Don’t make that mistake! Even though we’ve told you time and time again that you need to continue putting in efforts throughout your relationship, even after you’ve been able to accomplish your goal of getting back with your ex — we need to keep reminding you of this simple yet essential point.

It seems that relationships become completely different things over time. An initial relationship has completely different values from a ‘vintage’ relationship. Furthermore a relationship has different values depending on your age. When relationships being, both partners have a distorted impression of each other. They are high on emotion and are in the attraction stage thus those annoying little ticks that drive you insane are unnoticeable under all of the excitement. The middle stage is withdrawal. The chemicals start to ebb after about 2 years and this is where the rationalization arguments begin. Where you argue because you are irritated and project your withdrawal on to your partner because they are no longer on the pedestal that you yourself put them. Now this where most people say good bye, or sometimes through some sense of duty and loyalty they never resolve the problems they just endure them and the unhappy relationship continues. Some others they reach another plane of a relationship. Where that person becomes a part of you. You have gone through the withdrawal and now you are life partners you are one body. In this throw away world, not enough people have enough humility or self awareness to reach this level. They are too busy trying to find their next fix after during the withdrawal phase. Sad…

Make sure you want your ex boyfriend back for the right reasons. Are you really still in love with him? If so, it might be worth trying to get him back, by showing him you still care and that you believe things will be better this time. Sometimes breaking up provides time for both people to realize that, more than anything, they just want to be together again. However, if you have any other reason for wanting your ex back, reexamine whether it’s a good idea to try to rekindle the relationship.

I will recommend you do NC for at least 3 months. If after that, you still want her back, then get back in touch with her. She won’t move on so quickly, and you will still have a decent chance of getting her back even after 3 months. But at least, you will be sure that you are not making a big mistake since you’ve had enough enough time to get over the “missing her” phase. Also, I’ll recommend highly that you start dating during these 3 months.

Ideally, your ex will be working on himself, as well, although this isn’t something you can control. If you two both commit to bettering yourselves, then you can start a new relationship that’s far better than your last one.

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Now what would relationship advice be without a little Sex and the City reference? Think back to the first movie, when Steve and Miranda agree to reconcile their issues by meeting on the bridge. For a moment, Miranda worries that Steve won’t come — but she goes anyway.

If your relationship is ended then I am sure you display one of these fatal characteristics (list is below). These fatal characteristics kill attraction and remove love from the relationship. That is the reason I called them “Six Deadly Qualities”

In these cases, your behavior determines your success in getting your ex-girlfriend back. You simply can’t ignore your ex girlfriend every time neither you always keep your angry face and don’t talk with her.

In this situation, DON’T FREAK OUT. Rebound relationships happen after a break up, it’s very very normal. But the good news is that they don’t last. And the reason why they became so intimate with this new person so fast is because it’s hard for a person to go from being so intimate with someone to being completely single. That is why most people (especially girls) will become intimate very soon with their rebound relationship because they are trying to get to that level of intimacy that they had with you. But usually, the faster the rebound relationship progresses, the faster it ends. They will soon realize that the new person isn’t right for them and they were just being intimate to quench their thirst for intimacy. And once they do realize it, they will break up with them.

You can’t make things work on your own. “Make sure your ex is as determined to correct the old problems as you are,” affirms Tessina. “If he is blaming you for everything that went wrong, disaster is imminent,” she says. And on the flip side, if you’re still blaming your ex, it’s just as big a problem — work together, not against each other.

My ex and I broke up 5 years ago (we’re together for 2 years and good friends for 2 years prior to dating). We broke up because we both needed to grow as people. I jumped into a new relationship immediately and married this guy a few months ago. The person I married is very controlling and has a lot of insecurities. My ex had tried reaching out to me a couple times since our breakup (as recent as 2 years) but I had avoided reciprocating until 2 months ago. We started texting and catching up and that spark reignited for me (I suspected it would if I saw him again). I learned that he has a girlfriend he’s been with for a year but we kept talking. We met up a month ago and I felt such a connection for hooked up that weekend (2 different days). I have never cheated in my life but it just felt right. I’ve since separated from my husband and just filed for divorce. My ex and I still talked afterwards but have not spoken in 2 weeks. He’s still with his girlfriend but I really want to get back together with him. How do I go about trying to restart a relationship with the situation what it currently is? Did I completely ruin any chance of reconciliation when I slept with him? I feel so panicked at the thought of potentially losing my chance to be with him, HELP

Because something about your behavior is making her feel as if you are not really committed to her. She feels that, although she’s attracted to you, you won’t give her what she wants and needs from a relationship (i.e. support her, and not keep f***ing other girls). This is completely different from a situation where you’re trying to get a girl back when she has moved on.