He did send me 2 happy birthday messages on the 2nd day to which I ignored both and he hasnt reached out again to me since then. I’m really afraid he’s never going to contact me again. How long should I wait until he calls me?
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BUT… you have to pull it off in the RIGHT way or you could end up hurting the situation, and add to the fact that it can be tricky to pull this off in a breakup situation given the fact that you two probably have much more limited contact now.
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Be positive. Negativity, sadness and depression are not productive when it comes to getting your boyfriend back. In fact, they’re likely to undermine any efforts you make; nothing is less attractive than self-pity. Instead, look for the silver linings everywhere you can. If he hasn’t found a new love interest, it means he’s still stuck on you. If he has moved on, it means he’s trying to forget you by desperately latching onto someone else. Either way, you can get your boyfriend back! Be positive, happy and energetic; these qualities are contagious.
Friends and family might say things like “You’ll be okay again in 2 or 3 weeks” but the reality is that everyone reading this is different and your recovery time is going to vary too. Some people can get a breakup out of their system in a week or two but with any kind of long-term relationship allow yourself 2 – 3 months to come to terms with what happened. If you get back to normal sooner than that then that’s awesome but in the meantime you give yourself as much time as you need – it’s that simple!
If you want a good relationship with your ex boyfriend, you need to have some respect for you, but this doesn’t mean you need to become arrogant to create some pride for yourself. You need to patch up things with your ex boyfriend with a bit of pride and dignity. Treat yourself with as much as respect that you want from your ex.
Welcome to your breakup! It hurts like hell, doesn’t it? Your body just goes numb; this is the lowest low you’ve ever felt in your entire life. Everything’s so gloomy, and you can’t see past today. If you do, it’s scary stuff — a life devoid of meaning and happiness.
I waited until the next day and I replied “hey. What’s up?” But he never responded. The next day the SoCal fires started and I texted him a short “hope you and your kids are safe” again, I never got a reply and I haven’t texted him since figuring that if I’m patient, he will eventually reply. Did I break any protocols? I figured since I’ve been doing NC for a little over a year, it was safe to respond to him since he initiated the texting. Is he just playing with me? He didn’t have to text me when my friend gave him my phone number, so what is his logic? He is a grown man with teenage kids so it’s not like he is an immature guy, though he is acting like one with me.
What an amazing post! I’ve followed lots recently, but always ignored the bit where the writer says cut yourself off from your ex. U could never to it. We were trill friends spoke everyday etc he was just unsure what he wanted. For some reason the bit where you erode if he doesn’t 99.9 % want the relationship then leave his ass was wat needed! I instantly deleted his number, fb and told him I’m moving on! Hopefully this gas given me the strength I needed to to Do so thanks x
Thank you for this post! I’m trying so hard to move on but I’m stuck on #5 “allowing him to string me along”. I know it’s not right but the heart wants what it wants. I deleted his phone number and texts from my phone immediately after reading this. Baby steps :-). I’m hoping that I’ll be better soon
Work on your confidence and start loving yourself. The higher your self-esteem and confidence are, the more you can say that you are fully prepared to have a long-lasting and healthy relationship with him.
Hi thanks for the great advice! Also it’s hard with the NC rule due to we work together. Just today I talked with her for the first time in 4 days only because I have to at work. Although I said hello and merry Christmas, it was still strictly only work related . She was very dry with me even though it was only work related.
Yeah, I don’t think her hubby would like it either. If you are going to marry, better to release that habit and send your thoughts karmically. You risk ruining one or two marriages otherwise. Good luck to you.
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Common wisdom tells us we have to purge ourselves of thoughts and feelings about former lovers and partners. When our loving feelings endure after the break-up, we can feel confused and ashamed. Confused, because we think that as long as an ex is on our mind we must not be “over” him or her, that our romantic lives are stalled. Ashamed because we mistake our loving feelings for a desire to reconcile, to be with someone who no longer wants us or with whom we ended a relationship.
So yesterday I was like I don’t need him to admit anything. I know what I know so why am I waiting for him to admit it. So I was watching the football game and a text came in from him asking if he could rent a movie on my prime account. I responded “seriously? NO!” Then I told him he should ask Sarah the next time he needs anything. I proceeded to call him a f–ng a-hole and a liar and told him to lose my number. He responded called me bitter and a psycho and I should lose his number too. I replied “Better. Your number is blocked!” Which I proceeded to do. It felt really good. So I am here looking for how I can get over him. I mean I loved him and we were together a longtime. I was just disappointed that he didn’t tell me he was interested in some other chick. One thing I have learnt is a-holes always come back if WE let them! Not any more.
A classic tell that you were way more involved in the relationship than she was. Why? Because in a photo like that,you’re fixed on her, but she’s not the same towards you. It’s obvious. And if she knew you were more serious about her than she was about you (she knew – women have a 6th sense for this sh*t), she’d soon have been bored from the lack of challenge you gave. She’d have thought, “If I can get him devoted to me THIS much, then perhaps I can do better”.
Unfortunately, even if he does propose at this time, there isn’t much you can do about it since they are together now and it’s his given right. You’ll just have to have faith that your relationship did mean something to her and she would have the logical sense to say no.
