We ended up breaking up arguing… she yelled at me and hung up on me.. i said things to her after that she said made her feel like a monster after I said how inconsiderate she was, etc… She messaged me the next day and tried to get back together the next day, and I said no…then she messaged me and said ‘good luck with your career’ and that was it. my last message was basically telling her its healthy for us to stop and that i dont want to be on bad terms and i feel we should talk, and told her its up to HER to call me as I wont message her again. apparently she is at ease now according to mutual friends. I think its because the relationship was emotionally draining the last 4 months.

Identify the issues that may have lead to the break up. You can do this in an active way by keeping a journal and writing down your thoughts and feelings around the break up. Think about factors that may have lead to the break up, such as infidelity, a lack of trust, or a lack of sexual desire. Make a list of these factors and consider if you are responsible for any of these reasons.[2]

You have to look at both negative and positive aspects of your ex and your relationship. Every couple on the face of this planet fights, but if you two broke up, then chances are there was something seriously wrong with your relationship. Think about your relationship rationally. Don’t let your emotions control your thoughts. Imagine, you are a parent and your child was in the same situation as you, would you still tell your son or daughter to get their ex back?

Thank you for your share and I’m sorry to hear about your current situation. I know how hard this can be. I think that in order for us to answer your question of whether she’ll give you another chance, we’ll have to delve deeply into the reason behind her distance. What pushed her away and are these things fixable? If you need help identifying this and developing a strategy to turn the situation around, please feel free to let me know, I’d love to work with you.

i still want to go purely because it was a very expensive holiday.. i communicated back with him that out of respect i think it’s fair if he changes his flight and in return i can sort out moving him into a different hotel.. at first he was ok and now he’s asking if it’s necessary which i said yes it for the best.. he replied back if that’s the way it has to be he is fine with that.. deep down i am hurting that he sounds so cool about it all.. and yet i just want him to say sorry and work things out.. my friends reckon he will regret what he has done, i really do love him but i refuse to beg him to come back or even communicate with him.. i want him to miss me.. do you think there’s any chance between us?

That’s why you need these 4 weeks to calm down, put the pieces back together, and take a real look at what your relationship was. Getting perspective means you can see clearly whether you were happy, whether you were right for each other, or whether you even want to have the relationship back.

When a girl stops feeling attracted to her boyfriend (or husband), the relationship goes stale for her, and if she has any dating market value left (i.e. if she’s still hot enough to draw in a decent new guy) then she will dump the boyfriend and sooner or later she’ll go get a new guy (one who she DOES feel attraction for).

Hello to you all, My name is Rhumer S. Barioga i am from Philippines,in two years i have been living alone because of my ex-boyfriend that i with all my heart,i call him to come to back to me but he did not he told me that he don’t love me aging that he love someone,so i did not know what to do because i love him so much that i cant live him,so one i was on face book and i see someone tell a testimony abut this man called Dr,Okwyzil that he help her to get back her ex husband back to her but i did not believe that dis DR can do it,so i did not email the Dr but i email the girl an ask her if that was rely she told me that Dr,Okwyzil do a spell for her and ask her to use it on him and she did it,but i did not believe but i ask her to gave his email and his number to call him so she did so i call this Dr,Okwyzil and told him all.he told that he will do a spell to help me ask me to email him on email dr.okwyilspelltemple@hotmail.com and he send me some info that i will gave him to use i send him the info so he did a spell and send someti to use on him an i do what he ask me to do and i call him an tell him that have don it he told that my ex-boyfriend will call me the let day,so i was at home hem someone call me in my supply it was my ex-boyfriend he told me that he was sorry for what he did and he love me so i told my ex-boyfriend that have a boyfriend now but he told that he will knell hesif if i don’t take him back i told him that i will call him,the let day i see him at my house ask me to forgave him that he don’t know what hpped to him i told him to go i will call him but he did not he was den for 1pm to 4pm i look at him ask him if he love me he told me yes and ask me if i will marry him so i told him yes,now my ex-boyfriend is now my husband we have two child i an very happy now with my husband,so one day i told Dr,Okwyzil that i and my husband don’t have a good job and ask him to help me,now me and my husband is working in a good company ,i don’t know how to thank Dr,Okwyzill for what he did for me sir god will bless your me,so to you all that love someone and you need him back i will ask you to email Dr,Okwyzil for help on hes.email dr.okwyilspelltemple@gmail.com

I had been with my ex for 3 years when he broke up with me last week presumably because I was angry that he went to the bar on our anniversary instead of coming straight home to me, and I overreacted. I feel like our relationship was a really good one and that we both each other’s support systems. We communicate really well, genuinely enjoy each other’s company(until last week that is), and have a lot of common interests. I already broke all the rules outlined in your other article, but it’s only been 2 days so I feel like I can come back from it, the problem is that we live together. I have my own room, but I still need to collect rent and bills from him and my other roommate, as well as use the kitchen every once in awhile. Any advice on how to initiate ‘no contact’ when living together?

Nevertheless, if category B fits your situation, then you have a really great chance of getting your ex back so long as you play your cards right from here. Move onto the next step and I will help you and show you how to get your girl back!

So my ex broke up with me a little over a month ago after a 3 months relationship & several months of talking & getting to know each other really well (starting in the summer but wasn’t a fling). He is 24, I am 21, we felt serious, he would mention marriage. We had many common goals & other things & he loved that. Commitment/marriage seemed serious to him, he was all about values & didn’t like relationships where he wasn’t sure about marriage (I was a little hesitant about it). I was getting out of a breakup as well & vented to him a lot in the first 1-2 months/I mentioned the ex sometimes which he didn’t like & looking back I shouldn’t have done.

It can shift the dynamic in your favor and you can touch your ex’s heart; but either way you’ll still need to prove your change over time and live out the key messages that you touched upon in your letter.