Please help me. I need some advice. i can’t let him go. We’re married for 2 years. we have a daughter. I loved him so much, but he doesn’t love me anymore. We’ve been seperated for a year, i heard some gossip that he’s in serious and loyal relationship right now. but that girl has two child. I can’t accept the fact that he’s loving someonedelse why does he can’t love me? I gave him all. I accept all his cheatings on me. I want to be with him. I still text him, we meet sometimes and use me. But after that he’s just dumping me, but i try to do it again, hoping that we can still fix it and he can love me too. I’m really in pain and i can’t handle it anymore. Help me please.
If you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back, this is how to do it but I highly suggest that you do this for the piece of mind and the confidence, power and self-worth you will receive from establishing healthy boundaries and rejecting hurtful behavior and relationships.
I asked him to change his phone backgrounds. I said they could stay friends, but I was uncomfortable with how close they were after a week. He said “We’ll see what I do.” Later that day, he said he wouldn’t do that. He said he’d “always been that way”, which he hadn’t, and dumped me when I got mad. He said “no we’re already fighting again.” and that was that. Next thing I knew, he and Keileigh were together. She was his “boo” and flaunts it. She makes sure my life is miserable, won’t stop talking about him, keeps asking me for advice to make him happy with her, makes a lot of people hate me for no reason. He spread lies about me on Snapchat, and posted parts of our conversation on social media, but only the parts that made me seem bad. He got about half our school to hate me and glare at me and shove me in the hall, and I snapped. I told him I wanted some stuff back. She was grinding on him, and he told me to go away, that he had no time for me. I snapped and slapped him. Not even hard, it was a wrist-flick because she was in the way of my arm. He got mad and shoved me so hard I stumbled. They went to the vice-principal and told him it was so hard Miguel got a red mark (which he hadn’t). I got suspended, despite telling the whole story. there was “no proof” they’d done anything to me, though the vice principal said Keileigh does seem to “get around”. I’d had a previously spotless record.
Thank you so much…loved it…i didnt have to delete him from my fbook, he did it…i cant stop caring about him but from today i will be least bothered about him but i dont know how to delete our pictures and all his sms’s but i know i can do it.
My ex boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up about 5 months ago, he blocked me off everything, reason why he broke up with me was because of distance (he didn’t have a car anymore), he wanted to concentrate on school and wasn’t looking to get a girlfriend or anything like that. The break up was extremely ugly. I notice on social media a week afterwards he posted someone’s initials with a heart next to it which I thought he did purposely for me to see but fast forward to now about to be 5 months later and I thought I have moved on, I found out he’s got a new girlfriend around the time we broke up. In the photos they look happy. The first photo date goes far back a month after which at that time we were in the texting phase (which he was flirty) before he randomly blocked me again. Since then, no word. After finding out the break up excuse was a lie and he had someone ready for when he dropped me, it opened up the same wound and I feel extremely hurt that he lied to me. When I think back about the end, everything was adding up and he confused me by acting as if no one else was in the picture. I’m also meeting his mother for lunch this Sunday since she wants to catch up and give me my things back that he refuses to meet me to do. I feel I’m going to cry and I have no control over my emotions anymore. And it hurts that despite all this, I still care for him. I can’t get how he can quickly move on.
Any advice on how to proceed? Their relationship is unhealthy but I think he’s being manipulated. Thought about in a couple weeks just seeing how he’s doing. Last time we messaged was real quick on my birthday a little over a week ago.
