What’s that got to do with it, you ask, she’s marrying someone new?
We will get to that.
All marriages accumulate “issues” as the day to day grind of life, with all its associated trials and tribulations has its way of taking a toll on a relationship.
Mind you it doesn’t HAVE to take a toll on the relationship, after all, God intended marriage to be a partnership where two people work as a TEAM to overcome the problems in life. Yet, for some reason, human nature likes to be able to point the finger at someone to be at fault for what ails us.
And we never like pointing the finger at ourselves.
Who is handy to blame? Our spouse.
Unfortunately this can lead to a blame game spiral that ultimately leads to divorce in a relationship between two people who really do belong together.
Maybe you are wondering “how can I get my ex wife back” because you have come to the realization that the two of you do belong together and the divorce was a mistake.
One challenge you will have is that your ex wife’s most recent memory of you will be the pain of the divorce, so she may not like even thinking about you let alone seeing you or talking to you. This is complicated further if you are juggling children and associated responsibilities – likely with less money now to do it with.
Where does Reese Witherspoon getting married fit in?
From what I understand, Reese was married for about 7 years, had two children and was divorced. Then she was “in a relationship” (read that married without the rings) with that guy whose name no one knows how to pronounce.
Now the article I read over the weekend says she is marrying a Hollywood agent (not hers). One reason they gave is that she really wants the SECURITY of being married.
If I were that guy I would be interested in her LOVING me, not just wanting to secure some security! After all, Reese is without a doubt a very attractive, talented woman with not only money but earning power.
Gosh, any one of thousands of guys could provide security. Is she just afraid of being alone?
Here is what that has to do with you and your ex wife
What I want you to do is honestly evaluate why you think you want to get back together with your ex wife.
Are you just afraid of being alone?
Are you just angry because you know she is seeing other guys?
Before embarking on the difficult journey of getting your ex wife back, make very sure your motives are pure in this, because that is the only way it’s going to work out the way you want.
And if you do have children, you may not want them to see you two together too much or let them know you might be trying to work things out. If they get their hopes up and you end up not getting back together then that just makes them re-live the pain of the divorce all over again.
So tread carefully.
If upon examining your motives you find that you really, truly, do want to get your ex wife back and for the right reasons, then go about it the smartest way possible.
It’s in your best interest to make as few mistakes as possible when dealing with your ex wife, so don’t go about it half-cocked, as they say. Do a little research and find out what techniques have the highest likelihood of re-attracting her to you and NOT upsetting her more.
One of the most helpful people I could steer you to for some specific recommendations on how to pursue getting your ex wife back is T.W. Jackson. We have been using his materials for a couple of years now and, quite frankly, have been absolutely amazed with what we have seen.
Why not start by watching a video he did that he posts over at his website. Watch it here.