Penn State University collegiette Rachel Lytle puts it bluntly: “Just literally stop any form of communication altogether. No Facebook, no Skype, no texting or phone calls. Nothing for a few months. You’re left with no choice but to move forward!”

It may seem like he’s being manipulated, but he’s an adult.. Unless there’s a gun pointed at him, every decision he made, he made it on his own.. And let’s say he is being manipulated, do you want a guy who can’t stand up for you, choose you or only chooses you when he’s having a problem with whome he’s currently with and then ignores you when they’re ok again?

A week after he had sex with one of those girls. Now he has one girl who reguarly visits, works with and has sex with. She is the complete opposite of me in looks and personality. He keeps this a secret from me and I heard it from his roommate who is a close friend of mine. I don’t know if he really likes her or if she is a rebound. He doesn’t know I know this because I do no contact.

Instead of thinking of the past and what happened, you need to re-write the past. You need to re-create the negative experiences and turn them into positive ones. You need to re-write your arguments into conversations about your future. You need to re-write your break-up and turn it into him saying he wants to marry you, and so on…

“You were right too about how much I coddled my children’s mother. The reality is that I was afraid of her.  Just like when we were married I was always trying to keep her from getting mad at me. When I was depressed I had no spine for anything.  That era is over as well.  Now when she calls, I get the facts of who to pick up when and where, and that’s it.”

Why a year though? Truthfully, I wanted to tell you to never contact him again. However, experience has taught me that in certain cases it is never good to burn any bridges. Now, while I will concede that cutting someone out of your life for an entire year may seem like burning a bridge and maybe technically it is “burning a bridge” but you are only setting that bridge on fire for a year.

EXPERIENCE how it feels to be back together after you have been apart all this time.. Really feel his arms around you again..Feel his love in how tightly he holds you.. Hear the sweet things he whispers in your ear… How happy he is that he and you are together again.

Stop talking: The best of choice is to stop talking for a moment. This is the best of advice one can give as a love guru. Because always keeping on talking can be stressful and result in some useless talks that can destroy an entire relationship of many years. So just calm yourself and think for a moment that what went wrong in many years of relationship. Is it your work, talks, or heavy schedule? And then try to compromise on it. It’s in the best interest of you.

Getting over an ex can be hard and it can take months before you really start to heal. It doesn’t even matter who dumped who, you can’t just wipe someone that you have cared for from your mind. You probably have a load of unanswered questions too, like could you have done more, or why did he do what he did. Whatever the circumstances behind a breakup might have been, as hard as it may seem at the time, you have to let go and you do need to move on. If you are still being held back by thoughts of your ex, read these ten tips on how to get over your ex boyfriend and what you can do today.

My name is Laura I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years everything was good he was so good and sweet to me we spent every second of everyday together till about a week and a half ago he said he’s not in love with me anymore he doesn’t feel the same way I told him we always get through it we can fix it but he didn’t want to. I begged and pleaded but nothing seems to work anymore I sent him our pictures our videos but he’s just acting very cold towards me. I really need your help my heart is breaking I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried the no contact rule but we study at the same collage and have all the same classes and he always sits next to me asks how I’m doing and does the class work with me. This happened once before but it only took him 3 days to come back to me since I was still in school and he did not see or hear from me for 3 days. he’s never been in love i was his first love he was a player before me and we were like family. he is not him at all he’s acting very strange and different i don’t know what to do. when he talked to me he told me he’s been feeling that way for 2 weeks he said that when we kiss and touch he doesn’t feel the same anymore. I’ve noticed him with this new girl this past week but i can tell he’s not in love with her. I’m just afraid he gets used to her and his new life away from me because he said he doesn’t feel happy with me anymore and he wants his life back. I’m really in love with him. i tried to tell him love will come and go i told him he was feeling that way because we’ve been fighting for 2 weeks and he kept saying he feels like were distant, but he kept insisting thats how he feels and the love isn’t coming back.

Also, this is slightly different than I thought I should do it. Based on what I should text him after the 30 day + few more for divorce date to go by mark, (based on your article) I have actually composed a message. The flow of the message is as follows:

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Hi please I need your advice, I have 11 years live in partner we have 4yrs old daughter. My partner had first family but they were not married he decided to celebrate holidays to his first family. I look like i was in tantrums for being angry so he broke up with me. I dont know what to do now and I felt so pity to my child.I want him back but he never showed up here..

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There are many forms of love, and it has the capacity to shift, evolve, and change over time. Let the romantic love you felt evolve into a different type of love that encompasses caring and compassion for a person who had an important place in your life. This will help facilitate the healing process. A good deal of the pain we feel when a relationship ends has to do with the loss we perceive. Conceptualizing it as a transition instead of a loss can ease some of the hurt. The truth is the relationships we have in life last forever. They last in our memories, in the feelings we have when we think of them, in who we have become because of them, and in the lessons we take forward from them.

You might not be ready to start something new, but you need to take the time to let someone else be nice to you now. Many of us don’t move on because we don’t think we’ll ever find someone to love us again. I’m someone who has a difficult time moving on for that reason.

The problem with this for you has been that your nice behavior has prevented your woman from seeing you as a superior man, for the reason I outlined above (approval seeking). And of course if your girl doesn’t see you as superior, she then loses attraction for you. This is when thoughts of ending the relationship enter her head.

This one  might sound a little cliche, but it’s helpful. Left alone with nothing but boredom and time, the mind can wander, we can start feeling like a victim and depressed, start scheming up ways to get him back, start plotting revenge or other non-healthy schenannigans. The best thing to do here is take out your calendar and start filling it up. Call all those people you’ve been meaning to call, start that new exercise thing you’ve been wanting to do, cook meals you’ve never cooked, volunteer where your heart tells you to, anything. An add on to this is to make plans for your future.  Set goals, break them down, plan them out. Strategize and list out your “hell yeses”. What do you want to do that you weren’t able to do when you were attached? This is your opportunity to do what YOU want.