My vibe was affected by stress of school and radiated out into other areas of my life without my realizing…granted my ex never communicated how I was making him feel, but the breakup made me realize what had happened and how i can get those stress levels down and vibe up…I am prepared it is too late…he will never be able to share those vibes. But if he doesn’t hes also missing out because I feel good, a little sad it didn’t work out, but good overall.
Having an “emotional flu” helps you get it all out, fast, says Sandra Ann Miller, co-author of A Sassy Little Guide to Getting Over Him. So sob, scream, listen to “Someone Like You” on infinite repeat, whatever you want. Just give yourself a time limit so you don’t wallow forever.
Ignore your ex’s life. Don’t show your ex that you are interested in him at all. When he posts updates about life events, like a promotion or a trip, don’t engage. Don’t like the post, don’t comment, and don’t mention it to your friends. Make it so your ex thinks you are totally off his radar.
hi i just lost my bf 1week after 3 years (. he was all sort of bad boyfriend) but i still fell in love with him and still is havibg problems dealing with the breakup . i dnt knw on which no . im in but im having swing moods sometimes i accept nd i move on nd sometimes i don’t i think im going crazy … and this weeknd im having a trip and its the first time im on my own … but i want him to tell me bon voyage ! ?
Getting your ex back is as easy as uncovering those same emotions. Using simple emotional triggers, you can create a need for you in your exboyfriend’s life again. And why is it so easy? Because those emotional bonds are still there.
It is important to take time after breaking up and before trying to get your ex back to examine your own emotions and decide if you truly should be with that person. Rekindled relationships often suffer from a lack of trust and can be more likely to cycle on-again-off-again with repeated breakups. If you’re not 100% sure that you want to be with this person in the long-term, avoid further pain by doing your best to get over your ex instead of pursuing him or her again.
You’re on a rebound, even though your heart isn’t in it. Dating and experiencing transitional “relationships” are vital to your healing. But don’t get too hot and heavy, because you’re not ready for anything serious. Make sure the guys you’re involved with are on the same page regarding speed. Go out and have fun with these gentlemen.
I left my husband because his family were using be and he began to do the same. I was treated like the maid. He waited 4 months before he decided he wanted to devote. After I left he never confronted me personally once, even the divorce was given through someone else. He has been an awful person and very cowardly. I don’t understand whether he divorced me or his family.
Hi Ryan, dude where are you? I really need your help. I’m really trying to not a mistake here man. It’s been maybe half a month since the NC.. it’s been working like a charm.. couples days ago my ex sees me at work and days I looked good and like I’ve changed..also that I was happy. She text me that same day saying how much she missed my presence in her life, how she missed her best friend. I didn’t respond and then she text me a photo saying remember the good times.. also said she was going thru her phone deleting pics of us and didn’t know which to keep. I then replied I miss you too. We started chatting back in forth and remembering all the good things. She texted me all night. Then the next day says she loves me and misses.. I tell her too. We talked a lot about how much we loved one another. Don’t know if that was a right move ..yesterday she sends me a message at work that was a song. “Baby while were young , let’s do what we want, I want you, you’re mine and I don’t care who’s know it, I’m down for you” just a few things she sent me! I’m confused because after work I waited to talk with her but she ran out quickly and I’m sure when went to meet up with someone else. She didn’t go home last night. She also didn’t text me anymore.. so confusing what’s going on.. not sure what to do or expect! Please help dude! I really want her back and I can’t tell if I messed up the NC rule. She definitely has been seeing someone else lately. Please write me back soon.. she wants to me up tonight to go eat. Don’t know if I should go
I’ve been having a hard time getting over and stop thinking of my ex. We’ve had a rough break up however it ended in a fake nice way. It’s been 3 months now however it feels like it was just yesterday. Our age difference is 6 years, I am 21 and he is 27. We’ve dated in total of 8 months. Before we’ve dated he was dating his ex fiancé, a relationship that lasted 3 years. After 3 months of his ex fiancé breaking up with him, he start dating me. Making me realize that I might have been a rebound. Most of our problems involved his ex fiance. Which makes me believe, that is his baggage. Currently he is dating someone else.