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So yesterday I layed it out and challenged a girlfriend to get in or out and she slammed me. I said I needed to know where she stood and that I was ready to move on and bam! She said take a hike. Guess I misplayed it.

Me n my gf broke up so I’m tryin wit all my strength to get her back but what she wants to still be friends weird right, so I’m askin what I’m suppose to do to win her back n how do u act like a sexual guy please help me thanks bro

Hey my name is Nicole and about 3 weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me after I got upset at him for skipping school. Before that we would fight over little things, mostly due to the fact that we would hangout every single day and he would want to hangout with his friend and begin to cancel plans on me and not show up on time. He tried to ask for a break a few times but I didn’t want to do it. Right now we are broken up but not on Facebook and were talking more this week and we even have hooked up a few times and we both like it. He says If I change then we could get back together, because I have been controlling of him by telling him not to do dangerous things and I was always worried about him. At first when he told me that he wanted to break up I was devastated and basically did all the wrong things, I begged for him to take me back, I told him how much I loved him, and I would text him long messages about how I feel, now I see I went about everything the wrong way. I know that if I do show that I’m starting to change then he would take another chance, but the thing is I’m afraid that he might use all of this to his advantage even though he has his own set of issues and also I’m afraid that when we do actually get back together that he’s gonna try to keep it a secret so his friend doesn’t get pissed at him (his friend hated me before we started dating). What do I do? And when we do get back together I know that we have to learn how to communicate with each other but what all could we do? Help!!

My boyfriend well “ex” now. We’ve been dating for almost 3 month. Well he just broke up with me on Monday and said he didn’t feel the same, then 10 min after that he said he feel like a fool we really love each other, then was like can you take me back, so I did and we went fine till he broke up with me the next day. He said he don’t know what to do and just wants to be friends. But gosh idk cause I really love him and I still cry and feel horrible pain he said it. But I feel like it was me!!! Idk but now I do bad things and get worse like want to hurt myself…. kill myself I just don’t know what to do??? I’m confused and my parents know we broke up but they still say how much they like him. And crap try tell me to move on and get a life. And I’m trying but it is hard:( I really love him and miss him. I wanna be with him bad but idk what to do, I still have his jacket:( I sleep with it, wear it, hug it I cry on it too cause it make me think he still there holding my hand! Please help me. Idk what to do! I still text him, but not a lot as we use to. Gosh I’m in love with him and I feel like crying when I think about him and when I don’t cause he was always by my side. HELP

Note also that therapy is virtually always more potent if the couple goes together for some of the sessions. Paulette, after initial reluctance, decided to schedule sessions with Peter’s therapist as well.  They sometimes saw the therapist separately, and sometimes together which helped them to recognize and rectify the problematic patterns in their prior interactions.  When both partners participate in a process of growth, the odds zoom up that the outcome will be positive for both of them.  

I was in a 3 year long relationship. We took a break 4 months ago because of his drinking.”surely not a breakup”. But then i hav done the worst thing : i had a guy friend to whom i felt an affection and happened to mistake it as love. But he was loving me, so when he proposed me during the break i accepted it thinking that my affection is love. Bt soon within a month i realised that it was nothing more than a crush and also i loved my ex/bf (since we were just on a break) so much who is infact my first love. My ex/bf came to know about all these things and now he barely replies to my messages. Please help me with this problem. Now i know i really loved him. He is my first love & guess it will be the last one too.

In this case, should i inform her that I would not contact her for a while, or still answer her calls but keep the conversation to general topics and avoid getting to serious topics? Or should I just ignore her (and might push her more away)?

It is important that after bring some improvements you must contact her. Contact her two or three weeks after you have send the message to her about breakup. Your approach should be just a simple text where you can share one of the happiest moments you have had together. This can be anything, for example your first date or any vacations which was a memorable part in both your life. You can say that yesterday you went to the particular place where you had gone on your first date. With this strategy start with texting for some weeks and one day ask her to hangout with you at some place. Slowly and gradually make more meetings and finally you will be able to make her fall in love with you again.

