How long do you stay on Step 2 is totally dependent on how long it takes for you to feel great about yourself and your life. After all Step 2 is all about you. When you think you are ready, you need to move on to step 3 aka Re-attraction.

I WILL ALWAYS TESTIFY OF THE GREAT AND MIRACLELUS WORK OF LORD GBUKA IN MY LIFE AND THAT OF MY FAMILY,IT WAS A MEMORABLE EVENT I WILL FORGET SO SOON…..IT ALL STARTED WHEN I SPOKE BADLY TO MY WIFE ABOUT HER MOTHER BECAUSE SHE DID NOT BUY A GIFT FOR MY DAUGHERTY ON CHRISTMAS DAY 2015.MY WIFE DOES NOT WANT TO FORGIVE ME AND MY DAUGHTER EVEN THOUGH WE HAVE APOLOGIZED TO HER AND HER MOTHER..HE WAS TREATING TO DIVORCE ME..AND SHE SAID SHE HAS DRIFTED AWAY FROM ME BECAUSE OF THE PROBLEM WE HAVE..SHE NOW SPENDS TIME WITH HER MOTHER….THEN I TURN TO LORD GBUKA OF lordgbukasherine34@gmail.com AND HE TOLD ME NOT TO WORRY THAT THEY WILL COME BACK TO ME AND APOLOGIZE TO ME AND MY DAUGHTER…IMMEDIATELY THE SPELL WAS CASTED MY WIFE CALLED ME TO APOLOGIZE TO ME ON THE PHONE AND BEGGING ME TO COME BACK INTO MY LIFE AGAIN…

There’s this guy that had a crush on me,and i also loved him.We where in the same class.He’s a shy type,he couldn’t tell me his mind.people started calling me his name.we quarrelled cos he’s friend also had feelings towards me.he once askd me if he (his frnd) luvs me and i said he doesn’t.we both quarrelled cos he beared a girl’s name.He blocked me on all social networks.It took us 10 months to reconcile.He came back first.bt right now he hasn’t said anything to me abt dating.I want to know if he still luvs me

I’m really not in a position to waste time chasing her so I plan on telling her at the end of the night that I still have major feelings for her and we probably shouldn’t hang out if she doesn’t feel the same way, after I talk to her about some of the guilt that I’ve needed to gather my closure for. What do you think her intentions were in the first place? I haven’t asked any mutual friends that are involved because I don’t want anyone’s opinions or insight about something that only me and her should discuss but I would like some advice on what she could have going thru her head or maybe how to play it so that it does lead into us back together.

I am sorry you are going through this. I am late to reply to your comment and I hope the meeting went well. I think you should do at least a month of no contact. I know you are afraid of her moving on, but not giving her space is just going to push her further away. By giving her space, you will make her miss you and second guess her decision. You need to heal, both emotionally, physically and mentally before you contact her again. If the breakup came out of the blue, then it was probably a loss of attraction and connection. You need to get her attracted to you again before you can start rebuilding a connection. And to attract her again, you need to be the best version of yourself. Read this article for a more detailed plan.

Think about these questions. Don’t be too critical of either him or yourself. All this emotional bullshit, arguing and blaming each other for crap is one of the reasons you might have broken up in the first place.

A huge misconception out there is that because you did the dumping it is a lot easier to get back with your ex. This is completely NOT TRUE. Trust me, your going to have to do a lot of work, perhaps more than the women who were dumped.

I recommend you to tell her that breakup was the best thing, but you realize it would be such a shame to throw away such a great friendship like this. It is important to keep a good vibe of old friends in your conversation.

Once you accept that you and your ex aren’t together, then you have to start learning how to get your ex back. You have to simply start from the beginning as you can’t undo what you have done and what you have said.

I broke up with my ex 4years ago because is cheating on me but right now I got him back with the help of a magician man in Ghana and we are now living happily and also so planning on getting married next month in Canada