Think a samurai going to battle, a spartan going to war, they know they will die but they don’t care because they are strong and proud to be something bigger than that. Think to Gandhi, suffering for his people.

You are talking to your ex on the phone and the conversation is going great. Awkward silences are left to a minimum and you can tell she is very responsive. Maybe the two of you talked about something that was funny or emotional and both of you reacted very well to it.

What should I need to do ? I am on day 8 of no contact it’s really hard specially I am seeing him online all the time. We’ve been together for 7 years. But recently for the past 2 years we do not see each other in person due to long distance tho we’ve been seeing each other in webcam. We had some argument he keeps telling we are going to see each other in person but he never make plan. I find out Jan 1st this year he traveled to Dubai to spend vacation with Indonesian girl.(before that incident I caught him sexting with that girl, that Indonesian lady asking him to send her a porn he said they haven’t see each other yet and the girl was virgin he said it was nothing ugh I’m so stupid to believe)

Are you and your ex on the same page now? – This does not necessarily mean that you and your ex have become really the same because no matter what you do, there will always be differences between two people. What you have to ask yourself is whether or not both parties are already willing to make a few changes and compromise so you can be in the same direction.

Correct bad habits. Now is the time to scrutinize your behaviors that led to the breakup and to try to self-improve. For example, if you feel that you and your ex broke up because you are too jealous or argumentative, try being more conscious of these behaviors and stopping them in their tracks.[10]

If you think your girl loves to see your call or message after every hour then you are wrong. Space is very important for keeping attention into your relationship. Thinks for once, do you ever attract by girl who bombard you with text messages? No, I am sure you never attract to such girl. A human with higher value doesn’t need human attraction because he gets it in abundance from the people he meets daily. You don’t need to tell your girlfriend that you love her every time instead tell her when she only deserves it.

So this girl broke up with me last week and during the weekend I was really drunk, and I was talking to someone about how I felt and I said some pretty messed up things that are just terrible, and I don’t remember who the person was but the person that I told everything too they told her and I up finding out Tuesday or Monday and she was just really upset she told my friend everything and the things I said were really really messed up they were really wrong and I didn’t think about what I said I just said things because I was so drunk and now I just want her back. But now I just gotta face the consequences and I can’t do it myself I just need someones help, but anything contact me at 862-812-9341. I also heard she made her mind up already, it’s only been a week so I don’t think so, but she did block me on everything someone just help me, she meant the world to me.

#1 Who ended the relationship? If you ended the relationship but now you realize you made a huge mistake, that’s going to be a hard one to rectify. However, if she dumped you, you have a better chance of getting her back. [Read: Are you still in love with your ex?]

Similarly if you don’t control your anger and only fix the mistakes that happened in the previous relationship then you only end up having leaky vessel which will break sooner or later. You have to guarantee that if you replace old vessel with new one then it would not happen again.

Make a game plan for addressing the problem. Once you figure out what went wrong in the relationship – which could be a combination of problems instead of just one – it’s time to think about how you can make things different next time. You don’t want to make your ex-boyfriend want you back if you’ll just run into the same problems and drama all over again.

A “pull” is what the other person does in response to the push. A “pull” is a loss of interest or a display of indifference. It can be anything from them saying “I need more space” to completely leaving you. Usually the less interested person is doing all the “pulling.”

This is where your ex will look back to see how you’re doing without her. And the most important thing to remember here? Make sure she sees you’re doing FINE. In fact, you should be doing better than fine – you should be thriving without your ex girlfriend.

(You want to give them something to chew on. They will be thinking about what’s happening in your life and will want to call or text you to talk about it. You are using curiosity to get your ex contact you. Of course, something must be happening in your life. That’s why creating a positive change in your life is absolutely important before contacting your ex.)

You may hear from mutual friends that he called you a bad name/s or you may get the feeling that he hates you or wants nothing to do with you. Don’t worry, he is emotional and doesn’t mean it. Besides, after 30 days he will change his tune.

By going out on a few dates you are changing your situation in several positive ways; you are getting over your neediness, you are increasing your confidence, and you are getting out of any depression. These are all VERY attractive things.

But this book — aside from being based on my personal experiences — is also based on the experiences of over 1,200 other men. Because after it’s initial release I personally consulted with more than a twelve-hundred readers. Then I updated the course to include every possible breakup situation (and it’s solution) imaginable.

The same can be applied to the first text message you send after the no contact period. Rather than going for it all I would actually recommend that you make the entire interaction very brief and end the conversation first.

You are also getting all these negative emotions and most likely you want to do one of the above mentioned negative actions but keep in mind the way you handle these emotions will define you as person and your success of getting ex girlfriend back depends on it.

Once you fully expressed your feelings now, you should fold the paper and put it in an envelope and put it somewhere. You are going to need this list in next section. Don’t talk about these reasons with your ex you are not ready now. It would need little more work before you can again contact your ex.

It doesn’t matter why you two broke up.  It doesn’t even matter if you want to start a brand new relationship with your ex or just want a night of steamy love… Brad’s techniques have helped thousands of heartbroken men and women retrieve their lost love, and your situation is no different.

