe that now that I know what the problems were that he never told me during the relationship, if we were to try again, it would be really successful. I broke no contact a few times and was regrettably desperate in asking for him to come back and work on things, to which he kept saying he needs time and space and he’s taking that for himself. I don’t know if I should wait for him to reach out since I’ve reached out so many times (but will not anymore!!) But I’m afraid he won’t and will just move on without me. The fact that he said he needs time and space makes me believe like he wants to revisit the idea of us getting back together, but that may just be me overthinking it. I just want him to see all the progressive I have been making so he can realize even though I may have lost my way and gotten too attached, my intentions were always pure and my love was always real. How do I get him back?
If you didn’t realize it by now, your instincts and your mind go into panic mode when you find out your ex is dating someone new. In most cases, you freak out and make all the mistakes mentioned above.
Denver clinical psychologist Susan Heitler, Ph.D, a graduate of Harvard and NYU, is author of Power of Two, a book, a workbook, and a website that teach the communication skills that save and sustain positive relationships.
If there was no instigating argument or issues that could have potentially made her feel that way, perhaps there could have been other more personal reasons for wanting to end things. You might have to mentally prepare that there was someone else, and if you’re entirely sure it wasn’t, you could always ask her what made her feel inadequate and toxic as a person.
Hi, my ex broke up with me about three weeks ago now. He came over a week after our break up and said he missed me and needed to see me again. But he still said he didn’t know about getting back into a relationship. I tried texting him once cause he posted something very depressing on twitter and never responded, and then four days later he blocked me. His mom told me that he’s not speaking to her either. We broke up because he was having difficulties making decisions and he didn’t know if he could commit and didn’t know if he wanted to settle. He’s also graduating in December and thinking about moving. I love him still and I’m so afraid I’ll lose him. I don’t know if he still cares about me or loves me still. I don’t know what to do!
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I ALSO HAD A BOYFIE THAT WE WERE NO LONGER SEEING EACH OTHER FOR 13 YEAR, BUT SUDDENLY I GOT HIS NUMBER TEX HIM BACK,HE RESONDED AFTER A WEEK TELLING ME THAT HE WAS BUSY, WE SPOKE AND HE PROMISED ME TO VISIT ONE DAY, HE TOLD ME THAT HE HAS A FAMILY, AND ASK ME DO I HAVE, BUT I TOLD HIM I DO HAVE BUT WE HAVE SOME HICCUPS. I CALL HIM AGAIN AND HE SAID HE WILL CALL ME BACK, HE DIDINT, AFTER A WEEK I CALLED HIM BACK THE PHONE WAS OFF. I NEED HIM IN MY LIFE AS MY BOYFRIEND
I love you deeply. I’d do honestly anything just to have you back in my arms. I see you in the hallway and I smile and can’t help myself but to stare are your handsome complexion…I want you to be mine again..I wanna start over.. 🙁