She moved out but left a lot of stuff. She came over 7 days later to pick up some more things and we talked for an hour…I told her that I took some time to think and that I wanted her to know how I felt about her, that I love her and that I want her back and that I want to grow old with her…she said why didn’t I feel that way for the last 2 years. I told her I would show her that I am still that man she fell in love with and that I would win her heart back….she said she is looking forward to that…

As painful as breaking up can be, it’s the emotional fallout after the fact that can really ruin a person’s year. Read these steps to learn how to forget your ex-girlfriend and put your life back together.

However, if you can be honest with yourself, you can admit that you don’t NEED your ex in your life – you CAN live without them, you CAN be happy without them, and there ARE other very attractive, wonderful people out there for you.

In this case it really is the classic line “it’s not you, it’s me.” This one can be a little harder to come back from but trust me it can be done if you are smart about how you approach the situation.

Ideally no. You want them to wonder what happened to you and why you are not contacting them. You want to be on your ex’s mind as much as you can. And telling them you are not contacting for some time will defeat this purpose.

I have one for you guys! I started dating this girl that in my mind is the perfect one! I mean I couldnt possibly build a better woman. Well after 4 years of dating we broke up because she was tired of my habbits.!? Well we have been broken up now for three years and she still calls and texts every day. When I go to her house for the night she sleeps in her bed alone. She helps me in any way I need. (Bails me outta jail, pays my phone bill, buys me sweet gifts, ect.)

My boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago. Our relationship lasted for 2 years. At first, he said he wanted some time and space. And then suddenly, he broke up with me and told me that he wants to spend his with his family and friends. I also think that all the bad memories of us were the only ones that stayed on his mind. He blocked me on all social media sites and also my number. We just talked yesterday and talk about the things that didn’t work out. He also told me that he’d unblock me and work out on being friends. I’m planning on starting NC but we have the same circle of friends where we see each other often and we work together, what do you suggest that I would do? How can I make him miss me and realize all the good things that has happened to us.

Most people like to jump from 1st to 4th step (initiating contact with ex) without fixing the problems and then they either end up losing their chance of getting ex or their relationship wouldn’t last long enough.

The thing I want to point out here is that you don’t need to be Brad Pitt to get your ex girlfriend back. I was walking around the mall the other day and I happened to see one of the most beautiful women there walking with a total dork.

However, my ex boyfriend is not currently at the table with me on this one since we are broken up. (He is not ignoring me or saying we will never be together again, but is making it very clear that our relationship is over.) I have been very clingy in the past and ‘convinced him’ to stay with me when there were problems. I think he is worried I will keep doing that so he keeps telling me that it is definitely over.

A lot of times guys will point to one blow up conversation that ended things.  They got in a big fight.  They said some stupid things.  If only they had chosen their words differently, they’d still be together with this girl.