I just broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 weeks ago after dating for almost 3 years. He is a nice guy and he truly loved me when we were dating. We both lost our virginity to eachother and we have had so many memories together. He wanted to marry me but I didn’t want to (although I really loved him) because we were very different. And also my mom didn’t want me to marry him because of the same reason. After our graduation (almost 1 month or more later) when we were far, he called it quits over text message. I didn’t want to end it because I was still in love with him. I was so depressed and begged him to stay but he didn’t want to because he was too hurt and also told me that I took him for granted. He told me that we can be friends but it was not easy for me. I still used to txt him saying how sad I am and how much I miss him. He used to get irritated when I txt like that. And once I even asked him if he is dating someone because I used to see him online and never txt me. I had doubted him with one of our mutual friend who used to hang out with him there. He said he doesn’t have a gf right now and later he texted me saying that he’s dating someone and told me not to disturb him… Later that night when I asked that girl(our mutual friend), she said to me that he had told her that he liked her since a year ago. I was more shocked and devastated. I stopped texting him and was so pissed at him. After few days we even fought over texts and I told him to stop texting me. Ever since I didn’t text him and stopped posting sad quotes.

I broke my back and became depressed and pretty much pushed him away by being so moody and unhappy. I am back at work too and getting on with life but a day doesn’t go by when I don’t think of him – it has been two years and I can’t see myself ever not being in love with him.

I am going through a hard time with a very you g boyfriend. 9 years younger. And i have been crying and texting him and the last i did was called him. He said he was busy playing game and hung up on me when i ask if he still wants us.

Getting over someone you had an emotional connection with can be very hard. Wheather it was you or ur partner who ended the relationship it ultimately leaves you and him/her with many insecurities and questions about and to yourself such as “did i do the right thing?” “Does that mean im not enough?”. In my opinion the first step in getting over someone is to clear out your head from all the doubts and seek peace in the ending of things in order to e able to look beyon and reach step number 2 which is to learn to love yourself. Which is important because u must reassure yourself that you are no less than enough and that you are capable of being on your own. Step number 3 is to distance yourself from any confusion or altercation concerning your ex, its best not to have them walking in and out of your life as they please which leads to step number 4, be confident that you will find someone for you, but in order for the right person to come along you must be the right person that can be found.

I know No Contact period is very painful for some girls especially for those who love their ex-boyfriend from the bottom of their heart. Many girls asked me what they can do during this No Contact period.

If your boyfriend was physically, emotionally, or verbally abusive in any way, you should not try to get back together with him. It’s perfectly normal for you to miss him even if it was an unhealthy relationship, but it’s important to remind yourself that you can do better.

If you don’t focus on this section, then it is possible you can make one of the two mistakes while planning your ‘FIXIT’ date. It would be a crime if you take this date too seriously, but you don’t have to take it too lightly as well.

Peter arranged to meet his wife for coffee. He brought with him his list of all the old habits that he now understood had been problematic in the old relationship. He also listed the new habit patterns he was building to replace the old ones.  

Reason #1 – Avoid Getting Needy: One of the reason to go no contact with your ex is you avoid looking needy to your ex boyfriend. This will also stop you from labeling yourself as insecure. As we already discussed before, insecurity and clinginess are two biggest unattractive qualities that kills all attraction from the relationship.

Long distance relationship, We dead-loved each other for one year and then I broke up. She left immediately and I missed her for two weeks and texted back. Three months I didnt care, She kept texting and called. slowly she came up with this breakup thing. All of a sudden she declared breakup and I couldnt digest it. I begged her for 2 weeks. Will she get back? How long should I wait?

My ex boyfriend broke up with me because his fiancé I didn’t know abt found out about us and my ex told me I ruined his life because his fiance dumped him we have been staying together for a year I love him alot I asked for forgiveness and beg him to get back together and he told me we will never be together I xld stop contacting sending him message he blocked me on whatsap and m thinking of talking to him face to face at his place. He unblocked me and told me we can be friends he told me I xld pretend as if we never met and blocked me again what xld I do I love him can’t move on please help me its been a week since we broke up

After your boyfriend dumps you, you can’t stick around and ‘be there’ for him. Some guys will try to guilt you into staying friends after the break, citing all sorts of reasons the two of you can somehow make it work. The reality is this: the longer you stay around your ex’s life after he breaks up with you, the deeper you’re digging yourself into the Friendship Zone. Nothing’s harder to do than get back together with an ex boyfriend whom you’ve already become friends with. Steer clear for a while, if you want him back.

If you decide that you’re ready to get your Ex back, you should also be exploring other options. If you feel that it’s too early to go on a date with someone else, then it’s too early to fully re-engage with your Ex.

How can you prevent this? Really, change. Make him change too. When you become better, you have the right to expect him to get better too. Build a relationship where you grow and improve together as individuals and partners, not enemy’s that slow each other’s progress down. He is not yours and never will be, not even when you both have a ring on your finger, so don’t view him as a thing you’ve got a right over, like owning a car or your shoes.

That was 19days ago. We had a little argument and I stopped talking immediately. I have been going out and posting lots of fun pics and videos for my ex to see. He hasnt contacted me in 19days and neither have I.

I BROKE IT OF WITH MY “WIFE” NEVER WAS ACTUALLY MERRIED WANTED TO 4 THE PAST 16 YEARS AND I COULDNT BECAUSE SHE WAS STILL MARRIED ON TOP OF THAT SHE MESSED AROUND WITH HER X LESB GF WHILE SHE STILL WAS WITH ME WTF

The worse thing you can do is to drink alcohol to forget him. You’ll end up hooking up with some idiot in a club that you’ll never want to see again, the next day you’ll just feel depressed. Pull yourself together! You don’t need alcohol to get over your ex boyfriend. That’s what weak people do. Are you weak? Of course not.

Our first priority is to make sure that whatever it is you did, that made her want to finish with you – we discover what that was NOW. Because you gotta stop doing it, otherwise the simple process I’m about to reveal won’t work.

Once you snap out of the hermit-at-home phase, you are ready to be on the top of your game. Be the girl who’d light up a whole room when she walked into it, be the woman who was the life of the party, be the one who gets out with the girls every weekend and calls out the world with some martinis. Say ‘yes’ to life and love will follow.