You have to figure out whether his intentions are out of concern as a friend, or he actually likes you still, or just wants the benefits (hookup). Regardless, it would best for you to give him some space, considering you don’t know what his intentions are, and he may not know either. Apply the No Contact Rule and focus on yourself in the meantime. If he likes you, he will come back.
The truth is, they already know that you love them, how much you adore them and how much you care about them. But they still decided to breakup. Showering them with affection is not going to help you. In fact, the more you smother them, the more trapped they’ll feel. And that will just make them want to get away from you as soon as possible.
My ex is very close to two women, both who happen to work with her. At one point I was very close with all of them. One by one my relationships with them deteriorated. Both of them deteriorated before my ex and I broke up. In the beginning her best girlfriend viewed me as her best guy friend so we were all close. She would break “girl code” a lot and tell me positive things my ex(then gf) was saying and helping make the relationship stronger. Right now I don’t have that sort of friendship with my ex’s best friend anymore. Rebuilding that friendship just to have that friendship back is important to me, but I think it could also help me reconnect with my ex as well. I think it would help because she would tell MOVE ON, or give it time, or she still thinks about you, or she’s mad at you for this, this and this. Do you agree with this? Again, I do miss the friendship, but I won’t lie, the possibility of her breaking “girl code” with me again definitely has crossed my mind. I hope that doesn’t make me sound horrible. What are your thoughts on this?
I was dating this girl for 3 years she was everything I wanted she was sweet very nice helpful beautiful very supportive but also was crazy and pretty jeleouse she did have a right to be though I had a lot of chick friends and would talk to them and boy she would flip I ended up deleating messages from them because I just was tired of the arguments it got worse I started reciving nudes from one oft chick friends and she caught me ever since that day it got all bad she was torn up really bad boy I was a mess I felt so bad I begged her back then she did take me back but then she told me she couldn’t take it anymore and that she was still hurt from it and broke it off again I begged her back and now she said she won’t ever take me back and tells me to move on she looks like she’s set with her decision there was this one time she saw me with a girl as I was picking up some oft stuff from her and (she was just my friend) afterwards she started texting me saying how much I’ve hurt her and that I haven’t changed I replied with “I’m single” she was upset honestly I just want her back I miss her dearly she was my best friend I was 100percent my self around her I miss our laughs together her smile just a lot of stuff I want back if anyone can give me some advice I’d love it I really want her back I don’t know what to do
I don’t have a full understanding of your situation but it sounds like you were fine without her. Figure out what’s best for you in the long run. I recommend asking yourself ” What would the type of man I want to be 5 years down the road do in this situation?”
The 5th Step is very important because you will get a PDF that contains a complete roadmap for getting your ex back. This roadmap will show you every step that will bring your ex in your life. However, it is important to don’t skip of any the step mentioned in this PDF.
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We already know that you are the kind of person they like (since they were attracted to you at one time) we just have to work on restoring what dissipated over time and repairing any errors that have occurred since you have been together.
Dude i went through the same thing I lied to her 2 she came to know and she got very angry and started ignoring me I asked her to forgive me but she did not budge I texted her so many times that sge was goin to block me but the last time I spoke to her I told her I was sorry and I knew that I had screwed up I couldnt expect her to come running back for me I told her I loved her and id wait by the sidelines no matter how long it took her to forgive me be it a day or a month id patiently wait and I also told her id be with her through everything and support her decisions whatever she took and gues what man she forgave me 2 days later and were back together im so fucking happy I hope this helped
It has been 21 days since the breakup, and she has not yet spoken to me or contacted me in any way. I am afraid that my ex might be moving on, but then again, I don’t know if contacting her right now is the best because I don’t know if she is ready to talk yet. So would it be best to wait until 30 days have passed? And after the No Contact period, would it be best for me to contact her first, or should I wait for her to contact me when she is ready?