You need to pinpoint the exact reason for your break-up. Such can help you determine if it is something that you can still work out or fix. If the issue is serious, such as cheating, lying, emotional or physical abuse, etc., then ensure that you carefully think about whether or not getting back with him is indeed good for the both of you.

What It Is: Ask your friends what you should do to get over an ex-boyfriend, and you’re likely to hear, “You’ve got to go out and meet a new guy!” (If you’re a male seeking advice, it’s something more like, “Let’s go drinking and get you some ACTION!”) But simplistic as it sounds, getting back on the market ASAP has helped dozens of single people recover from a bad breakup. A new date won’t ever replace your ex—and you wouldn’t want to, after all, since that relationship didn’t work! But diving into the dating pool can make you feel attractive to the opposite sex again, give you new things to think about, and — ideally — eventually land you a new partner.

Hey, Ryan. I was with my ex for almost three years. She broke it off five months ago. I was in a bad place at the time and was causing a lot of unnecessary discussions. I took care of my problems and I’ve been working on myself a lot since. I insisted on getting back together for the first two months, which didn’t work. We have kept in touch this time, but not in a flirty way. Plus she hasn’t agreed to go out with me. We saw each other twice on October, but she has declined to see me since. I tried no contact back in November and after 12 days she texted saying she missed her best friend (me). I started conversations and she said she was working on stuff of her own, but then started kind of ignoring me. For a while, I wished she would just shut the door on us so I could move on, and the fact that she refuses to do that makes me believe she still sees us together, though I don’t want to be seen like an option and that I’ll just run right back whenever she wants. I sent her flowers for Christmas, for which she thanked me and sent me a picture of them a week later out of the blue, but I didn’t make conversation. Early this year I asked if I could see her and she said no (actually says “not now”. Like I said, she always sort of evades being straightforward, and I don’t know what to make of that). I decided to get more serious with no contact. It’s been like 15 days and I’m getting the no contact “symptom” of thinking she doesn’t care/is trying to forget about me, etc. Is it too late to be doing no contact? What are your insights on her attitude of not giving clear answers? Thanks!

Now one has to stand down in order to survive the hot climate. This is very important. Because If both of you out of your ego’s are not ready to do what it takes, what it will result in? A fight or a hot talk?None of it will help you out. The best of the response one can have in order to avoid is to stand down. If your boyfriend is outrageous, then the situation can be worse.

Hi, My name is Julia Ladick.I am a senior in high school. It’s a small school and I really don’t know how to get away from him because we both like playing basketball.I am in love with my ex he is a junior in high school. We have been on and off. But he broke up with me and I am so heartbroken. I even wrote him 2 letters on how I care and love him. I was his first kiss and first truly girlfriend in his life. But in my past, I just give up on them. I just to want to lose him or show him that I don’t care about him.Can someone help me to get back together with him.

However if you dumped her but you’ve realized you made a huge mistake, and now you want her back, see my article on that topic in the “blog” section of this website, because all steps on this page show how to get your ex back if it’s the girl who ended it.

How about women just be themselves and if the guy starts withdrawing, then he’s lame and doesn’t want a real person anyway. It’s not my problem that he can’t deal with someone who is an actual feeling, thinking, bleeding human being. I’m so sick of this type of dating advice, that women always have to be the ones to adjust themselves to appease someone else’s weird tepid behavior. That we have to be the ones to “work” on ourselves t in order to land some dud dude who’s half interested. I’m over it.

Within a few months of being together I discovered he was cheating on me with his roommate. I was 30 at the time and he was 26. The girl was only 15 yrs old. I discovered this was going on for while. I stopped talking to him for a few weeks but then went back with him.

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Almost 2 months ago my ex broke up with me and a few days later he got into a relationship with someone else he told me how she makes him happy and how shw treats him good 9 days ago when we were arguing through text one of the last things he said to me 9 days ago was I don’t want you in my life I am happy he then changed his number and deleted his whatsapp do I have any chance of getting him back or should I just accept that it is over ?

I had to end relationship up with my girlfriend (5 years living together) due the fact she found another man to entertain her and she was not willing to make the decision: me or other guy. I tried this no contact rule and she keeps calling and texting me once a day (or so). If I did not answer her contacts, she is getting very upset and sends me irritating messages (like blaming me that I can’t be trusted in serious situations). If I answer her because I assume that there was a really serious reason that she would call me, but there isn’t. If we talk about weather and general stuff, it is fine. If or conversation goes to us or our past, she gets upset and tries to end the call. Last conversation she hinted me that if I would not call her more occasionally, I would waste my opportunity. She even encouriged to call her any time.

You should be extremely careful whenever you go out drinking. You might end up calling your ex and making a fool of yourself. So whenever you go out drinking, have a friend with you who can stop you from making this mistake.

In our therapy sessions Peter recalled that in his family expressions of anger were not allowed.  As a young boy with no one who would listen when he felt negative feelings, Peter often felt abandoned.  

I have a small feeling that he has felt awkwardness as well and that’s why he has felt safety near the other girl. He can be normal with her and he can joke around her. But with me, he is more reserved. Of course we can joke as well..but it is so different. I haven’t texted him at all after last weekend, well on Thursday evening about something we talked at work but didn’t get reply. I decided I don’t text him any unnecessary texts that he doesn’t think I am still interested. Well..I was but I have started to accept the other girl is more in his life than me.

Of course, after your break-up, you may want to date someone new so you can get over with him as quickly as possible. However, note that this will never help you to get your ex-boyfriend back if you have plans of doing so after some time.