MY NAME IS FIDELIA AND AM FROM KUWAIT I WAS FORMALLY THE ASSISTANT DIRECTOR IN KUWAIT BREVEGES COMPANY(KBC), ME AND MY HUSBAND LEAVED TOGETHER HAPPILY ALTHOUGH HE WASNT AS RICH AS I WAS I LOVED HIM HE ALSO WORKED IN A CONSTRUCTION COMPANY HERE IN KUWAIT AS AN ENGINEER ALONG THE LINE SOMETHING HAPPEN THAT PUSHED ME INTO A FROLIC AND NUNCHANLANT ATTITUDE IT ALL STARTED IN 2010 WHEN I WAS STILL WORKING IN KUWAIT BREVEGES COMPANY(KBC),AN INDIAN MAN WAS ALSO ENPLOYED THERE HE ALSO SHOWED INTEREST IN ME WHICH I TURNED DOWN BECAUSE I WAS ALREADY MARRIED ALTHOUGH WE DIDNT HAVE KIDS BUT HE MADE ME UNDERSTAND THAT IF I REFUSE THAT HE WILL MAKE ME USELESS AND WORTHLESS IN THE COMPANY I TOLD HIM THAT IT WAS VERY IMPOSSIBLE SO I TOLD OUR MANAGER WHO SURMOND HIM BUT HE DENIED AND LATER I WENT TO ARREST HIM NOT KNOWING IT WAS THE GENESIS OF MY PROBLEM SO THE MATTER WAS BEEN CHARGED TO COURTH BUT HE WON, AND AFTER THEN I BEGAN TO HAVE NIGTHMARES OF MEN CHASING ME OR HAVING SEX WITH ME IN THE DREAM AFTER A YEAR IN 2011 HE WAS MADE THE MANAGER OF THE COMPANY, I NEVER ENVIED HIM BECAUSE I ALWAYS KNEW HE HAD SOME EVIL POWERS HE WAS USING IN THE COMPANY BEFORE I KNEW IT MY BANK ACCOUNT DRIED UP AND THERE WAS NO MONEY IN IT BEFORE I KNEW IT MY OWN HUSBAND WAS FIRED IN HIS COMPANY EVERY THING AROUND ME WAS UPSIDE DOWN I QUICKLY REMEMBERED WHAT MR SHERIFF (INDIAN MAN) TOLD ME, SO I WENT TO HIS OFFICE BEGGING ON MY KNEELS THAT HE SHOULD PLEASE LEAVE ME AND MY FAMILY ALONE BUT HE SAID UNLESS HE HAVE HE WAY WITH ME THAT ME AND MY FAMILY WILL NEVER BE FREE AND HE THRETHENED TO KILL MY HUSBAND WITH STROKE I WENT HOME AND I WAS LOOKING AT MY HUSBAND IN THE DINNING AND I WAS CRYING HE NEVER KNEW WHY I WAS CRYING THE NEXT DAY I WENT TO THE OFFICE AND I LET HIM HAVE WHAT HE ALWAYS WANTED, HE SLEPT WITH ME LIKE A DOG SHOULD I EVEN SAY LIKE A PRISONER WHO HAVE BEEN MISSING A WOMAN FOR YEARS AFTER SIX(6) MONTH HE RESIGNED AND INFORMATION REACHED THE COMPANY THAT HE FLEED OUT OF THE COUNTRY AS FAST AS HE RESIGNED I ALWAYS GO TO THE HOSPITAL EVERY MONTH FOR CHECKUP TO MY GREATEST SURPRISE I WAS TESTED POSITIVE OF A DEADLY DISEASE (HIVAIDS) I RAGE INTO ANGER IT SEEMS I SHOULD COMMIT MURDER I TRIED REACHING MR SHERIFF (THE IDIAN MAN) I FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS DEAD A MONTH LATER MY HUSBAND WAS DIAGNOSED WITH STROKE AND ALSO WITH THE DISEASE HIVAIDS THAT WAS HOW WE MANAGE WITH THESE SICKNESS I CRIED EVERY DAY AND NIGHT SO ONE DAY I TOOK IT TO MY SELF TO FIND THE SOLUTION TO MY PROBLEM SO I WAS GOING THROUGH A POST LIKE YOU DOING NOW AND I ALSO FIND A STORY OF HOW AN AFRICAN MAN HELPED A MAN WITH HIVAIDS SO I ALSO TOOK THE SAME STEPSAND I THANK GOD THAT MR (EGBA) CAME TO MY AID HE ONLY ASKED ME TO BUY SOME THINGS WHICH HE USED FOR WORKING AND BEFORE TWO (2) WEEKS MY HUSBAND WAS FREE AND HE ASKED ME TO GO FOR CHECK UP I WAS ALSO FREE I ALSO WENT TO AFRICA TO VISIT HIM AND HE HAVE BEEN HELPING ME I THANK GOD THAT WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME
In this section I am going to give you a game plan that you can follow to get over your ex in a healthy way. You already know what not to do so avoiding those behaviors will help you a lot but it’s really not enough, you need more. This section is that “more.”
