Give her some space. The first thing you need to do is give the girl some space. If you start knocking down her door and calling her every five minutes she’ll only pull further away from you. The amount of space and time you give her depends on what happened when you tried to date her. If you ended a serious relationship, you’ll need to give her more space than you would if you had just dated a few times.

hello my name is shane. I recently broke up with my ex about three months ago. She was the only girl that i knew and after i got broke up with her she was not talking to me at all so i let her cool down for a least two weeks and she and me started talking again.i tried to tell her i dont feel lkie talking to her she kept talking to me and i dont know why but when i got a new phone she asked for my phone number and i gave it to her without asking why but we started talking everyday.i still have feelings for her but ii dont know if she does for me a week goes by and she said are you dating anyone and i said no i was confused because she just asked that out of the blew . I REALLY need advice should i get back with her or stay single for a little more .im only 16 years old anyway and i really need help at this time.

My ex and I have been talking ever so slightly lately but nothing substantial. About a month ago I asked her in person if she was mad at me and she said yes bc of stuff I said to another person. She didn’t tell me what I said or who I said it to. Honestly I have no clue. She added how she thought it was funny how I said that we would get back together one day(she dumped me) but that I closed the door on us even being friends. She’s only 23 and I’m the only person she dated. I’m having a hard time getting her to talk to me about it. A bit afraid to ask her in person bc she’s always surrounded with her friends at work and don’t feel it’s appropriate to show up at her home. She won’t reply to a text that involves talking about why she’s upset. What do I do? What are my options here?

your past history together. Once you know how to draw out her existing feelings and bring those past memories to the surface, you’re only a few steps away from getting back together with your ex girlfriend.

Many texts went back and forth he stated he was in a bad place he is drinking too much and angry at his ex. he said his heart wasn’t in it with me. He asked me to give him time, he said he wanted me to meet the real him and not the angry guy he is now. He wants to bring me on romantic weekends away and surprise dates when he gets his head straight. He stated he was only dating me and had no interest in dating sites. He asked me to give him time stating he really liked me. I asked him to delete any naughty texts etc we sent each other he said he was sad deleting them and would miss spending time with me. I did did not reply two hours later he texted again asking me to give him time and said please don’t hate me. I told him to sort his head out and id look forward to meeting the real him but told him not to take too long. He said he wouldn’t as he really liked me. All his messages were signed off with an x.

So, now that you know what changes you need to make physically lets talk about arguably the harder thing to improve, your mental state. One of the biggest assets about the no contact period is that it gives you time to calm down a bit from the mental tension that was your breakup. This section is going to be all about how to get through your breakup and heal emotionally. However, in order for that to happen you need to take a few actions first.

The big takeaway that I want you to get from this is that you have to look like you take care of yourself. The second that you stop looking that way is the second you appear less attractive than you really can be.

b.  Appearing to treat his wife as a second-rate citizen by ignoring her much of the time and by disagreeing with whatever she would say when they did talk.  His kindly telephone conversations, by contrast, with his ex-wife added fuel to her fire.

I was dating this girl for 3 years she was everything I wanted she was sweet very nice helpful beautiful very supportive but also was crazy and pretty jeleouse she did have a right to be though I had a lot of chick friends and would talk to them and boy she would flip I ended up deleating messages from them because I just was tired of the arguments it got worse I started reciving nudes from one oft chick friends and she caught me ever since that day it got all bad she was torn up really bad boy I was a mess I felt so bad I begged her back then she did take me back but then she told me she couldn’t take it anymore and that she was still hurt from it and broke it off again I begged her back and now she said she won’t ever take me back and tells me to move on she looks like she’s set with her decision there was this one time she saw me with a girl as I was picking up some oft stuff from her and (she was just my friend) afterwards she started texting me saying how much I’ve hurt her and that I haven’t changed I replied with “I’m single” she was upset honestly I just want her back I miss her dearly she was my best friend I was 100percent my self around her I miss our laughs together her smile just a lot of stuff I want back if anyone can give me some advice I’d love it I really want her back I don’t know what to do

There is a big difference in acknowledging your problems rather than allowing them to control you. Knowing you have anger feeling in the objective sense will help you to control your emotions in the better way.

ME: “I love you so much with all my heart and it hurts so much to lose YOU the love of my life!!! ? I want with all my heart to be with you; to share my life with you and be with you for the rest of my life, marry you and someday have kids with you!!! There’s no other person that I want to spend the rest of my life with, to marry and to be the mother of my kids. I’d rather be alone than NOT spend the rest of my life with you!!! I miss you so much already it hurts!!! You’ll always be my princess in my heart!!! I’m so sorry for being such a shit boyfriend, especially on our holiday!!! I wish I had another chance with you and I can’t bare to think of you being with someone else. Please take me back I love you so much!!! You’re my everything and my one and only and you’ll always be!!! ? PLEASE!!! I’m begging you to take me back!!! I want to be with you so much!!! Xoxoxo” [otp_overlay]