It’s me again. Since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, he deleted his WhatsApp account but we are still friends on Facebook until now. It has been 3 months, I’ve put some beautiful pictures of me on FB at the end of weekends, and having a lot of my friends liked and comments for them. I’m happy with that. I have been feeling good about myself and become more confident. I really don’t know if he has checked on my facebook it’s just because I’m not focused on him anymore.

Our first priority is to make sure that whatever it is you did, that made her want to finish with you – we discover what that was NOW. Because you gotta stop doing it, otherwise the simple process I’m about to reveal won’t work.

I was very young to fall in love and most of the people might even find it funny may he not but yeah I fell in love with him when I was 16 and now I’m 21. The day I meet him I liked him and i found myself happy and kinda silly and I was interested in him in just two weeks that we recently met and I wish I knew that it was love and and I wish I could stop myself (That we can’t) didn’t even know that .. that’s love and still now when I’m 21 i still find myself in that position called love .. I have been through that relationship but I even block him and for months we didn’t talk but he come back saying he missed and I couldn’t stop myself I let him and still I regret why I let him .. and now i seriously can’t block him .. it’s love at first sight he says he likes me but he doesn’t I even dream about him texting me but when I wake up there is no text and I still miss him badly I tried to move on I couldn’t .. i hate this situation

Hello people on this forum i want to use this opportunity to thank doctor agbedion the spell caster who helped me win my husband back from this other evil who used a magic power to take my man from me and make him to hate me and the kids , and me and my man RAYA ADAMS was happy together until one day when him came back from work and i gave him his dinner and him said i should forget it then i was suspecting something was wrong and i ask him what is it and him said him do not love me anymore and him said him need a break in this marriage and i tried to calm him down , but nothing work out and after two weeks him said him want to travel and packed his things and move out of the house only for me to hear him is with this other woman names Alice and i called him no answer and his families also supported him to get rid of me because this other lady has put black magic on my man and his families and so they pushed me and my kids out of the house i was frustrated and devastated at this point no place to go only my mothers house , so i was praying and seeking help to restore my marriage until one day as i was on the internet i storm into a story about this great spell caster , about how him helped a lady get her man back so i said to contact his email doctoroyasspellhome@gmail.com, and when i explained to him the man cried and said to me i will help you and three days your man will come for you , and him also told me that Adams were under a magic so i did what him ask me to do on Friday and on Monday morning my man called me and said i should come home and that was how me and my man came back together and today we still together happily , so with this great work done for by doctor Agbedion of doctoroyasspellhome@gmail.com, i said i will share to everyone to hear so who so ever that is passing through any kind of relationship problem should also contact him for her and i believe him or she will be restored by doctor Agbedion of doctoroyasspellhome@gmail.com

You may feel like you are important, but you also have to convey that you are important and that your feelings have value. This is going to be very attractive to him. Show him that you are happy with yourself and make it known that you love yourself.

The very next day I went out with my friends for drinks. We went to a popular place that people usually go. That’s where I saw him my ex and surprisingly I was calm. I even saw him flirting with other girls. Before I had started using the law of attraction this would have really upset me but since I had learnt about the ways of the law this had no effect to my emotions. I just continued to have positive thoughts and I decided that I would let him have his fun while I had my fun. Later that evening my ex’s friends joined my friends and I. I was surprisingly having a good time with him and I had no ill thoughts about how he had hurt me.

Not out of spite, mind. And this isn’t the same as blanking them! Because you mustn’t do that. I’m talking about a deliberate effort to avoid them, but if you DO cross paths, you should be polite and brief. And move on.

I know, Sleepless, how good it feels to do nothing but feel sad. To sink into a cozy cocoon of self-pity. It’s so warm in there, so safe. Under the duvet in your yoga leggings eating dry cereal, Snapchat, Seamless, repeat. Been there. It’s where we all go when we’re defeated. Deep inside ourselves, isolated and resentful and inert. Obsessing about our weight and our ass and face.

“If you’ve had an amicable breakup and you see your ex is engaged then you can congratulate him or her and make it a positive thing,” Tebb says. “But if you’re not talking to each other and it wasn’t a good split, then the feelings of jealousy will arise. You’ll get mixed emotions, which is common and normal. So if you’re feeling upset and vulnerable, you need to talk to someone who can listen to you vent. But if you are seeing stuff on social media, get off of it.”

If you do happen to hear through the grapevine that your ex is seeing someone new, try not to jump to conclusions or let jealousy set in. By no means should you do anything to try to thwart a new relationship. Let your ex have some time to find out if you are really the one; you don’t want to force a person to be with you who really wants to be with someone else.

You do not need to find out right away, and you definitely should not send friends to do your investigative work for you. Do not pursue your ex for at least a month after the breakup; instead, look for subtle hints when you run into him or her at school or work, social media posts, or comments that your mutual friends make unsolicited.