And the answer is simple: because your goal isn’t to just get your girlfriend back but to take this relationship and make it stronger than it ever was. And that’s why I’m making you this limited time offer: to keep you updated with the most reliable information to turn your wish into reality.

Maybe you’ve tried apologizing, promising to change, or telling her how sorry you are. There’s a surprising reason none of those things work, and when you know it, you know how to get your ex-girlfriend back and make her want you more than she ever did before.

Enjoy your own company. You shouldn’t spend all of your “me time” obsessing over improving yourself or wondering what your ex is up to. Instead, enjoy your own company by reading, exercising, or just taking the time to pursue your own interests and goals to become a better person. If you’re comfortable on your own, then your ex will know it once you reconnect. It’s important to be secure by yourself before you try to jump back into a relationship again.

My gf breaks up with me every month due to her raging pms. I’m serious she literally is a freakin bipolar broad as well as many broads who don’t use contraceptives. Any ways this past month, she called it quits.. The first few months I was in the cool since I traveled during the time of the month and let her be. This time i was caught at home and she was serious. No more calls, blocked networks( facebook, texts, etc). We were still bangin for like 3 weeks after she broke up and that told me that we still had a strong sexual chemistry. Right on. I seriously jut want to bang it out due to wanting to be with her but I know that bangin a broad will only make her feel that I’m always available. So, we stopped banging. I didn’t like that but she continued to see me every now and then and will make out. Hell yeah! I now know she does still like me, but I seriously need to hook this bitch on my dick for good. We had a good convo last night and are you ready for the jerk. I texted her this morning, ” I really loved our time together…

If you know that a particular friend or family member dislikes your ex, ask to sit down and discuss why. Find out if it is based on how the ex treats you or others, knowledge your friend may have that you don’t, or other evidence that might be meaningful.

Winning an ex girlfriend back is all about projecting this “alpha male” type of persona. Well, nothing kills that persona more than a guy who constantly texts and leaves himself too available for a woman.

Get in her friends’ good graces. Maybe one of the reasons that your relationship ended is that her friends didn’t think you made an effort to get to know them, or that they thought you didn’t care enough about your ex to make the relationship worth it. So, if you want your girl to want you again, winning her friends over can help you pave the path to her heart. Here’s what you can do:

Ok, the first tactic is from my own experience. I don’t have any research to back it up but I feel it will work because it worked on me. One thing that always made me a bit jealous (even though I never voice it) was when a girl I felt really strongly about has a bunch of pictures with a bunch of different guys on her Facebook profile. I know that sounds ridiculous but it legitimately made me like “Damn, that guy got to be in her presence.” Here is the key though, if I felt strongly about a girl (who was single) and I saw a bunch of pictures of her getting totally drunk and making out with a bunch of guys I will no longer feel strongly about her. In fact, I might lose interest entirely. So, I would say that your best bet would be to post innocent pictures with other guys. The key is to be really subtle about it but trust me if your man has a Facebook I promise you he will check your profile from time to time.

#12 Don’t talk about getting back together. We all know why you’re talking to her again, you want her back. She knows this as well, so there’s no need to tell her. Don’t text her corny messages that say, “I miss you” or “I wish we were together.”

Notice how I didn’t specify if this friend was a male or female. You just planted a seed of doubt in your ex boyfriends head and now he is going to wonder if you saw a romantic movie with a friend or with a date.

I know right now you are full of mix emotions. You want to call or message your ex girlfriend and want to tell her how much you are missing her. These emotions are completely normal but this is the not the good way to get your ex girlfriend back. Even these actions can make your situation more worst.

Truth is that our bodies and heads tell us to act in a certain way after a break up, we act on impulse and our emotions. This is not a good idea as you may already know. It is common to be tearful and erratic, not knowing where to turn, sometimes we can blurt things out to our ex boyfriends that we regret later. Everybody does it, it is human nature to do so, but the thing that you have to remember is that you have to fight against these urges if you are to be successful in making him see you positively and want you back again.

Any ideas about how to initiate this kind of conversation with him, start talking in a more positive light? Over text or in person? I just want to open the lines to him without him feeling that giving me any positive encouragement = he wants me again right now.

Having your first kiss can be scary and exciting, but don’t let that stop you. Instead, ask yourself if you are ready for that level of intimacy with someone. Do you feel comfortable, cared for, and safe with this person? If so, then you will also know that they will be accepting and nonjudgmental about a nervous, “first try” kiss. If you have a deep connection to this person and the first attempt is a dud, you will both likely laugh and try again.

You should keep your first interactions friendly and positive to show that you can be a man and that you respect her decision. She definitely still misses you so concentrate on working on yourself and everything will work out.