The questions your asking are personal, and so I encourage you to reflect on what it is you’d like from an ideal relationship and how close this person can get to this. Are the reasons you broke up fixable?
Since it has been over a year, perhaps you can refer to this article as a guideline to getting your ex back. I would suggest that you start off as friends first and work your way from there if you really want her back.
You have a small chance because you’ve already done two nc right? And you still ended up being emotional and now apologizing to him.. Either move on or really stick to genuinely changing your life for the better for yourself, not for him before trying to rebuild rapport..
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Thanks a lot for your advice. I’m just wondering if you maybe make it sound too easy by saying “5 steps to getting an ex back”… in my experience it can take months of work and still you may not win them back. Anyway thanks for the interesting read… Good luck all!
So my bf of almost two years changed our relationship from exclusively dating to date others. He did it because he met someone else. That first week was horrible since he’d still contact me daily. That hurt more than anything.
Our favorite comedian is performing for the first time ever in our city since we discovered him and I asked her if she wanted to go since I got some free tickets to it from a local radio host I’m friends with and she said yes. We are having dinner at the restaurant I work at first because I get 50% off and it’s great food.
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I tried the no contact rule for 60 days. things were really goin on well for me. He did all he could to see me and all as he was desperate to know what I was doing that is far more important than talking to him.
Thank you for sharing your story. It takes a lot of strength to be in your situation with such a level head. If you’re looking into getting back with your ex after years apart, the way in which you reach out will be critical. It would be non-threatening, and serve to establish a platform of future contact. I’d think you’d benefit from reading our “70 Pro Tips To Get Back With Your Ex”, but if you’ve like a more tailored approach given the uniqueness of your situation, please feel free to reach and we’ll book a session.
my ex husband and I have been apart since Nov. 2015 divorced in June 2016 (hardest thing I have ever done) I loved him with everything I had. He always had wondering eyes and occasionally had lunch with female coworkers hince led to the divorce. I don’t think he ever had a physical relationship with any of the 3 women he was “friends’ with. Although I thought if they were his friends why couldn’t they be mine too. None the less we have a 16 yr. old son together and share custody with him. I do currently have a boyfriend who is a wonderful guy but I cant help comparing him the the ex. They are complete opposites. Almost every day since I left my ex he has begged for me to come back (married or not ) he wanted me home he says he has realized what he lost. He didn’t even show at our court hearing saying ” it was just to hard” I am wondering if its truly possible for someone to change. I don’t want to go back just to convenience him and myself in the comfort zone we were used to. He was never abusive to me just not there. I was completely devoted to raising our son the best I could so I know I pushed him away a lot, but now that he is older he doesn’t need us as much. We had been together since 1999. please advise with your thoughts thanks
It’ll never work. Been there done that. Onwards and upwards. These will all be familiar phrases to you if you’ve ever considered getting back together with an ex-partner. Usually they come from well-meaning loved ones. Friends who don’t want you to go back there. Because to return to an ex is to emotionally, and metaphorically, go backwards, right? At least, that tends to be the assumption and whilst I don’t deny that some past relationships are best left well alone, like don’t-touch-that-with-a-ten-foot-pole kind of alone, but there’s also some worth salvaging.
It can shift the dynamic in your favor and you can touch your ex’s heart; but either way you’ll still need to prove your change over time and live out the key messages that you touched upon in your letter.
Always be positive and happy when you’re around him. You can drop subtle hints along the way that you’re still interested in him. For example, you could say, “It’s great to hang out with you. I really missed spending time with you.”
Today my sister found him on EVERY dating site! ONLY 2 weeks after our break up, he’s searching for new girls? I just can’t believe it, it’s totally not him ! it’s like UFOS have taken my boyfriend…
First things first, you are going to become the sexiest version of yourself that the world has ever seen. Let’s say you and I were dating and we had a fight and broke up (I know I am a horrible boyfriend ? .) Anyways, after a month of you basically freezing me out (no contact) I happen to bump into you at a Starbucks or somewhere where we both frequented. The first thought I have of our encounter will be based on the choices that you made during the 30 day no contact period. If you sat around feeling sorry for yourself and ate ice cream on the couch all day I will probably think “she looks terrible.” However, if you spent that no contact time working on yourself physically and mentally I am probably going to think “WOW! She is even more beautiful than I remember.”
Similarly if you don’t control your anger and only fix the mistakes that happened in the previous relationship then you only end up having leaky vessel which will break sooner or later. You have to guarantee that if you replace old vessel with new one then it would not happen again.
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The day we broke up, we went out fishing with two friends and it was really cool, and we went to see some of his friends play handball ( which is a very important part of his liife, but i have never played, so don’t really care, but I wanted to make the effort for him and to be with him). I was doing so good until he decided to go play ball with his friends during half time, leaving me alone on my chair, while I had come to be with him. There were two people I had talked to before close by ( which was his excuse to leave me) but they were talking the foreign language and imagine how hard it is to engage in the conversation when you don’t know what it,s about and you need to switch language… So i got mad at him and told him it wasn’t cool to leave me on my own.
Every relationship is unique, so it may take several weeks for you and your ex-partner to reconnect or it may take several months. Gauge your ex-partner’s comfort level by gently suggesting meeting up in person for a coffee or a drink after a period of talking back and forth via text, email, or phone. Choose a place that you know will be comfortable for your ex-partner, preferably a public place, and be accommodating to your ex-partner’s schedule when choosing the meeting time. It’s important that your ex-partner feel that you are willing to meet them on their terms, as this will demonstrate respect and care for their needs.
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Watch actions, don’t listen to words. No matter how much your ex promises he’ll never touch another drop of booze, or another woman, or will definitely get a job this time, don’t listen to anything. Watch to see how he behaves. Remember it’s his actions in the relationship that will determine everything. And watch for changes before agreeing to another chance. [otp_overlay]