Marriage is a tricky one. After years of being together it can seem monotonous and boring. People settle into a routine and then start to resent eachother after a while. A marriage takes work, from both parties. The trouble is trying to get that other person to want to want to work at it. No mean feat. If you are a woman it is all about understanding the male mind and why they do not want to open up and talk. You have to use the male lingo to get any headway here.
Soon after that I too went to pursue my studies in a different state and able to adapt to his schedule. he never stooped complaining to me that I never gave him space and time. I have fit myself to sccept less than 10 hrs call a day and 6 months once visit that what we initially had and yet he is not happy with the transformation. Things build up and we had a major break up. He was deeply hurt when I kept rubbing on his wound over and over again as I kept venting out whatever in me. He was crying and he was deeply hurt. (I did not do it on purpose but I was really frustrated). I had really hard time moving on. I could never lose contact from him. After 2 years, we talked as usual and we went out as friends. he then have graduated and into work life.
Do not pursue your ex during this time. That means no calling, texting, or asking around about how he or she is doing. Most importantly, do not ask your ex questions about why the breakup happened or about whether he or she is seeing anyone. This comes across as desperate..
Note that you may overcome such feelings eventually. Your reason for wanting him back is because you genuinely love him and care for him. You should be able to see yourself having a bright future with him and committing to love him and stay with him no matter what.
He also told himself after i left his city that if he did meet someone, he wouldnt let waiting for me get in the way of it as he didnt know how long to wait. He just never properly communicated this to me. Should I just move on or try the above?
At the very least, you’ll be so booked up with first dates at wine bars and coffee shops that you’ll hardly have any free time to sit at home and cry to John Legend songs while you think about your ex.
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That definitely won’t help, he’ll just hate you and he’ll feel hurt, almost as if you were cheating on him. Instead… he has to see that you are still emotionally available for him, you just need some space and time to heal after your break up. Hint him that you might like to get back together, but don’t attack him about it. Give him space and see how he reacts.
The good news is that there is potential for ending up with reunion and a better-than-ever relationship ahead. Here’s five steps that can save folks from crashing down the waterfall, enabling them instead to find solid ground and a bridge to a better future.
If you see your friends, do not avoid them, but do not go out of your way to make plans with them. You want to be civil and respectful, however it is hard to get over your ex when his or her friends are constantly reminding you of them.
There are certain techniques to get him back again and you will learn them here. When someone tells you that you can use tricks to get him back you can often assume the worst. Of course no relationship should be built on deception and you should not have to trick someone to want to be with you. What I am talking about here are psychological tricks that we are unaware of. If you understand the way that the male psyche operates you will be able to change your behaviour in a positive way to make him more attracted to you.
Before you try to win your ex back, work on fixing any bad habits you have or mistakes you made that caused you to break up in the first place. Then, ask your ex to hang out as friends and take the opportunity to show them how you’ve changed for the better. Laugh, smile, and be positive when you’re around them. Wait until you’ve developed a friendship again before having a serious conversation with your ex about getting back together. For more help getting back with your ex, like what to do if they’re in a new relationship, read on!