My girl and I had been trying to figure out something to do for New Years. Her friends had asked what we were going to do, and I through out the idea of going to Atlantic City, in which they politely declined. Than I figured, what the hell, let us just go, and she started to say how she isn’t going to have the money for it since she will be heading to Michigan with family for the holidays and wouldn’t be working. While she I was away, all I could think about was ringing in the New Year with her for the first time. Things have been perfect. I have never been happier. She brightens up my world.

I met my boyfriend online, I never wanted to get into any kind of relationship since my life and experience are too drama-like and people usually don’t take it. But he did, unlike others, he was genuine, it took me a year to know he was. Now he feels as if I’m lying to him about everything, and that he’s not important to me and decided to dump me two hours ago since I wasn’t willing to let go. Right now, he’s not answering my calls and told me he would not be answering any of my calls in the future and he would barely reply to my emails.

Dated my girl for 6 years and left her to go become a dive instructor on a island. I was gone 2 years but Came back 3 times and instantly back in the sack. I would crew boats back to the states and find a excuse to see her. Last time was normal I came by and we took a couple weekend trips and had sex and exchanged I love yous. Now 3 weeks went by and I came back down to start our relationship back up and within 10 minutes of her picking me up from the airport she tells me she’s seeing someone. I played it cool and when we got back to our old condo she told me I’d have to sleep in the guest room. Still played it cool. A little griping and OK good night. Played it cool for two days and told her I was back to get back together. Trying to explain you told me you loved me three weeks ago and didn’t want me to leave now I can’t sleep in the same room. I’ve been nice and not making myself look needy or desperate and got some nice smiles and laughs. Now tonight I sit to talk after she got home from work and she’s really resisting. Not cold but I tried to get I love you out of her and can’t. Fucking three weeks come on. Still sleeping on the guest bed tonight. I’m here for the rest of the week then going back up near Chi. to do a job for some cash I then wanted to move back in with her. She’s telling me to go up and see how I feel about her after the two month job. But I think she is just trying to make the rest of the week more bearable My birthday is in a couple days and part of the reason I came here was to spent it with her. thought that would give me a nice advantage if anything did go weird. It’s not working. starting to feel really bummed and discouraged. She’s been saying she’s working late and starting to think she’s going to see the boyfriend after work. When she told me she was seeing someone she told me he was out of town this week and would be back this weekend. I can’t believe that this girl I loved so much for so many years would welcome me back three weeks ago but wont now or return a I love you.

Dear, all these mistakes are done by me… but now she doesn’t wanna talk to me and also doesn’t wanna meet me or give me a chance to rectify all things, please suggest something as soon as possible, cause this relation is at very critical stage…

As you already know women leave her boyfriend just because of attraction fades away from her relationship. There are many reasons for why attraction fades away from the relationship but they all cause of insecurity.

I know I probably shouldn’t say this because it will just make things hard for you and me both. But I’m always here for you as a friend Ivan, I care about you and want what’s best for you, that’s the only thing that makes this whole process doable. I’m sorry Ivan I really am.”

Like I said, a little bit of jealousy is a good thing, but you can’t be too obvious about it or your ex will simply get irritated and your attempts at stimulating jealousy will have the opposite effect.

Play hard to get. That’s right. Just when you think you’re about to get your girl back, just when she’s finally realizing what an amazing catch you were, is not the time to declare your love. Instead, throw her a curve ball by making her see that she still has to fight for your affection instead of just falling into your arms. As you start to hang out more and more, make sure to not always be available.

2 days after our break up, I messaged her and we were both emotional. She said she is unsure if she made the right decision and asked if we can just give each other space and a break to work things out individually. It is now day #6 since I’ve last spoken and I am trying to apply the no-contact rule . We agreed that moving to a “Break from each other” and meeting each other till before Christmas as for some “strange” reason she still wants to give me her exchange Xmas presents as we’ve already bought presents for each other before agreeing to go on break. I don’t know if this a sign deep down, we still care for each other or if she’s just leading me on for emotional support.

My name is Dr. George Karanastasis. I am a physician but my knowledge of relationships doesn’t come from school or some prestigious university. I learned these lessons the hard way — one by one through a string of painful breakups. But it wasn’t until my last relationship that everything “clicked”: for the first time in my life I finally understood exactly why women leave in the first place and what makes them want to come back.

Problem is right now we are not really talking. We have not spoken except in very formal text messages (finalizing the breakup) since the day he said he wanted to break up with me. It’s been about two weeks. He said that he would be willing to meet with me but seemed really defensive that I might just try to beg and plead again. I’m worried if I see him he will just keep trying to shut me off, even if that’s not what I’m doing..

My girlfriend broke up with me last month and we haven’t seen each other since last two weeks but yesterday I went to meet her to apologise for hurting her and to ask if we can start from new. However she said me that she cannot feel anything and doesn’t see me as a alpha male. I did buy your exgirlfriendrecovery pro but before I could carry with the plan I realised the whole thing was just created by my being stubborn so I just thought to apologise but I guess this made this worse.

Rather, I want you to think back to every conversation that you have ever had with her. Now, girls are talkative so chances are high she would have let you known when you did something that meant A LOT to her.

hello my ex and I broke up about a month ago but we still were friends with benefits and just last Monday she got asked out by a guy who she told me she liked while we were going out. now she says she still loves me and wants to be friends with benefits but I want to be in a relationship with her. what do I do? please help [otp_overlay]