Since she has felt this way, you could slowly warm back up to her. However, I would suggest continuing with NC because it may be too soon for changes to have occurred in both your lives, so if you guys get back together, the same issue might eventually surface again.

That said, if you asked her about this, she would never admit it. Why not? She cannot. Attraction is a very primal and subconscious process that has been in place for thousands of years, so she won’t be consciously aware of why she lost attraction for you.

Make her friends see that she needs you. It’s a fact: you will never be able to make your girl want you back if her friends can’t stand you. If her friends don’t like you because you were too controlling, not caring enough towards them, or just because you were a bad boyfriend, then your job is to make them think that maybe you weren’t so bad after all — and to pass this information on to the girl you want.

Every single guy I’ve consulted with was guilty of making this fatal mistake: acting out of despair and desperation while trying to get her back. There’s no question that you’re doing the same. And it’s plain to see why given the emotions that go hand in hand with a breakup. But despite this fact, if you don’t stop everything you’re doing right now and start using the right approach… you risk losing her forever.

Because not only are you getting the tools to take charge of your breakup and turn it around faster than you’ve ever dreamed possible (tools put together through the contributions of over 1200 men), you get to see with your own eyes exactly how these guys acted on this advice to get their girlfriends back.

I am here to help you devise that plan. Don’t worry, it’s not some mind tricks that you will have to play on your ex. Playing mind tricks is not the way to go if you want to have a long term healthy relationship with your ex. This plan is based on human psychology and how to use its principles to have a happy relationship with your ex. I encourage you to read everything in this 3 STEP PLAN and then take action. I can only tell you what to do, but until you actually do it, you won’t see any results.

About a year ago I went out to lunch with a few friends (3 girls to be exact.) Of course, when you are the only guy among girls the conversation eventually turns to dating. I don’t remember exactly how it happened but someone brought up the question of looks.

After a year and few months, my ex left me cold turkey. I’ve been told that it was immature or just selfish the way she just stopped..talking. She was 25 and I was her 2nd real boyfriend, she was a goodie stay at home girl. Well it’s been almost a year, and she’s still on my mind, i still wish we were together, maybe after I get my RN license, i can talk to her again. Sometimes I want to text her just to ask how she is or somehow to see that beautiful smile of hers again..It sucks that when I think of us, I think of all the good, fun, and happy times, and I never think of the bad times that happened between us, unless someone actually tells me to think about it, and think about how she made me stress and how she didn’t appreciate the things I would do for her. Sad thing is it feels like all she ever thinks about are the bad things and the faults during our relationship. I think this is where people that are in love differ…I can only see what makes her so special to me and why its so hard for me to remember the not so green side of the relationship. Maybe finding someone that sees only the good in me is what love truly is. Its 3am I’m incoherent, I’ll probably forget I ever wrote this..

Hi there my bf broke up with me after 2 years of relationship..we were fighting too much..why I was fighting? Because I was just sitting at home and we never go out like a couple. I had loads of problem but he was never here to help. So today he brought all my stuff to my apartment and he said to me if ever I need something I know where to find him. he never accept his own fault..he never says sorry…he always wanted to get rid of me I always beg him not to go..but am tired of licking ass every time. Can you help me to win him back?

In addition to working on recreating attraction you should examine your relationship and look for what other contributing factors led to the break up and how you can overcome/prevent/eliminate these things.

Women love flowers. Giving flowers is a romantic way to show your affection and it makes them feel special. One of the sincerest ways you can say you’re sorry is by giving her a bouquet of her favorite blossoms. It may take more than one bunch to get her to talk to you again, so don’t lose heart and just keep showering her with those fragrant gifts.

But, during the course of time when I have been a breakup expert, or a coach or an advisor to people in many cases, I have realized that this time also is one of the most crucial times of our lifetime. This is the time when we can gain the ability to go through this pain and also come out as a different human being, much more stronger, mature, and sensible person then ever. Out of these people, so many people get their exes back. While the rest who don’t get the ability to move on, and become much more happier then they have been living before. But, they all end up rising above this pain and becoming happier again.