You are the master of your thoughts and your destiny. Don’t make mistakes or give any excuses. You have to take 100% responsibility for your life, which means you have to take 100% full responsibility of your thoughts.
There are all sorts of people out there today, and you need to make sure that you are never setting yourself up to be with someone who is using you in any way. You want to have a relationship with someone who has intentions of working with you as a team and will love you unconditionally for who you are.
Okay, so it’s been a month since our breakup, which he initiated by saying that he wasn’t feeling ‘OK’ with himself so he could, therefore, not be with anyone else, that he was hurting me with his hot and cold attitude (true) and that I deserved so much better. It broke my heart, but after that conversation, I went to his place (I had offered like the weekend to think about it, but he was gonna go away to the beach with friends to ‘clear his head’ and it just was too much for me) that night to break it off. He didn’t let me come into his place, sent his grandma to tell me he wasn’t there, told her I saw him and that I’d wait but only a little while ’cause it was late. He came out, same argument but now backed up by my “I do deserve better”, “I do deserve someone who will fight for me” and his “Let’s be friends”, “I don’t want you to disappear from my life” and “I will always care for you”. I naively believed all this and we were supposed to meet that weekend so he could give me some of my stuff, I got a message late telling me he was sick in bed and couldn’t, so I asked what should we do about it (mistake, I know :/) and then another week went by and didn’t hear from him, so I sent him a subtle text asking for my stuff back that I didn’t wanna fight and there was no point to him ignoring me but… he just kept on ignoring me. BTW, I did stop texting except for yesterday and the day before to pick up my stuff. So, he didn’t reply (he lives far so I didn’t wanna show up and him not there :/) but I went with a gf who sorely hates him and wanted this over and done with for me to move on. Texted him I was a block away, he was so surprised (Um, he could’ve checked his phone when he was online?) and was like “So, you’re getting your stuff and then just leaving?” and I said “Of course, what else do you expect?” and he replied “I don’t know, just asking”. So, he came out and I handed him his stuff, said I didn’t have to bother and asked what I brought. Stupidly, I started to tell him each item but then stopped and just handed him the bag, he handed me my stuff and he was about to talk to me when my friend said “We gotta go, got plans, remember?” and I snapped out of it and just waved and said “Well, take care, bye” and he just looked at me all shocked and ‘sentimental’ (something was going on there, no idea what kind of feelings, confusion?) and I turned around before he closed the door.
There’s this guy that had a crush on me,and i also loved him.We where in the same class.He’s a shy type,he couldn’t tell me his mind.people started calling me his name.we quarrelled cos he’s friend also had feelings towards me.he once askd me if he (his frnd) luvs me and i said he doesn’t.we both quarrelled cos he beared a girl’s name.He blocked me on all social networks.It took us 10 months to reconcile.He came back first.bt right now he hasn’t said anything to me abt dating.I want to know if he still luvs me
I will tell you something someone else told me, some people are not meant to be forgotten, you can’t always get over somebody because you share too much memories. You just need to remind yourself of why it didn’t work, try to get back to your older hobbies and keeping yourself busy, if you do remember him/her then just remember that it’s a memory, a page on your book and you have the rest of the book to finish instead of just going back to older chapters 😉
Stop hurting yourself even more and block him from Facebook. It’s certainly really tough to completely eradicate him from your life like this, but it’s much easier in the long run. The less you know about what he’s up to right now, the better.
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Please help me. I need some advice. i can’t let him go. We’re married for 2 years. we have a daughter. I loved him so much, but he doesn’t love me anymore. We’ve been seperated for a year, i heard some gossip that he’s in serious and loyal relationship right now. but that girl has two child. I can’t accept the fact that he’s loving someonedelse why does he can’t love me? I gave him all. I accept all his cheatings on me. I want to be with him. I still text him, we meet sometimes and use me. But after that he’s just dumping me, but i try to do it again, hoping that we can still fix it and he can love me too. I’m really in pain and i can’t handle it anymore. Help me please.
Hello, Happy New Years! I’m a little nervous. Just held out for a party and was checking my snaps and noticed my ex who I am actively trying to get back is out at a party. Noticed a mutual female friend had similar snaps and realized my ex is at our mutual friends house. The mutual friend has a brother who I know is attracted to my ex and my ex is attracted to him too. My ex is 23 and the guy is only 16 or 17 but I’ve seen them flirt since we broke up and I have a feeling if he was older she’d be open to the idea of going out with him, but nervous there’s going to be flirting that might end in a kiss at midnight or further feelings developing. I know there’s nothing I can do to prevent that, but please advise how I can process the possibility and if something was to happen, which I would probably not find out about. How do I keep my cool moving forward? We have been broken up for a few months now with minimal contact. Please advise.
The point is that stepping back and making yourself less available to people can actually work in your favor. When you’re gone, you give your ex a chance to miss you and the good parts about you—that you’re funny or always a great listener—begin to take center stage over the bad things.
Before you ever try to apply some techniques on how to get back your ex-boyfriend fast, you have to figure out if both parties are willing to compromise. Do you still harbor, resentment, and other negative feelings towards your ex? Does he think negatively of you, too?
If he ever thinks that you are stalking him or acting needy in any way, he could seriously be pushed away. Instead of missing you, he could end up feeling that he was lucky to have it end when it did. [otp_overlay]