Sadly and unbelievably I could have written that myself word for word! The only difference is I am now 27 years old, he was my ex-boyfriend and I haven’t been with him since to get him out of a bad relationship. I had no idea someone else could be going through the same thing.
First you need to try to list all the things you hate about him, or try to push him away. This way he feel distant from you, and you will slowly see him less and also you will slowing have no feelings for him.
Very inspirational post. I think it is the most toughest time of life when you love someone from the depth of your heart and he/she cheats you and left by any reason. I totally agree here, moving on is necessary and you have done great job by sharing this motivational post.i think this is the best advice. Cut off contact is is best option to move on. Tindiquotes.com.
Do let me know if you have any advice. I don’t think there is much that can be done in a situation like this, other than to try to focus on the positive experiences, but it is certainly not easy to realise that some mistakes cannot be taken back and you cannot always fix something even if you desperately want to. I hope you both get the resolutions that you want. I miss my ex terribly and am still very hurt. I don’t know whether he feels the same or has already moved on but I can only hope that I can move on eventually too x
The reason he is not yet back is that there’s too much resistance and tension between you because of your break-up, your arguments, hurtful exchange of words, your negative feelings for him, and his negative feelings for you (caused by your negative feelings for him).
Then imagine everyone liking and loving you! Imagine them wanting to be near you and talk to you and be friends with you! Imagine being surrounded by a crowd… imagine how they completely adore you! You are a star and you’re fabulous! They can’t help by admire you and be drawn to you! Thank them for giving you that attention!
Ending a relationship can be one of the hardest experiences to deal with. Between the hurt and the anger, you may want to make your ex jealous. Trying to make your ex jealous can be damaging and make you look desperate. Instead of trying to make your ex jealous, focus on yourself. Use this time to rejuvenate your body and mind and move forward. However, if you still need to make your ex jealous, there are a few tricks to make your ex jealous and keep yourself looking disinterested and composed.
Well, I will be the first to admit that it’s not going to be as easy in your case because your ex boyfriend probably thinks he knows everything about you and part of the power of this connection method that I am talking about is when your ex learns something new about you.
From this point you can move on to the next stage of building the desire in him to want to be with you again. If the above three-step formula shows that there is still a chance of the two of you getting back together then it should be more than possible to re-ignite those flames of love quickly.
Three weeks ago, he stopped initiating conversations with me and the texting reduced alot . he called me last night and told me that he had met someone in the last three weeks and wanted to pursue the relationship because he felt that this wasnt healthy anymore. I was beyond shocked but i did understand when he mentioned how he missed being in a relationship etc and that realistically he never knew when i could come back. he also wanted to tell me that he was going to stop talking to me so much as he felt this was for the best and he didnt want to string any girl along ( me or the other girl, he chose the other girl obviously) . I was upset and was emotional and upon stalking the girl ( i am ashamed to admit this) she seemed like the complete opposite of me and I cant help but think it could be a rebound? I said i would accept his relationship but that i did love him. we got into an argument which made him eventually say that he didnt want to give me false hope and we should not speak anymore so that we could both move on. Do i have any chance at all?
Date other people. Just because you’re not over your breakup doesn’t mean you can’t date other people, especially if you keep it casual. You don’t have to be looking for the perfect person. Instead, go out and have fun. When it gets back to your ex that you are dating someone, he will more than likely be jealous.