Prove that you’re faithful. If you and your ex broke up because you were unfaithful, you face the daunting task of convincing him that you will not cheat again. The exact way that you confront the issue should depend on why you cheated in the first place, but regardless of the reason, it’s important to be open and honest with him.[12]

To re-attract your ex girlfriend you’re going to need your body language and general vibe to do a fair amount of the work for you. Up until now your body language has probably been submissive and weak, and that is likely a large amount of the reason she lost attraction for you and broke up with you in the first place.

I know that when a person – especially a man – is stuck between two people, this can come across as weak, indulgent and greedy. There is certainly not a lot of sympathy to go around. The reality is anything but; it makes you feel entirely wretched and after a while can start to erode your self-esteem. It is important, however, to realise you have control over your situation.

I dated a girl for around a year, I broke up with her on and off and pressured her into giving up her virginity, I was also a virgin, I broke up with her countless times and then apologized mintues later, I also said some things about her body, that I found flaws in, I know how wrong I was and have almost been to the point of completely losing it, since we’ve been broken up for nearly 5 months and we’ve spoken maybe five times but she would get upset because I talked about relationship stuff every time, I finally decided to stop and I called even though I know her job is very stressful this time of year she didn’t answer and text me the next day saying she was very busy and I hoped I was okay, she has told me she doesn’t know if she can trust me again and will not say there is or isn’t hope but says I never said never, I’ve been waiting five months and her hell job is almost over and hopefully summer will bring a new attitidue, but I’m afraid I’ve pushed her to far or she wants to date other people first because her therapist thinks it’s a good idea, we lost or v cards together and are each other’s first true love I have overcome my immaturity but she still isn’t ready for anything, what is she waiting for, to completely get over me so she can open up to someone else keeps me on the hook because she doesn’t want to destroy me?

Hi ive been dating my partner for 6 months now. Everything was going perfect for us both.she fell pregnant and i proposed and we got engaged what we both wanted we were both so happy.she decided to have an abortion due to we both wernt financially stable and didnt plan the pregnancy.its was an emotional time for both of us individually. I unfortunately didnt show her support or comfort her during this life changing experience and i made a regretful unmeanful decision and broke up with her.we have been separated for 2 months now and we meet up a month ago caught up for 2 days she mentioned her feelings we still there altho she doesnt want any comments on a relationship at this stage. Until i become more stable and fix some issues i have in my life.I have acknowledged my behavior as i was expressing my hurt emotions and feelings towards her and i begged alittle and didny get me anywhere.. she isnt respondingto my messages or call I’ve respect our situation and havnt its been bit over 2 weeks ive made no contact,until Christmas day i wished her a merry Christmas i didnt get a reply. Im making positive changes in my life and improving my issues. I need some professional guidance and advice aswell as steps to reconnect with my ex.. I sincerely appreciate your understanding and support. Regards Theo

Im 17 and for 8 months i was chasing after this girl and i was her friend. so everyday, id be by her side and wed be cool. i asked her out multiple times and she said no. yea bogus. but she went out with these two guys when they asked her one time. very bogus. but then, they didnt work out, so she was single for a long period of time and i asked her out again, she called our friend over as a witness and i asked her out and she said yes. I was happy because i was going to prom with her at the time as well. so we went out for 5 days and our friend told me she didnt like me but she liked our mutual friend and i was very confused and heartbroken and at the split second without thinking i dumped her. but i regret it and now she wont talk to me like we used to anymore and i sincerely want her back.

Some people say that time heals all…or if not all, at least calms folks down so that they have a shot of enjoying pleasant interactions again. If you’ve been apart only two weeks, it might be a good idea to relax and rejuvenate for a while before you try to reconnect.

However, don’t go overboard in pushing them. Like ”Come on. Just go out with me once. Please. Pretty please.” Or “You broke up with me and broke my heart. The least you can do is go out with me one time.”

Given the circumstances, he may either be currently unsure on how he feels about you and is trying to figure things out, or he may be pushing you away because something happened, in which case you’ll have to figure which of the 2 it is. It’s also surprising that he said yes to being exclusive but retracts it the very next day, stating that he has issues he wants to sort out first and not telling you about these things before hand.

I cried, I begged for her to take me back and asked her to marry me and told her that there’s no one I would rather be with and that I want her and no one else to be the mother of my kids when we decide to have kids. Also told her that I’d rather be alone than not be with her. This wasn’t in person. This was through texts. And this went on for 2 days after the break up (I can provide what each text said from me and her, to get a sense of things) To be honest with you I meant every word and losing her has destroyed me. She’s the love of my life and my everything!! So I didn’t reply to her last text which was 5 days ago now and tried implementing the no contact rule. She changed her relationship status 2 days after the breakup. The first time we broke up which was 4 years ago, it took her a week to change it. We ended up getting back together 2 weeks after the break up back then after I implemented the no contact rule and blocked her on Facebook. Anyway, I actually changed my relationship status before she did this time and Saturday morning I blocked her on Facebook so I couldn’t stalk her on Facebook and see what she’s up to as it would drive me nuts. The thought of her being with another man sickens me and breaks my heart to the point I just want to die.

In terms of romantic relationships, there is a chance that you confused your want – someone who is fun and has lots of money – with your needs – someone who is nurturing, loving, understanding, and supportive financially and emotionally.

In season three, several episodes reveal that Rebecca’s issues are much more knotted than the unchecked depression and anxiety she occasionally mentions. In episode five, “I Never Want to See Josh Again,” Rebecca finds herself living with her controlling mother, stuck in a miasma of depression and bad habits, doing something I do with ritual intensity when depressed: Google the least painful ways to kill myself. After finding out her mother has been drugging her strawberry milkshakes instead of speaking honestly with her about taking medication, Rebecca gets on a plane back to West Covina and tries to kill herself by methodically swallowing the pills she found in her mother’s room. It’s an hour of television that is both harrowing and empathetic. But it’s the next episode, “Josh Is Irrelevant,” that cut closest to the bone.