When it comes to how to get your ex boyfriend back, there are a lot of very complicated – but very necessary — tools and strategies that you will need to employ. Here are 25 quick tips that will help you.
Another good tip on how to get over your ex boyfriend is to simply keep busy. We all have familiar patterns that we fall into when things don’t go our way. For example, when my first husband used to get depressed, he’d near-instantly head to the fridge and reach for a bottle of beer.
It doesn’t matter how nasty your breakup was. It is always possible for your ex to forget about the past and create a new relationship with you. But make sure you don’t remind your ex of the reasons why you broke up in the past.
If your answer is that you want him bad enough that you will do anything you have to, then read on because I have some great advice, tips, and step-by-step guidance videos that will give you the absolute best shot at getting your ex boyfriend back and keeping him for good.
If you’ve been following the blog, you know I’m not a big fan of using your precious brainpower, energy and time in an effort to try to get someone back into your life that consistently treated you poorly.
Again, your instincts are screwing with you. Trust me, no one takes their ex back out of pity. No one is attracted to someone who is miserable. And even if your ex came back because of this, do you really want your ex to be with you just because of pity? Or do you want them to respect and love you?
It helps to focus your energy and love for him on yourself. Romanticize yourself. Take a bubble bath, go out to eat, maybe treat yourself to a new outfit. Figure out who you really are without him and then work your way up from there.
So… I decided to turn my How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Guide into a video presentation to make it easier for you. It’s not going to win any awards for its video effects (!) but I hope you find it useful…
No. You shouldn’t answer your ex’s call. The only exception to this is if you are close to ending your no contact and you are already feeling great about your life. If you think that talking to your ex will have you obsessing about them again, don’t answer their call.
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For instance, in the future when he was traveling for business and staying alone in hotels he would plan ahead what to do in the evenings: phone his wife, work on his computer, read, watch his favorite TV shows. He would NOT go to the hotel bar. If he met people in the lobby, if the acquaintances were women he would speak with them briefly and then say goodbye. He would go out to dinner only with men friends. If women joined them, he would not engage in one-on-one conversations with them. Alcohol, private time with women plus loneliness and a disconnected relationship with his wife had been a dangerous combination for him.
Proof It Works: Ben Morrison, an education administrator from Toledo, OH, found comfort in his cubicle after the demise of a three-year relationship. “Talking about my ex only made me dwell on her, so I purposely threw myself into my job,” he says. “I got incredibly productive at work right after that breakup,” says Morrison, who wound up with a promotion.
Writing down his painful feelings helped to free Peter from continuously thinking of them. Writing and then talking with his therapist about his thoughts enabled him to let go of beating himself up in anger and also of drowning himself in self-pity.
I’ve not been together with him as a girlfriend and a boyfriend since we reconnected over a year. He has made a plan to visit me in this year before we broke up by a game (He is in Cannada I live in Viet Nam). I had met him only one time in 2000 and we were only 4 months by emails and phone calls for an LDR. I know all of his relatives, his sister is one of my best friends.
It’s important to know that guys are very “visual minded”. When David heard about the dancing lessons, he immediately visualized Donna with those other men, dancing close together, and probably starting to feel something for one of them..
For example, even if your relationship with your ex was abusive, you might want to rekindle it just because you are missing them. Our mind often confuses the act of missing someone with “love”. It’s normal to miss someone after you’ve been with them for a long time. But it doesn’t necessarily mean you still love them.