Use the things she liked about you before to your advantage – For instance, if she likes a particular outfit, then consider wearing it again when you are meeting her. You can also talk about a fun and light-hearted memory you once shared. Have dinner or visit a place that both of you are familiar with since you hang out there before most of the time.

While it is quite challenging to figure out exactly how to get your ex-girlfriend back, note that it is actually possible. There are plenty of solutions out there that will help you win her back and let your love bloom once again. However, before making your move towards her, it is important to ask yourself first whether it is really what you want.

One additional thought. You might want to check out my post on infusing your interactions with positivity. It’s not just moths that are drawn to light. See http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/resolution-not-conflict/201207/10-ways-radiate-positivity-and-be-attractive. Maximize the positives in your interactions, delete the negatives like criticism or irritated emotions, and the odds will be likely to shift in your favor.

Sure, while they all reveal the fundamentals of relationship repair (the same ones you’ll discover when you read through this course)… they fail to mention the crucial factors that are needed to bring your girl back.

Well…I was in a long distance relationship. My ex and I were together for about a year, but in those twelve months we broke up about twelve times. But the relationship ending horribly was my fault, I told her I’d come see her and that I’d pay for her to get here to see me sometime, but I was too scared of what she’d think of me..among other personal things. All I want is a family with her because honestly she is perfect for me and I…was perfect for her. I might as well be honest, gaming took over my life and because of that I hardly ever go out or do anything. It also made me angry all the time and now I’m trying to change everything. I cry day in day out thinking that I’ll never have a family with the girl I love, she still loves me but isn’t ready to be with me and I’m not ready either but I’m willing to change for myself and for her. Most people would say that I’m too young to be thinking about having a family and whatever but it’s my life. Please if you can, help me figure out what I’m doing wrong and what I need to do. I’m going to die young so I have to live fast, this is true, I’m not attention seeking, I’m not like that. But anyway I really need to change and get her back, I want a life. Please help.

If, after spending some no-pressure time together, you both mutually feel that there’s still a strong connection between you, you can bring up the topic of your relationship and whether the two of you might want to explore the possibility of getting back together. You might say something like, “I’ve been thinking about our breakup, and I think I understand the problems that led up to it. Do you want to talk about it?”

i fall in love with a girl from the first sigh i keep asking about her then weve meet up a few times as friends then i send a friend to ask her if she wanna be my girlfriend this how its works in my country in the first she says she will think about it then i go by myself to talk to her then she says no and my heart was broken i really love her i was watching for over 4 monthes i cant hold on what should i do to say yes

Hello, my ex girlfriend of just over two years just broke up with me over the phone a week ago, to me this was completely out of the blue, but she said she had been mulling it over for a month or so. Her explanation was a couple things. One was that she felt I deserved better than her because I was such an awesome person and that I put in 110% into the relationship and she did not. Which is not true because I could not ask for any more than what she was. The second was that she felt there was pressure to “put a ring on it” which is also not true. Not saying I wouldn’t like to spend the rest of life with her, just that it was definitely not time at all. After asking her the next day to meet up the following day because I believe there was things still left unsaid and that it should be done face to face, we both agreed we needed some time to get our emotions straight. She reached out to me a few days later asking to meet up the next day. Following that she backed out of meeting saying there was no point and that it was just dragging things out and that it was already over. So now the next day I sat up all night with these thoughts in my head, eventually I put them down in a text and sent it explaining that She never did anything wrong, that I know this wouldn’t change her mind but it was something I had to say, how our memories together will be with me forever and that I will always love her. She responded back with saying How hard this is for her too and she didn’t want to hurt me but she didn’t want to drag me along either, she still loves and cares for me, and she will always cherish our memories together as well. I have not contacted her since but this whole thing has just left me utterly confused and heartbroken. I feel like with just a little bit of communication things could have worked out just fine. That she really does have feelings for me, but because she thought less of herself that she didn’t deserve me.

If your boyfriend was physically, emotionally, or verbally abusive in any way, you should not try to get back together with him. It’s perfectly normal for you to miss him even if it was an unhealthy relationship, but it’s important to remind yourself that you can do better.

Psychologist Jack Mearns studied people’s reactions to breakups. Those who got over the relationship quicker and easier were those who coped actively – by pursuing new friends, getting involved with hobbies, etc.

This self-confidence is extremely attractive. Developing this kind of self-confidence is the best way to get your ex-girlfriend back. Women love to see men who are focussed on their goals and have a vision for their future.

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I have just broke up with my BF after our 5 months relationship together. We never had fight or argument along 5 months. Everything went very well and we both were very happy. He suddenly told me he wanted to be just friends but with lots of different reasons like I am too sweet, I am too good and he isn’t good enough as a BF. But I found out 8 days later that the real reason of breaking up was he going back to his ex who he was with for 2 years. They broke up nearly a year ago and she asked him to try again. Their relationship ended because a lady said he didn’t try hard enough… My Bf feels like it was his fault of ending his relationship with her so he seemed excited to get her back and told me he is preparing to try and change because he was happy when he was with her.. He left me to go back to his ex and now he is very happy having her back…Do you think is there any chance for me to get him back?

Thanks! I’m not sure whether is she still missing me now. I realise she might be seeing someone now who is actually her Friend for few years. I just recently make a Christmas card and mail it to her house. The card that I write doesn’t show any needy words like ‘I miss you’ or ‘I still love’. It’s just purely a simple Christmas wish for her. Will you please advise me that am I doing the right thing? Thanks!

Know when it’s not working. If you’d been back with your ex for a while and something just isn’t right, then it may be true that you did break up for a good reason, after all. Some couples thrive on the drama of breaking up and getting back together, but there’s usually a reason why two people can’t stay together, and it’s that they just aren’t right for each other. If the same problems are creeping up again, or you or your ex just aren’t happy, then it may be time to take the relationship off life support.

please help me out. my ex broke up with with because she said she was tired of the relationship. i met another lady and we are dating. My ex girl who was in the states has now come back to the country and wants us to trash our differences and make up. but am in another relationship and i love this new girl. However, seeing my ex girl again brought back memories and the love i had for her but scared she will be stubborn again. i dont know who should i continue my life with since my current girl has done nothing to me and also loves me

Tuck away those reminders so you’re not drawing into that feeling of longing every time you walk by them. Your home should be a place where you can relax from your day to day worries – there’s no need to make it a shrine to one worry in particular. Remembering the good times can feel nice for a minute, but it will only make moving on even harder. Once you put away the reminders, you’ll find it easier to stop missing her.

Getting the partner to want to work at the marriage is generally one of the least effective ways to initial marriage upgrades. I like though your idea about understanding the other person better, especially if your partner is someone who doesn’t open up and talk. The more you understand your partner’s patterns and take those as given, the more you become ready for real change.

To re-attract your ex girlfriend you’re going to need your body language and general vibe to do a fair amount of the work for you. Up until now your body language has probably been submissive and weak, and that is likely a large amount of the reason she lost attraction for you and broke up with you in the first place.

I just want to let you know that I respect your decision to end things and that I saw it coming for a while. It just didn’t feel right. Also, I would like to apologize for how I acted during the break-up. It wasn’t right for me to force you into something you didn’t want; it was disrespectful, and for that I am truly sorry.

Hi thanks for the great advice! Also it’s hard with the NC rule due to we work together. Just today I talked with her for the first time in 4 days only because I have to at work. Although I said hello and merry Christmas, it was still strictly only work related . She was very dry with me even though it was only work related.

The thing you have to remember is that NC is only effective if you let a good amount of time pass. Anyone can ignore someone for a day but it can have an entirely different effect if you were to ignore someone for a month.