You should hang out with friends, lose yourself in an activity, … Anything that could take your mind of of him, because thinking about something often will only make you think about it more, until you start to ruminate. If this is too hard, or is working in reverse, another way is to grant yourself half an hour of thoroughly thinking about him (per day/per 12hours/…) After those 30min., you prohibit yourself of thinking about him for the rest of the time.

Whatever your fears are I want you to face them. I want you to look fear in the eye and give him the finger (fear is definitely a guy by the way.) This is a time to get strong by facing those fears AND DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT. You see, it isn’t enough to just face your fears. You need to take positive action AFTER you face it.

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To be honest, I think it’s actually a good time to send him the email, as it creates a bigger impact (birthday, Christmas and the start of his holiday). If you want him back, you could send the email then and definitely include the birthday and Christmas wishes as well.

“Closure means finality; letting go of what once was,” she wrote in Psychology Today. “Finding closure implies a complete acceptance of what has happened and an honouring of the transition away from what’s finished to something new.”

If your ex’s friends ask you if or why you are “avoiding” them, just say something like: “I’m really trying to make some time for myself. While I was with [your ex], I didn’t always get to. Now that we’re no longer together, I’m making that a priority.”

Also, find out if you matured or have grown up from the break-up. It is important for you to grow up after the break-up as this will let you bring a newer and improved version of yourself into the relationship. The same should go for your ex.

Yet another example of the man in the relationship not taking the lead, and perhaps even behaving submissively. Nowhere is the male dominance/ female submissiveness dynamic more important than in the bedroom. Bucket loads of attraction gets lost this way.

I’m definitely NOT saying you should have been looking to have a kid with her recently – not at all. I’m just saying that the relationship should have been very gradually progressing into more and more serious territory. Women need to notice this kind of progress because it shows them that eventually the relationship could lead to them delivering what nature intended – kids.

I just read what happened to you with your ex-girlfriend, becoming depressed because of a back injury at 23 and living with your girlfriends family and letting her go because you were moody and lost all self-esteem. But still being in love with her.

There are caveats to all this (isn’t there always?) and I even developed a tool that will tell you exactly how long to take a break for in my Breakup Dojo membership program. But only giving him a few days of space is not enough.

It could be that there were things he didn’t feel okay about but never shared with you, or it could have been completely for no reason and he started taking the relationship for granted (hence the lack of effort), which is common for many relationships that have gotten too comfortable. If you really want to know, I suggest speaking to him and asking him to be honest.

While I Met Him And Saw Him On  Alternative Days Regularly I went To Meet His Mom With My Mom Regularly & Thus We Both Were In Love At 1st Sight But He As Per I Know Is A Bit Shy In Sharing Some Of The Things With Me & So I Thought To Send Him A Friend Request On Facebook .. Then We Started Chatting & Then On Whatsapp He Proposed Me.. But The Next Day Fortunately I Wanted To Go For A Walk And There Was No Option Except Him To Take Me For A Walk.. So We Both Went & Hugged & Kissed Eachother.. But 1stly He Kissed Me On My Forehead.. & So  Travelling at Many Places 20th Dec We Had  Reached Kolkata & 29th This Was The Last Day , Date I Had Seen Him, Met Him, Talked Personally Etc.. Now Here I Want To Tell You the Next Step That Was Happened.. Both Our Moms Dont Know About Us That We Were Committed & etc Uptil Now Also.. and he proposed me Through Whatsapp and etc.. bla bla..Because There Was No Time For Him or Me To Give Me Rose & Etc…  now i will tell u one more thing here, Yes,He planned Out The Future With Me & According To My Wishes.. He Was So True For Me I Realised When He Planned Out Future With Me & Everything That He Shared Included Me & My Wishes.. & Everything He Considered To Happen Was For & In Favour Of My First & This Was Whole Our Both’s Decision To Shift To A Different City That Was Us Being Together Forever.. But Then This Long Distance Between Us Was So Affecting That After 1 & half Month He Started Losing Out Talking To Me & That Was My Mistake.. I talked About The Past & The Reality That We Both Have Faced.. And Such Serious Matter Was so Deep That He replied very much less and from that time even talking to me on call gotten less .. I Thought He Was Busy.. But This Busy- ness Was not his reason at all….. now the thing is we both dont have any common friends also.. so once in the beginning he introduced his cousin bro to me on skype .. and so since then his bro and me started talking about me and my ex.. so the point is that his bro showed me all weak as well as strong points of my ex and i agreed bcoz he told me that he is the closest one to him uptil now… Now Everything Went Smooth But as I Said I Talked Even About Past Which Was My Weak Point And i agree was my mistake that i did it and now i come on to the break up Thing.. 

I have no definite proof of him being with any of the OW and until I do I will continue with my contact etc. We are set to meet in November, when he is changing ships. We will again get to spend significant time together and this is my deadline date. We will either decide to pursue a new relationship or I’ll walk away forever.

I was in a relationship with someone I truly loved,we both were so cool.. Together not until one day he called me just to get to see each other;but to my surprise my ex boyfriend asked me if I was hiding anything from him which sincerely I was not.I don’t know what led to his questions;he stopped communicating with me since then am still confused till date. Can’t figure why his acting up.even if it’s hurt I tried to move on since last year but it has not being easy. I don’t even know what I did

Again, showing her that she’s got you 100% by the balls like this will make her bored, which equates to reduced attraction that contributes to a break up. It’ll also indicate to her that you have no other viable dating options (because if you did have such options, why would you be so concerned with stressing your commitment?).

Get in shape. Sitting around eating ice cream and chocolate is not going to accomplish anything, except maybe an extra 5-10 pounds. Instead of letting yourself go as you get over the breakup, get moving. Drop a few pounds and tone your body to make your ex jealous when he sees your improved physical shape.[4]

In all fairness, it’s not like you were born with an arsenal of tools for fixing a damaged relationship. It’s not like someone can physically take your hand and magically reunite you with your lover. Or can they?..

Whatever it is – it’s an opportunity to text him, “Hey, I saw a commercial for a cruise the other day and it reminded me when we went to the beach for a week together. That was so much fun, I’m really glad we did that together.”

The accumulation of internal images of lovers contributes to a richer internal world. These images represent the breath of our loving self. We are strengthened by the variety of ways in which we can experience ourselves as loving. As the adage goes, we never fall in love the same way twice. We are revealed to ourselves through our relationships. Maybe in some ways all loves are important in allowing us to experience ourselves as loving.

The way you communicate with her via text and in calls will need to change. Given that you’re in a break up you’ve probably been doing it completely wrong, replying instantly to her messages even though she takes hours to respond to you. This has to stop and you need to start doing it right, after the no contact period. That’s why I’m going to teach you how to get your ex-girlfriend back fast by text message, although be aware, texts are only part of it.

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