Well, in this section we are going to be discussing exactly what you can do to move on with your life leaving no sign of your ex boyfriend. I wanted to create this section for women who literally want nothing to do with their exes anymore. Either they were so hurt by him that they don’t even want to think of him anymore or they feel no need to be friends with him every again.
I’m 24 year old and i was dating him for 2 years..one day I saw messages in his phone..he was trying to make a relationship with another girl and he told me sorry and give him a chance..I gave him a chance and after 1year he began to neglect me and I was really sad and i asked why he said he need some space and it’s better to make some distance..I didn’t agree and in our third aniversary day he saw messages of me and one of my friend (boy) and i was confused when he told that I have a affair with that guy..he was really happy in that day and then he suddenly told me that he don’t need me anymore because I m a cheater..I try to explain him that that guy is just my friend but he didn’t need to hear..then he blocked me and I’m alone and i realy love him and i don’t need any other in my life..I didn’t cheat him but once he tried to cheat me
If you follow through with learning and applying Jane’s four step methd, he will want you again. Not only this, but at some point any communication barriers between the two of you are going to melt. Poof! The wall between you two will vanish and in it’s place will be the raw, unfiltered, pure love you deserve from him.
When couples come together, your concept of identity joins. When you breakup, you are not only physically separated. Your identity now has a serious gap to fill. Keep this in mind as you try to get him back. This will help you avoid feeding into potential feelings of desperation.
While breaking up with someone is certainly tough, I almost think it’s harder to go through a separation period. With a permanent breakup it’s over and it becomes a matter of healing and moving on. When I endured a temporary breakup with my spouse, the future was unknown, and I found it to be very unsettling not to know where I stood with him. Even though the split was a very emotional rollercoaster ride that lasted close to eight months, I do think that temporarily breaking up made us a stronger couple and I learned many important lessons as a result.
If you two just broke up recently, and he was the one who ended it, best thing to do is to give him some “breathing room”. Just stay calm and give him some time. You don’t want to become his ‘crazy ex girlfriend’.
Reason #3 – Increases Your Value: How many times you have heard people start giving value to things once they are gone. Similarly, your ex boyfriend will understand your value once he misses you. You have to reach that value and then your boyfriend will come to know how valuable you are in his life.
The key here is to use your advantages to win him over again. New relationships are tough. It’s not always easy to learn all there is to know about someone. Even feeling comfortable around a new someone can take some time. This being said, him making a move BACK to you is much, much easier. And a lot of men are lazy and generally opt to take the easiest path possible. All you have to do is make that path an option.
I’ve been having a hard time getting over and stop thinking of my ex. We’ve had a rough break up however it ended in a fake nice way. It’s been 3 months now however it feels like it was just yesterday. We’ve dated in total of 8 months. Before we’ve dated he was dating his ex fiancé, a relationship that lasted 3 years. After 3 months of his ex fiancé breaking up with him, he start dating me. Making me realize that I might have been a rebound. Most of our problems involved his ex fiance. Which makes me believe, that is his baggage. Currently he is dating someone else.
Don’t be too obvious in expressing your desire to get him back. The worst thing you can do is throw yourself at your ex-boyfriend. You must demonstrate that you are your own person. Having said that, there are subtle ways you can express interest.