Now, breaking up is never really easy to do. But for some, the process of getting over a failed relationship can linger a little longer than for others, which sometimes begs the loaded question: why can it be so difficult to get over an ex?

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Though you should avoid making the same mistakes, if you’re constantly obsessing over not making them, you won’t be able to enjoy the relationship. Just have fun and try not to think about it too much unless you’re having a conflict. If you’re so worried that you’ll lose him again every step you take, you won’t be able to live in the moment.

Trying to follow those 9 steps right now. Husband walked out on me without even a note saying good bye.. He turned his back and never spoke to me again. Still don’t know what I did so badly for him to treat me this way. Thought I was going to die from a broken heart, but moving on. It’s been 4 1/2 months.

If you want someone back that has done that to you, you need to work on your boundaries and self esteem. I’ve totally been there and I know how you feel. I know it’s hard; you’re not alone. What’s done is done but now it’s time to have your own back, speak with your actions and take care of YOU. You deserve so much more and I know you know it ? xoxoxo

My ex boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up about 5 months ago, he blocked me off everything, reason why he broke up with me was because of distance (he didn’t have a car anymore), he wanted to concentrate on school and wasn’t looking to get a girlfriend or anything like that. The break up was extremely ugly. I notice on social media a week afterwards he posted someone’s initials with a heart next to it which I thought he did purposely for me to see but fast forward to now about to be 5 months later and I thought I have moved on, I found out he’s got a new girlfriend around the time we broke up. In the photos they look happy. The first photo date goes far back a month after which at that time we were in the texting phase (which he was flirty) before he randomly blocked me again. Since then, no word. After finding out the break up excuse was a lie and he had someone ready for when he dropped me, it opened up the same wound and I feel extremely hurt that he lied to me. When I think back about the end, everything was adding up and he confused me by acting as if no one else was in the picture. I’m also meeting his mother for lunch this Sunday since she wants to catch up and give me my things back that he refuses to meet me to do. I feel I’m going to cry and I have no control over my emotions anymore. And it hurts that despite all this, I still care for him. I can’t get how he can quickly move on.

Sometimes, you want to fight for the relationship. Sometimes you just know deep in your heart that if only you could get another chance with your ex, things would work out. Sometimes, you just can’t close that chapter unless you get another try.

I just read what happened to you with your ex-girlfriend, becoming depressed because of a back injury at 23 and living with your girlfriends family and letting her go because you were moody and lost all self-esteem. But still being in love with her.

I currently going thru a separation, my husband left me for a girl with 3 kids and iT has been very hard to get over him. I always have been thinking that its my fault. I tried ti get busy and think about me and my lil one but it just too much sometimes….I think I really need to think about me and how much im worth.

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Hello. This is my first time posting. I would really appreciate some advice because I don’t know what to do. I feel almost like a fool over this. I am a 30 year old female. My ex is a 29 year old male. We dated for 18 months. Two weeks after the breakup, I ran into him at a bar. He was with two 22 year old girls from his gym. I tried to talk to him and he was very cold to me, wouldn’t give me the time of day, and then yelled at me when I touched his shoulder. We have been in no contact for 6 months. He unfriended me on facebook in October and blocked me on facebook at the end of January. I found out at the end of December that he reported me to the police because he thought I keyed his car. This occurred sometime in October (which makes sense why he and his friends and family all suddenly dropped me from facebook during that time period). I was really hurt that he thought I would do such a thing, and more so because he knows how hard I’ve worked at my job and he thought I would jeopardize it like that or even do something so low to him (on a side note” the report was made in October but I didn’t learn of this until late December when the detective called me to tell me that there was zero evidence tying me to it – there was surveillance in his complex but obviously was not me). Because of that, I have stayed away from him completely because I don’t want to have more trouble Or give him an excuse if he’s still of the mindset to do something to me. I feel like enough time has passed that he would have cooled off. I wasn’t even the one to initiate the breakup. He was. I don’t know why he’s so angry with me. I’m hoping he’s not angry any more because I do miss him and I would like another chance to make it work. I feel like if we’re going to get back together, then it needs to be his move. Please help.

