Am giving this testimony because someone out there may have similar problem My Husband doesn’t think polygamy is wrong. He has been seeing another girl for about five months now. I told him that he needs to stop, but he says he is in love with her. They’ve talked about being together “forever” and eventually her moving in with us. My husband still loves me. He regrets getting into this in the first place, but is not willing to just break up with her. He says if they so break up then thy will be it and he will not pursue another relationship. I contacted Prophet Miracle a spell caster who cast a 3 days spell for me surprisingly my husband came home on his knees begging me to forgive him that he has broke up with his mistress all thanks to Prophet Miracle I pray that God will continue to use you to help people. Friends don’t die in silent because someone like Prophet Miracle has a solution to your problem i am living happily with my family. Contact him via his email address firstname.lastname@example.org
Remind him, through your actions, why he fell in love with you in the first place. Think back to the person you were when he fell for you, and then compare that person to who you had become by the end of the relationship. If you were more eager to enjoy a night on the town when he fell in love with you, then go out more often with friends, and try meeting up with him and his friends, too. If you had firmer career goals when you first met him, but let those goals slip, maybe you should spend some time fortifying the goals once more. This reflection on how you’ve changed is a constructive exercise regardless of whether you’re getting your ex back or not. Focus on those positive attributes in need of repair, and you will not just become more attractive to your ex-boyfriend, but you’ll also become a stronger person independently.
“Human experience has not yet devised anything,” Peter wrote on an early email, “that can shield us from the pain of a broken love, the pain of feeling thrown out of your own world and out into the cold. Same as being born: I huddled in a very cosy place that was my natural place to be, then all of a sudden I am ejected into a new and hostile place, one that’s not where I felt at home. And there is nothing the baby can do but scream and cry and feel terrible.”
There are time tested, proven strategies that you can start implementing immediately to get him back regardless of your past with him and no matter what might have caused your breakup. You CAN learn to win him back and get him back for good. Trust me when I say we (men) are easier to win over than we let on to be.
I have had a 12-year relationship with a good friend. He travels for work and we usually see each other 4-6 times/year. Recently, he got assigned to my area long term and we were looking forward to spending more quality time together. The one thing that has helped to solidify our 12 year relationship is the fact that I don’t freak out if I don’t hear from him for long periods of time. We each see other people, but it has been a spoken truth between us that we prefer each other over others. Also recently, I experienced an unfortunate health crisis (lump/breast/biopsy), and I was very anxious about it. The biopsy results were benign which was great, but the anxiety didn’t go away, it worsened. I was up and down and all over the place, emotionally and I didn’t know why. For about a week, I behaved like a desperate, needy crazed woman. I sent him some terrible texts, demanding his time and attention–not like me at all. He backed away and totally cut off communications with me. My last message to him was …”I don’t know what’s wrong with me & I am getting help.” That’s exactly what I did and that’s when I found out I was having an adrenaline/pituitary crisis that had caused my blood glucose level to dip down to a dangerous level, my thyroid hormones were low, and these conditions had likely created a chemical imbalance in my brain that kept me from being able to control my anxiety/emotions. It’s been 2 weeks since I started treatment to get myself back to normal levels, and about 2 weeks since I wrote him an email trying to explain what happened to me. I haven’t heard a word back from him. Silence is impossible to interpret. Do you think I should send him a follow up email and let him know I am back to normal, or do you think he is gone for good.
Delete all photos of them. Sell or give away anything they have given you. Unless it is very important or you just like the aesthetic of it, erase every photo, piece of jewelry, etc from your life. Take time for you. Laugh at your smile in the bathroom mirror, go on a date with yourself and fall in love with every piece of yourself. Don’t worry about finding someone new or getting that person back. Focus on you and someday you will be okay.
The whole point of No Contact is to avoid conversations with her, general or relationship wise until you feel more sorted out emotionally to deal with things rationally. The only conversations that is encouraged is if it’s a serious issue (financial matters, divorce paperwork, children, etc). You should tell her that you would like some space since the relationship has ended to work on yourself.
Now I am at that fork in the road. We were together for 2 years. We had a talk last night when I gave back his things because he had given me the decision of how our relationship should go from there. He says he still cares about me a lot, he rated me a UG, 8 to 9 in both categories (i think he wouldve said 10 on the physical side cause I have really gotten myself into shape after the breakup but he probably wouldn’t admit that).
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Let him see it, but don’t say it. Tell him you had a great time, and that you could meet up some time to hang out… he will feel like his leg was chopped of for not kissing, but he will know that you want more, that there might be a new, bright future for the two of you. All night he’ll be flipping around in bed, thinking about how beautiful you are and how much he wants to get back with you. I’m not saying you should be ice-cold when you meet up, on the contrary, be cold, but a bit mysterious, make him wonder.
