At this point, even if it was your ex who broke up with you, you don’t want to give them all the power. You don’t want to be the one who is always available for them. You don’t want to be their contingency plan.
It’s natural to think that if the reason you’re in pain is because you are not with your exgirlfriend, than getting back together with her will fix it. The good news is, there are steps to make this happen, and that’s what we are going to explore in this article.
Alright, lets say that I was trying to get an ex girlfriend back and I had made it this far into the step by step process I am outlining here. I took out a sheet of paper and wrote down what I thought our best couple experiences were together. For the sake of this page lets say that me and my ex had an experience where we were watching a football game outdoors and it was really cold. She was getting very cold so I offered her my jacket.
According to research, it is important to focus on the best parts of the breakup and relationship, especially how they helped you grow as a person, and let yourself forget the negative experiences. One strategy to help you do this is to spend 15 to 30 minutes each day for three days in a row writing about the positive aspects of the breakup.
You know what I’ve found months later? All of it is true, at least to some degree. I think that the last question was a big part of why I was unwilling to let my exboyfriend go, even though I wasn’t as happy as I could have been in our relationship.
But still there is no such program or plan that can actually fulfill the needs of the individuals in those difficult circumstances. Today we are going to enlighten you with some of those excellent yet undiscovered concepts of getting back in a relationship with your girlfriend, that aren’t been discussed before.
I’m not telling you this to brag, but to point to the fact that this is an incredible opportunity that is available to you — but only if you take the first step. Your first step is to read this article in its entirety. Please don’t just skim through it — I don’t want you to miss a single word because when I demystify the process of getting your ex-girlfriend back, you simply cannot fail to take this breakup and turn it into a stronger, healthier relationship with her.
Your action item during the no contact rule when it comes to looks is to not get enamored with them. Realize that if you don’t feel you are good looking your other qualities can make up for it. Trust me on this.
Thus, working on developing yourself is the solution, so that you are actually able to fill this void, derive happiness and satisfaction from within. This happiness and satisfaction from within is actually the source of real self-confidence.
Given the circumstances, he may either be currently unsure on how he feels about you and is trying to figure things out, or he may be pushing you away because something happened, in which case you’ll have to figure which of the 2 it is. It’s also surprising that he said yes to being exclusive but retracts it the very next day, stating that he has issues he wants to sort out first and not telling you about these things before hand.
If you’ve done your homework correctly, you will be oozing confidence and attractiveness out of every inch of your body. And this works doubly as effective on your ex than any other person. Why? Because they were already attractive to you at one point in time. And you are not a stranger to them. You are someone familiar who looks very attractive.
The secret is to change her mood then change her mind. How do you do it? Feelings, like the flu, are contagious. If you are spending time with someone in a great mood, you feel good. If you are with someone who’s down in the dumps, it’s easy for their pseudo-depression to rub off on you.
If, after spending some no-pressure time together, you both mutually feel that there’s still a strong connection between you, you can bring up the topic of your relationship and whether the two of you might want to explore the possibility of getting back together. You might say something like, “I’ve been thinking about our breakup, and I think I understand the problems that led up to it. Do you want to talk about it?”
I have one for you guys! I started dating this girl that in my mind is the perfect one! I mean I couldnt possibly build a better woman. Well after 4 years of dating we broke up because she was tired of my habbits.!? Well we have been broken up now for three years and she still calls and texts every day. When I go to her house for the night she sleeps in her bed alone. She helps me in any way I need. (Bails me outta jail, pays my phone bill, buys me sweet gifts, ect.)
But this book — aside from being based on my personal experiences — is also based on the experiences of over 1,200 other men. Because after it’s initial release I personally consulted with more than a twelve-hundred readers. Then I updated the course to include every possible breakup situation (and it’s solution) imaginable.
Well, one of the negatives of carrying on a conversation for that amount of time is that you don’t leave a person wanting more. Sure, if the conversation was amazing they may call back the next day. However, what if I told you that there was a surefire way to leave your ex girlfriend wanting more.