4 Ways To Keep Her In Love
We have been writing about how people in a relationship have to make each other feel special, feel their love and always acknowledge the other person with genuine appreciation.
So today we want to give you four simple ways to make your girl feel special; keep her thinking about you, and essentially ensure that she will not be thinking about leaving you.
There is really no such thing as a perfect relationship where two people are a perfect match, with no fights and you agree on absolutely everything. A successful and happy relationship or marriage is likely to be one where each of you know how to make each other feel loved and appreciated.
If you feel disrespected or scorned by your spouse, you’re not going to feel good about your relationship and you are not likely to want to stay living with that person.
Do You Make Her Feel Put Down?
It is quite common in our society for women to feel – whether warranted or not – as though they are taken for granted, second class, less important to the man they love. Over time, resentment builds and may even turn to anger.
Some feel that they can never measure up no matter how hard they try and that everything they do is wrong. A contributing factor can simply be that many tasks are accomplished by women in a different manner than men would choose to do it, and the man lets her know that.
This can lead to periods of desperation and depression in the woman’s life where she just wants to cry for what seems – to her man – to be “no reason at all”.
How To Make Her Feel Special & Loved
Here are just a few simple ways to reinforce to the woman you love that she is loved by you, cherished and important.
- Handwritten love notes. Yes, texts are OK to use, but not here. Make it HANDWRITTEN, you still remember how to do that, right? Many of you did things like this when you first started dating. When was the last time you left her a handwritten love note on her pillow, or in her lunch box, or on the steering wheel of her car? Bathroom mirrors are another good place. Don’t have sticky notes? Get a piece of paper and find some tape. This does not have to be a poem or song lyric worthy, just something simple and even silly.
- Find ways to “reward” her. If she is a stay at home mom then she might appreciate you bringing home her favorite gourmet candy or charm for her bracelet that says “best mom”, “greatest cook”, etc. A chocolate bar with a ribbon and a note could do the trick. Maybe she accomplished something at work that they gave her no credit for – let her know that YOU noticed and appreciate it.
- Take over with the kids for a day or night. Give her the time off to do something for her, letting her know that you are doing it because she “deserves” it. Maybe she goes out, maybe she sequesters herself in the bathtub, hot tub or sewing room. Whatever lets her relax and not worry. She CANNOT be able to hear chaos going on in the house, though, or it will NOT be relaxing. Do your own homework ahead of time so you are prepared with things to do and don’t try to just “wing it”.
- Let her know your feelings, verbally. She may think she is attracted to the strong silent type, but she doesn’t want to be married to a silent statue. Hearing from you that you love and appreciate her is almost magical, if done sincerely and not just to “get something in return”. Tell her “job well done” when she does accomplish something you know she worked hard on.
Girl’s worth keeping do not need fancy cars, boats and travel to make her feel special. In fact, that stuff wears off quickly anyway, so if you are short on money know that you still can make her feel special and draw her tighter to you than she has ever been before.
The simple ways to let her know that she is loved, important and appreciated – on a REGULAR basis will do absolute wonders to turn her attitude around, give her hope and bring a smile to her face – directed at YOU!