We need relationships with others to see ourselves more clearly. Every relationship we have reflects back to us what we are putting out into the world. Know that a relationship isn’t a failure just because it ended. If you grew as a person and learned something to move your life forward, then it served a purpose and was truly a success.
If you disciplined your mind and only focused on the love between the two of you, everything would have been perfect. What I’m trying to say is that because you were not careful of your thoughts and entertained doubts and fears about your relationship, you are where you are now.
If he ever thinks that you are stalking him or acting needy in any way, he could seriously be pushed away. Instead of missing you, he could end up feeling that he was lucky to have it end when it did.
Initiate Contact Via Text Message- Test the waters with your ex boyfriend via text messaging. There are a whole set of rules and regulations that go with texting an ex. I am not going to go into those here but if you want to know them then please visit this page.
Hi I meet this lovely fella about 9 months ago everything was goin great until 2 weeks ago when he said he needed to find himself.Tht night I reacted shocked and told him to just go we had a bit of a argument as this was totally out of no we’re but I felt for a while that I was putting more in than him and told him so he keep sayin its not u its me ur brilliant bla bla etc. he broke up his sim card also. I thought givin him space would work after a week I went round to his flat to talk and he wouldn’t open the door even though I knew he was in so i put a letter through his letter box saying we needed to talk but he ignored I think so tht night I started the nc rule then on Tue he text me from his new no he was so sorry with kisses so then i waited a few hours then text him back we need to talk he never text back so i text him a nice goodbye text saying look I know u hv to do wht is right for u and i guess talkin would b a waste of time i hope u find inner peace and b happy to take care. he text back appreciate tht with kisses. insight he was feelin depressed and emotional unavailable I was a bit needy im now on my sec day of nc now I really care and love this man wil he come back ?
This is such garbage. Look at what you’ve written: you must be tremendously happy being single with all your options open, so you can find a guy to get tied down with which will make you tremendously happy. Forget this obsession with ‘happiness’, it is a magazine-culture poisonous idea. Accept that you will go through misery after a breakup, if you lived them, but that you will heal. Take it from me, many guys cannot stand these ‘perfectly happy’ women, they can smell a rat a mile off and know it’s fake. Guys realise there is pain in life, and that women go through it as much as they do.
These are not easy things to do. But you have to move on, and removing these things as a memento of your previous relationship will help you forget him faster and for good. Challenge yourself to be strong and you’ll be surprised at how easy and how fulfilling it can be if you’re successful.
You had sex, but do you want to get back together or not? Let him wonder and guess, let him compare you to other women he might have been with since you were apart. He’ll soon realize what a mistake he’s made, and he’ll never want to make that mistake (breaking up with you) again.
During my real-life experience I saw there are many women that are having troubles in understanding their men. It seems that men all over the world are living in their own isolate world. It is very difficult to understand them as they don’t have any emotional stability. They just can’t pick up even the most obvious hints you send to them.
You’d be shocked at how quickly a guy gets his act together when there’s a woman he wants that he thinks he’ll lose if he doesn’t get his sh*t together. A lot of women don’t see this, though, because instead of staying single until they’re clearly, totally and unambiguously in a full-on defined relationship with a guy, they accept his excuses and wait around thinking that somehow he’ll just all of a sudden want a relationship with them (even though he knows the woman isn’t going to leave him)
On a day 3 I didn’t text but on a day 4 I texted and I joked about driving school (I know he has a good sense of humor) and I asked a question. No reply and not even read my messages. I see he is online once in a while.
That happened on Wednesday night and I haven’t spoken to him since then. On Sunday (yesterday), he contacted me telling me he’s made his decision that we aren’t getting back together because he’s happier on his own, and even said that we can’t be friends anymore.
Take some time. Because the end of a relationship is often tumultuous, it’s best to give both yourself and your ex some time away from each other before you try to patch things up. You both need to be able to get over the initial pain of the breakup and think about what you really want.
Another way you can become person of higher value is by dressing good without look like you are trying. When you go out then try to dress a little bit more but don’t try hard about it. Nothing is as much lower value as dressing yourself to make your ex boyfriend jealous.
My previous relationship has been the most difficult thing to get over. Its been 3 yrs since we broke up. I’m better but not healed. I’ve blocked any other man from getting close to me. I feel hopeless. I’m not doing anything productive in my life. All I do is busy myself with work but I’m not living. I’m merely existing. Barely .
