There’s a good chance your ex will reply to you. If she does; you are free to talk to her. But don’t overdo it just yet. She still might have her defenses up and if you act desperate or needy in any way; it will confirm her doubts.
If you don’t believe in the no contact rule then all I can say to you is that you had better start believing in it. Remember above when I said I spent a lot of time researching this topic? Yea well, I only took a look at credible sources and every one and I mean EVERY SINGLE ONE recommends the no contact rule.
Pardon my French but this is usually a bunch of horse crap! Your ex probably does not believe these words or types of statements. They are either trying to convince you to stop pursuing them; trying to make themselves think that they have moved on; or trying to prove to other people that you are indeed no longer together.
By the way, the best results I’ve seen for people with abusive anger is with the energy therapy techniques of Bradley Nelson, which Dale Petterson in my office does for my clients. It’s quite amazing how these techniques seem to pull the anger out by the roots….though multiple interventions plus conventional couple and individual treatment have to be part of the treatment strategy.
If you decide that you’re ready to get your Ex back, you should also be exploring other options. If you feel that it’s too early to go on a date with someone else, then it’s too early to fully re-engage with your Ex.
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It has been almost 2 years and she seems farther away and ever. I have a hard time following the rules I did the 30 day no contact and all I got was I love you and I Miss you but you need 2 understand that I am trying to protect you. Having a hard time letting go of someone I love very much and thought that we could be together forever. Understand I’m not blaming her. Just a dumb guy didn’t realize what he had and pushed her away my heart is still for that. Pretty sure I have lost all chances or her return
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Before we broke up we took a “break” for about 2 weeks. He suggested that we keep things quiet that we were on a break because we were going to work on things. Later on I found out he had been hanging out with another girl during this time.
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I was married for 10 years with my hs sweet heart. We broke up after a very toxic relationship no trust, drugs were involved we lost everything. I went to rehab & domestic violence counseling. I did it all alone. I moved on and stayed strong for myself and my kids. I started seeing this new guy but he won’t commit 5 months still not his gf. Met his mom & son. But said it’s a lot of pressure to meet my parents for a birthday dinner. I have always been in touch with my ex. Now he said he is a different man. He joined Jiu-Jitsu and I see he is different. Deep down he is the love of my life. But I like this new guy I feel like a different women around him. I feel like I’m at my best. What do I do???
A first out-of-bounds behavior is one thing. If the mistake is corrected and not repeated ever again that is a positive development and can result in continuation of a better-than-ever marriage. Continued deal-breaker behaviors however, I agree, are invitations to divorce.
Now we already talk about all the sensible things that help you to overcome painful feelings of breakup. It is right time to become attractive so you are able to show your ex about what he/she missed by leaving you. Your ex selected you before from others because you subconsciously display traits that attract him/her.
His intention was to stop doing dates with me after this weekend until Aug when we had plans to go to a concert. I asked him yesterday when after the new gf told me he wasn’t going with me (he said he still planned to go) did he really think I’d be okay with that? I feel he doesn’t really know me. He really believes I’ll just wait around for him.
I really want him back and I did plead for another chance, but he says it’s time for us to break out of denial. He says that as much as he loved me, he doesn’t envision a future with me anymore and it’s best for us to put everything behind us and just be friends. Ive asked him if he still loves me, he says he does find himself thinking of me less and feeling less hurt as time goes by. Does this mean he stopped loving me ? I’m really confused.
So write down his phone number and address on a piece of paper and keep it somewhere out of the way, then delete them out of your phone. Get rid of all the pictures on your computer and your phone that remind you of him. Delete his screen names from your lists and get rid of his emails and texts.
Another factor to consider is whether children are involved. If you have children together it creates an obvious reason to get back together, but this is by no means a reason to try to force things to work that are not naturally working.
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My boyfriend broke up with me over a month ago. He won’t answer my calls or texts and blocked me on Facebook. I am trying so hard to stop contacting him via text but it’s hard because we talked everyday for six months. I cry and miss him terribly and he won’t talk to me. I am trying to hard to do the 30 day no contact rule. my email is email@example.com
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Wow. 3 weeks after that phone call, she put “In a relationship” On facebook with someone else (according to a friend; I deleted her after I told her what I knew). Which means she was seeing someone else when I called her (clearly it takes time to go FB official with someone). So she didn’t even tell me on the phone when I called her that she was seeing someone.
It’s very important that you do this correctly. If you mess up here; your ex girlfriend will put up her defenses instantly and you will have to do no contact again for a month or two before trying again.
If it’s genuinely a relationship with potential, you need to do and also avoid doing certain things to get your ex back. One general pointer is that you should keep your dignity. Begging or otherwise behaving too desperately may make your ex feel sorry for you, but will also make you infinitely less attractive. And even if they do go for the ‘lame dog’, imagine how that would cause resentment later on. They might well feel you got back together for the wrong reasons.
After breaking up, I still worked at the same food court as my ex for 4+ months. Considering the state I was in, it would have been best if I just quit right away. I realize now that even though I tried to act normal and happy, I was miserable and pitiful and if anyone saw through me, it was definitely my ex. I realize now that even though I only texted her about 5 instances within this year, she found them annoying not so much because of what I texted but her PERCEPTION of me that I portrayed during work. She knew I was still not over her. The thought of me is very unpleasant for her.
I dated my ex for roughly 1.5 years during high school then a bit past grad. I mainly had the problem with her and it was so much fighting that we eventually had a mutual break up. A lot of it had to do with the fact that I was a little more organized with my future and I had a lot of schooling to do, and pay for. I did deal with her in a very rude way and I also did other negatives in the relationship.
Getting over something is tough, but reliving it over and over again isn’t at all helpful. “Sometimes, you really do need to forgive and forget,” she says. “It’s important to understand that everyone makes mistakes. It’s part of the process of growing and learning what does and doesn’t work in a relationship.”