If you’ve broken up with your ex, but you’re sitting there desperately searching for a way to get him back, wondering if there is still a chance for the two of you, then you may consider seeking out the help from a recognized relationship expert. Often, having the opinion and feedback from an expert can really help to make all the difference. Some experts will provide one-to-one help in person, over the phone or through Skype.

I am officially out the army after 9 years. I’m going back to school and finishing. Got army year and some change to go. We have communicated by phone armylready a few times, we’ll every morning for the last 4 days either she will call or I will call. Or we’ll text. She is the one, I want her back. I love this woman. The soonest I Can see her is in may after my finals and plus I have an intership in poland for 3 months which works. Today I sent an actually letter of my true feelings and intentions. And yes, she knows how I feel, because a few months ago she said the same thing on she feels about me.

I called her on the phone (using a method he described in the book) and she actually returned my call.  That felt positive right off the bat.  I had the 7 steps right in front of me and followed each one.  She did most of the talking.  At first, she was kinda yelling and angry.  The negative emotions were right there, all right.  But I followed the venting method and after a while she calmed down some and starting talking normally. 

You came along and led her to believe that she could trust you with her heart, but it wasn’t long after she married you that she began to conclude how wrong she had been about you. You no longer made her feel special. You were obsessed with work or anything else that interested you. The only time you acted romantically was when you wanted the marriage bed. She married you to build a relationship, but your mind was stuck on you.

You should be as skeptical about getting back together as she is. After all, you both broke up once. And you don’t want to end up in a heartbreak again. So, if you two decide to get back together, take things slow and analyze your new relationship before committing to it completely.

Before you meet with your ex, you should figure out exactly what you’ll want to talk about with him. A meeting like this can be an emotional experience, and it’s easy to get sidetracked. Planning what you’re going to discuss can make a world of difference.

i had a boyfriend we were serious now its been more than a week i did no contact or begging or crying since hes been gone he have a new girlfriend they been together for a year it broke my heart hes with another girl i really miss him like crazy i cant stop thinking about him can i get him back or its too late??

ssnell, As I mentioned in the blog, giving your ex space now is the best chance of getting back with him later. Let your feelings be a mystery to him and only respond when he reaches out. There are no guarantees but this IS the best way to encourage him to connect with his love and desire for you.

Hi ryan..thanks for your reply..i will try to give her that space and time like you said..but i really need your advice on how to win her trust back and confidence and keep our love..what so i really do during this break?

Since you already told him that you will be there for him, then you can reply to him when he contacts you. However, if him contacting you is slowing your progress, then you will have to eventually tell him to give you some time and space.

I don’t know what to do anymore, I don’t know if I have to push myself to talk to his family since that is the only way that he can forgive me (according to him). Im also thinking what is the reason why he don’t reply everytime I tell him Ill go there and talked to them. Yesterday, I didn’t even go to work just to “finish” what I have to finish, I texted him to text me the time but I did not receive any reply. Im thinking that maybe he don’t want me to confront his family because he knows that we can never be together again once I tell his family the truth. Am I right? Or theres other reason? [otp_overlay]