Does this strategy work with short term relationships? I met this guy online, we dated for about 2 months, he told me repeatedly how I “checked all his boxes”, how much he liked me, how pretty and amazing and funny I was…we were intimate. And then out of nowhere his level of attention changed, he became disillusioned with the distance between us (we live an hour apart) and the lack of time we had to spend together. He started saying things like “I don’t deserve you”, “I can’t give you what you deserve”, which I’ve always known to be code for “I’m just not that into you anymore”. He tried to end it nicely, I kept holding on for about a day, and then probably thinking he had no other choice – he picked an issue with something I said and basically cut off all contact with me. Made it clear there was no more to discuss. It’s been 3 days and he’s already back on the dating site where we met. I am devastated. I really liked this guy…but apparently he’s already moving on looking for someone new and I’m still here bawling my eyes out. Does any of this work if the guy doesn’t have feelings for you anymore?
In this article, I will show you how to start the process of getting back with your ex; but, as you know, you will only see the results when you do all the work yourself. Knowledge without practice is nothing.
“I listened to my friends, who pointed out how he was a jerk, which really opened my eyes to how he really treated me. I also listened to ‘Potential Breakup Song’ by Aly & AJ, which made me dance and get over him!” –Sami, 14
Ok my ex and i still live together he says its him(he gets depressed and thinks no one loves him). We were together 6 months. I felt like i can be myself around him and he said the same. We still both love each other but id love to start over with him but im not sure how to because we live together. We also work together and our boss knows whats going on(he said that wasnt a stress on us). Some things have gotten easier. He is also my best friend but doesn’t like to answer questions about is at all. He is very back and fourth! What should i do? I am at a loss
You need to make sure that such issue will no longer haunt your relationship again before deciding to get him back. Note that you can’t get a hundred percent guarantee that such issue will no longer happen.
So here’s my situation. I’ve had a relationship for the past 3.5 years. For a long time prior to those years she had a huge crush on me, but i never really did anything with it. Even still we got together. During the relationship i never really felt i was truly in love with her, at least i thought so. But i also need to mention that i was smoking weed on a daily basis. (She hated that) Which resulted in me not to be able to express my feelings in the right way, or even to be having’ feelings. During this time i was unemployed and living in her house pretty much rent-free, and even still she was the sweetest girl in the world for me. (make’s me sick to my stomach even thinking about that now) I was a really selfish guy over the years, never surprised her or anything like that and have been taking’ her for granted During the entire relationship. Never really considered her feelings. (Again, sick to my stomach) So due to text messages she started building a emotionally relationship with some guy she met a bar way back before our relationship. Can’t really blame her for that giving the fact i was emotionally unavailable due to smoking weed. It always stayed with text messaging she claims and i believe her. This lasted from May to August. I forgave her. Last September we’ve been on holiday together, for here it was a sort of last attempt to save our relationship. Which i didn’t knew at the time. So i continued in my own selfish ways, and continued smoking weed. She was slipping right from under my nose and i didn’t even noticed. After the holiday we’ve stayed together until November 10th which is when she dumped me. Again, cant blame her, thinking back i am surprised she even last this long with me. Since then i have stopped smoking weed, cant even stand the smell of it, got a job, and starting to express my emotions again. Needless to say that i want her back, in fact i feel like im in love with her. She says its to late, that she really would want it but that her feelings for me has changed. However, she does keep contacting me, even send some nudes and stuff like that but still don’t want te be in a relationship anymore. Also does she really badly wants to stay friends and gets really upset if i suggest to brake contact, just because i cant handle this form of contact we are having right now, simply because i want her back so badly. Do think NC will do the trick? I’ve been trying it 2 times already but never got past 2/3 days as she keeps calling/texting me and i feel bad for her and cave. And its hard for me as well of course. Sorry for my English, im from Europe.
Recall who initiated the breakup. Was it you? If so, did you do it after careful thought or in a fit of anger that you now regret? Was it your ex, and did he or she have specific reasons? Was it a mutual decision?
“Deep down inside every guy there’s a soft spot for his ex-girlfriend, despite how dirty the breakup was. So girls, you should play to this if you want him back. No matter how many times he tells himself he’s over you, there’s always something enticing about an ex. If you want him back, just remind him of all the reasons he fell for you in the first place, but also give him the impression that you’ve grown up a bit. This way he’ll forget about whatever problems you had. Keep things casual and don’t let him get the idea you’re chasing after him. Imply that you’re seeing other guys, this will only make you more appealing and will push him to ask you out again because he’ll be afraid that another guy might beat him to it.”
Keep in mind that this does not mean you should change who you are. If your personalities are incompatible, it’s probably best to look for a new boyfriend who appreciates you for you. If, however, you have some bad habits that you can address, go ahead and work on them.