Español: hacer que una chica te quiera de vuelta, Português: Fazer uma Garota Querer Você de Volta, Italiano: Far sì che una Ragazza ti rivoglia, Français: faire pour qu’une fille veuille de vous à nouveau, Deutsch: Ein Mädchen dazu bringen, dich zurück zu wollen, Русский: сделать, чтобы девушка захотела вас вернуть, 中文: 让一个女孩回心转意, Čeština: Jak zajistit, aby vás dívka chtěla zpět, Bahasa Indonesia: Membuat Wanita Menginginkanmu Kembali, Nederlands: Een meisje terugwinnen, العربية: جعل فتاة ترغب في الرجوع إليك, ไทย: ทำให้สาวต้องการคุณกลับมา

“Firstly I would like to thank you for guidance through this difficult period that we all face at some point or another in our lives. Your book gave me confidence, courage and a clear mind in dealing with my relationship trouble. The way in which it is written and it’s content are ideal and complementary in giving rise to the “correct” mindset.I got my ex back in 14 days. She broke down the first time after 5 days, but I told her we would speak about us when she comes to see me injanuary (as we are in a long distance relationship). Thank you for your support and great work.”

The key to building good rapport (whether it be thorugh texting, calls, emails, or social media), it to make it attention getting. Don’t tell her about a happy hour you went to, she doesn’t care about that. If she really likes Disney Princesses, for example, find an article about the latest Disney movie and send it to her.

Now, I get that the only reason you came to my website is because you want your ex girlfriend back. Trust me I get it but you know what. Right now you are single and rather than sitting around the house and moping around I want you to take the opposite approach.

But I’d go over the memory of her in my mind — her maraschino cherry hair, her septum ring, the shiny stud in the side of her nose, the big black plugs in her ears — and worry that someone as edgy as she was would never go for a nerdy, plain woman like me. I settled for just being friends.

My girlfriend and i started dating april 5th, after 3 weeks we had sex it was awesome, 3 weeks later she asked how old i was i said 46 and she was 28, after about a week she broke up with me because of the age diff, i went nc for 4 days, i sent her flowers and that night she stopped by my house, after that she came at me like a fireball, she came back bell ya, she stayed at my place most of the time after that, 10 days went by and she just shut off like a lihht switch, i ran after her like an idiot, i may have lost her forever its been 5 weeks since ive seen her beautiful faceut yesterday i fb mess her and told her i wanted my shirt back, she did not answer, i mess her again telling her to keep it and i was done, reminding her of all the good times we had together, and i said good luck, and she was the most beautiful girl in the word! She mess me rite away and said, i will drop your shirt off this week! Im hoping she wants to talk but i have a feeling she will shove it in the mailbox! What is my next move, what should i do??? Please help,!!!

No. You shouldn’t answer your ex’s call. The only exception to this is if you are close to ending your no contact and you are already feeling great about your life. If you think that talking to your ex will have you obsessing about them again, don’t answer their call.

Her name is Katie, and we met while working for our college’s LGBTQ magazine. Katie was a journalism major who dreamed of giving marginalized communities a voice, so she signed up as an editor. I, a physics and English major who wanted to try my hand at journalism, became her writer. After a few months of 4-hour “meetings” during which we talked about Carl Sagan, coming out, first lady-crushes, Dr. Horrible’s Sing-Along Blog (and also, you know, my writing) it was pretty clear that my feelings for Katie were more than friendly.

Let’s say you and I are friends. At first, we hang out because we like enough of the same things, but we both learn something from the other. For example, you are really into fishing, and I’ve always been interested in it. I’m interested in Beethoven and you think that’s nerdy but cool. In other words, we are two individuals that share interests. By being friends, the circles of our lives are made larger, so to speak.

Now, how to get your ex-girlfriend back can be a darned difficult path to tread, with multiple possible routes – each dependent on the type of breakup and the girl’s reaction to it. Therefore, getting your ex-girlfriend back can be trickier and more complex than you’d have made it out to be. The process of getting your ex-girlfriend back is much more than a series of texts-calls-subtle hints-taking it slow-reengaging-acknowledging your mistake-and showing the change! And the road can be filled with obstacles that hadn’t quite crossed your mentalscape, when you decided to embark upon a journey, the arrival of which isn’t quite guaranteed.

Now as mentioned when she is working hard to lift your spirits in relationship. She may also want you to understand what she needs. Try to get close to her feelings not her talks. Understand what she is keenly looking for. Relationship are built upon needs and are carried to the top with love, care and feelings for others, so go for it.

Women are ticking time bombs in terms of their fertility, and you had better believe that there’s an evolutionary part of your ex’s brain driving her towards the goal of having a child. For that reason, women need to see progress in relationships that indicates to them that they are on course to have kids.

Like other couples, we have been through a lot. It just hurts me that he didn’t turn out what he said he would be. But, I would like to try to get back together with him in the future since it brought out the best of both of us.

Well my situation is very complicated as all the others, you see, my boyfriend broke up with me because I have an attitude problem, I’m constantly bitching and nagging and it tore us apart. I wanted to change my attitude issues but I never did, until he left me I said that if he’d give me another chance then I’d take anger management counseling to help our relationship, but he said that he won’t give me anymore chances and that’s it’s over. I don’t know what to do because I know we still love each other so much and that we always will, but how can I get him back :(?

I dated this girl for a long while. She was absolutely perfect. We talk sometimes but she frequently ignores my messages or the such. We’ve been broken up for a year and I recently spent the weekend with her and some other friends down at a church camp. She seemed to flirt at times but then quickly stopped. She would always find something else to do if i brought up a conversation about anything but something funny. I can’t figure out what to do! Please help

Find out what the reason was and just stop doing it. If she wanted to go to couple’s therapy but you didn’t want to, go. If you really want her back, you must compromise. [Read: 22 warning signs you’ve been a really bad boyfriend]

Let him see how you’ve changed. As you start hanging out maybe once, or twice a week, let him see that whatever quality he didn’t like about you or your relationship is no longer there. If he thought you never listened to him, give him a chance to talk more. If he thought you were too clingy, let him see how independent you’ve become.