Then she say she dont want to and 1 week after my sister bday i ask her sister where she could be ? Because my sister invited her to my sister birthday party and she dont even reply it. Then suddenly at night she texted me that why you texted my family. Now everybody know and she tell me that she cant be with me anymore because we keep arguing and stuff. And she say for now she cant be in a relationship kind of thing.

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If you are embarrassed, think about when your parents were younger. They likely experienced the similar emotions, which means that they can be understanding. You might be able to gain some wisdom from talking to them.

Truth is that our bodies and heads tell us to act in a certain way after a break up, we act on impulse and our emotions. This is not a good idea as you may already know. It is common to be tearful and erratic, not knowing where to turn, sometimes we can blurt things out to our ex boyfriends that we regret later. Everybody does it, it is human nature to do so, but the thing that you have to remember is that you have to fight against these urges if you are to be successful in making him see you positively and want you back again.

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I am going through a hard time with a very you g boyfriend. 9 years younger. And i have been crying and texting him and the last i did was called him. He said he was busy playing game and hung up on me when i ask if he still wants us.

Do you really want him back? You’ve plotted his return to you, quietly reminded him of those qualities he used to love, and psychoanalyzed him at every moment… but have you devoted as much time and energy toward a little self-scrutiny? Before you set your sights on your ex-boyfriend, you should ask yourself if going back to him is really the right move for you. No matter how much relationship help you utilize, it’s possible that moving on would be in your best interests. You could try desperately to get an undeserving boyfriend back, but all the while overlook the fresh new face of a guy who’s truly perfect for you. If, after some soul-searching, you decide to get your boyfriend back, then don’t give up. Just because it didn’t work out the first time doesn’t mean it won’t work out the next time.

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There’s an ebook Eric Charles’s business partner has with good reviews called “Get Him Back” by Sabrina Alexis. It’s $40, and talks about the same things I’ve gone over but much more in depth. They give you your money back in two months if you don’t get your ex back by then. Try it out and see. I’m here if you want to talk further.

It is important to grieve the loss of the relationship and to feel and release the pain that resulted from the broken relationship. This takes time. Forgiving any hurts is another helpful piece of advice. This is not easy but you may slowly start to realize that UNforgiveness hurts you more than the other party. It may take a while to get over a relationship but even if you can see a little progress over time, I am sure that will encourage you. I have heard that grief doesn’t present itself in a neat package. Sometimes it is two steps forward and three back. Time also helps but I don’t necessarily think time all by itself is the answer. I hope this helps and/or encourages someone.

Kinda going through similar situation. Sucks so bad. My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 months. I lived with him for about 3 months. Everything for the first like 10 months was PERFECT…..thought he was my soul mate. Loved him with all off my heart….then he started hanging out more with his friends than me…only asked me over or to go out when it was convenient for me. But I fell hard for him so stupidly I’d always make myself available…well we got in an argument about 2 weeks ago and he’s ignoring me. Haven’t seen him since then….this is how he deals with things…shuts me out and ignores then will say he misses me after a few days and like an idiot I run to him. He is 39 and I am 46 by the way. This time never got the “I miss you” or wanting to see me. So I am assuming this is a break up where he doesn’t have the courage to at least give me closure. I’ve done SO MUCH for him financially and supportive this past year too..a year of my life wasted. I’m trying really hard to do the “no contact” rule but he’s texted and called me. I’m trying to move on but honestly I’d probably take him back if I could…would never tell him that. I told him that I have enough friends so I didn’t need another friend in my life. I also have a TON of my items at his house I have to get back at some point….ughhhhh….I feel your pain. But every day gets better. I keep busy with my two kids, friends and family. Good luck!