this is the first time i read this article. .actully his my boyfriend until now. .i just want to forget him even though were still in a relationship. . i just want to prepare myself from getting hurt. coz i know to myself that if one day i lose him .. i will die thats why im preparing….

Everything was going very fine, and suddenly he messaged me that he doesn’t even want to be with me anymore because he doesn’t feel for me the same way he did. Everyday he was like, he is not going to come back and all. When i came from my home to my college, he is also in the same college, we met again, but still he was like doesn’t have feelings. We spent time as he was clearing the facts that he doesn’t feel for me but still care for me. We shared some intimate moments and he is like that was only one moment, that’s it. How come feelings got vanished suddenly. We never fought and I supported him a lot in every aspect. i have tried so many things to save this relation.

All experiences of loss needs to be given time for mourning. Grieving is a part of the natural process towards healing. It is also highly individualized. People grieve in their own way and when to move from grieving cant be dictated. However, each one would intuitively know on their own when it would be time to make certain steps towards healing. For break ups, acceptance and forgiveness plays an integral part in total healing.

The very next day I went out with my friends for drinks. We went to a popular place that people usually go. That’s where I saw him my ex and surprisingly I was calm. I even saw him flirting with other girls. Before I had started using the law of attraction this would have really upset me but since I had learnt about the ways of the law this had no effect to my emotions. I just continued to have positive thoughts and I decided that I would let him have his fun while I had my fun. Later that evening my ex’s friends joined my friends and I. I was surprisingly having a good time with him and I had no ill thoughts about how he had hurt me.

Hi. My name is shandrickia and I need advice for my relationship. Me and my now ex boyfriend has been dating for 2years. The cause of us breaking up is because I was listening to wat people say about him nd I started accusing him of cheating. But he really wasn’t. We have been broken up for two months now. We talk often. But I really want him back but idk what to do. I’ve been trying to get him back but he won’t budge. He say he tired of the arguing and don’t want to be in a relationship right now. ? wat should I do to win my way back into his heart? He said he still care and love me but sometimes it’s hard to tell.

PSYCHOLOGY: This one is more complicated, and this is where you can put your magic to work.. Psychology is actually pretty simple if you know what you are doing. The only problem is, people act in the wrong way to get their results, and mess up their chances in the process. However, if you KNOW what you are doing, you can play your ex’s feelings like an instrument.

This is why it’s ideal if you do it at your place, ’cause then you can prepare a bit, you can make the atmosphere amazing. Anything you’ve not been doing in the past, but know he loves, now’s the time to get with the program. You never gave him oral when you were together before? Are you too shy to talk dirty? Do you hide under the cover?

Remember what caused you to break up. Relationships that are on-again-off-again tend to be volatile and emotionally unstable. Remembering what caused your original break up and dealing with those issues can help to prevent some of the same challenges from cropping up again.

This is a clever tactic that you may have heard of before, and how it works is pretty straightforward. You simply cut off all communication with your ex for about 30 days. Now you may be thinking, “But what if he forgets about me?” or “There’s no way disappearing is going to help me get him back,” but the truth is, removing yourself from the picture will make your ex miss you.

Sadly and unbelievably I could have written that myself word for word! The only difference is I am now 27 years old, he was my ex-boyfriend and I haven’t been with him since to get him out of a bad relationship. I had no idea someone else could be going through the same thing.

Listen, sure, finding some new dude may be okay for you as a bandade, but it won’t help you get your ex-boyfriend back. You should make him jealous in a smarter way. Like, he should see that there are guys mingling around you, but don’t let him see that you’ve actually found someone. Don’t post stupid, drunken-party pictures on Facebook of you making out with some random dude.

Now once the passion and love dies, very few people know that the effort and hardwork can actually get it back. They keep on questioning about How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back? But what they are not ready to do is hard work.

I still don’t know what to do… I was with my ex for 5 months I know it’s not long but my friend had past away and I honestly thought I needed time to clear my head and it’s been over a week since she’s been gone and I miss my ex so bad he was there for me he was my shoulder to cry on and I regret so much breaking up with him so much I literally feel like I’m goin insane without him yea I know this sounds dumb but I need him back… I want him and only him before he goes into the army for 3 years someone please help me… what do I do

He may approach you, albeit for friendship or you may lose nothing by extending that hand. Don’t get your hopes high, though. No matter how high you may be riding on those clouds now, keep it light, engaging, and on the surface. Don’t dive deep too soon and do not be rude, either. Don’t scrape up old bruises and do not rush in to talk of a future when the ‘present’ is hardly fully present! Just communicate and stay in touch.

SIDE NOTE: You may feel as if I am really grilling your approach to relationships here, but as I said, there’s a positive purpose to it. You need to see what went wrong so that when you apply my how to win your ex back steps, you won’t be sabotaging the effectiveness of those steps by behaving in ways that got you dumped to begin with.

– Remember everything will be OK. Look, I married my ex-boyfriend 11 years after we broke up, and we ran into each other many times during that time frame and nothing came of it. It was only after we’d worked on ourselves independently that we were able to be in a place where we could have a successful relationship. I’ve had other exes I wanted back over the years, but looking back I’m so glad we stayed broken up. We don’t always know what’s best for us. Just trust that things will all work out.