We totally get it: break-ups are tough. When it comes to bad break-ups, we collegiettes have all been there–curled up on the couch with a pint of Ben and Jerry’s, moping about our (now ex-) boyfriend and browsing though the newly posted pictures of him and his new girlfriend on Facebook. Getting over a break-up with your boyfriend is hard enough, but figuring out how to stop obsessing over him can be even harder. Maybe you constantly find yourself reaching for your cell phone to text him or you can’t seem to go anywhere without hearing Adele’s “Someone Like You” on the radio, but either way, you can’t get over him.

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Make him jealous (optional). This doesn’t work for everyone, but if you think that having your ex see you with another guy, or just flirting with a group of guys, will make him want to be around you even more than go for it. This doesn’t mean you should get another boyfriend just to make him jealous. Just let him see you flirting, tossing your hair back, or even getting on the dance floor with another guy or two.

In this entire step, you learn fours reasons that are mainly responsible for the breakup. Understanding these reasons are very important for learning about how to get him back. Additionally we have defined strategies in each section that can be use to combat these faults.

Hi please I need your advice, I have 11 years live in partner we have 4yrs old daughter. My partner had first family but they were not married he decided to celebrate holidays to his first family. I look like i was in tantrums for being angry so he broke up with me. I dont know what to do now and I felt so pity to my child.I want him back but he never showed up here..

If you want to do something positive when you start to feel that mopey, “I miss my ex” mood coming on, the best thing you can do is set a challenge for yourself. Every time you think about getting back with your ex, you have to do something good—like donate to a charity or get down and do a bunch of burpees.

And you don’t need a man in your life to learn how to do this. Instead, practice “framing your feelings” with everyone you meet and even on your own. Start right now by asking yourself what you feel. Then say it out loud. Say, “I feel shaky,” or “I feel sad,” or “I feel happy just looking at that flower over there.” Practice this everywhere you go, and it will become natural to you in days. Then when you talk to the man you love, use this new way of expressing your feelings. You’ll notice a miraculous change in the way he connects to you and opens his heart.

I had a girlfriend of 4 years that started right before we both attended college. The sex was great, relationship was awesome, we both were givers. We even made it work while she attended school 7 1/2 hours away for an entire year. I recently moved 4 hours away for a job and as soon as I did, the relationship took a turn. It was a pain to get her to come visit me, and whenever I went and visited her I always had to hang with her and her friends. No alone time. We kept getting in fights and eventually she ended it by saying she wasn’t in love with me anymore. I went nuts for a few weeks until I found your work and initiated NC. She got back in touch with me after a few weeks and I arranged a date.

I don’t want you to feel bad. This is all normal, including the panicked thoughts about how to win back your ex boyfriend. Once, after a particularly bad breakup, I spent an entire week in my apartment with the blinds closed and the phone unplugged. I cried for days on end and ate nothing but wheat thins and cream cheese while I plotted out text messages that I was sure would be integral in getting him back.

The way your relationship ended can often give clues as to how you can get it back. By fixing certain things that are wrong with your relationship, you can both get back on the path to being happy again.

Just another hard working mom who loves her kid, loves to write, can’t cook, and has a thing for tentacles! When I’m not hanging out with my Spawn, I’m happily sharing my dating experiences and offering advice and trying to control the chaos that comes with being human.

The very first thing you need to do to get your boyfriend back is resist the powerful urge to run after him, call him, text him, send messages to him via friends and family, or show up at his door. As I said above, this is going to feel really difficult, but you MUST do it if there is any hope that you will get your boyfriend back.

Similarly, your relationship also didn’t come to an end just because your ex boyfriends finds someone prettier or sexier than you. It is crucial to understand your ex boyfriend was attract with your seductive, selective and sexier appearance and he didn’t leave you just because he finds someone sexier or seductive than you. If he didn’t like you in the first look then he never pursuit you over the other opportunities he had.

I was with a guy for 5 years from being 16, I cheated on him at 16 but I was just young and stupid but we stayed together for the 5 years after this incident, we both went to uni which was the same one but he just didn’t seem to want me in his life once he started, he would never want to go out together or with his friends and it started to hurt, I found out he was talking to a someone he used to like in school online asking her to come round to his flat to make her “dinner” and this was painful after that our relationship deteriorated and we eventually broke up, but he would always blame me and hold onto when I cheated on him which by this time was 5 years prior and the majority of our relationship was after that, after breaking up we kept talking and whenever one of us was ready to try again the other wasn’t and it kept going in circles, then he said he wanted to and I was ready to try again, this was a year and a half after the break up, he said this and changed his mind and said it was due to me talking to other guys whilst we had been broken up, I then see a few days later he is in a relationship with another girl which he didn’t tell me I had to find out from my friends and this hurt, now it’s nearly 2 years after the break up and I’m still a mess about this and he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore and says it is unfair to his new girlfriend how I try to talk to him, I just can’t seem to move on and the whole time we have been broken up I haven’t and feel like I can’t, the worst part is losing your best friend, I want to be angry about it but I can’t, I just miss talking to him and hoping it would of been different, I don’t want to ruin his happiness now though but I just hate the thought that he’s fine with never talking again which makes me just feel worthless and insignificant to him now and how he obviously played me off against his new girlfriend before deciding who he wanted and after everything we had gone through to together for years, I want so bad to be over it as it’s been going on too long now but each day I’m still so upset by it and people say time heals but it’s not, 2 years of not even being together and I’m still no where near over it, how to let go of someone you still love when they don’t want you in their life at all

I am leaning towards not talking for a year and then being his distant friend. He said he prefers to be distant friends (the type that every 3-6 months check up on eachother to see how they are because theh still care for eachother) but that the decision is ultimately mine because he did mess with my mind a little after the breakup changing his mind over and over. I just don’t know if taking a year off to get over it and then opening the wound to be friends would be productive. I know that being friends would probably lead to us reconnecting which I do want in the future. This guy is the UG (ungettable guy ) for me.

Thank you for your reply, he has not blocked me just deleted me, I got the impression that it was out of anger but I’m not sure. He has not blocked my phone number so should I message when NC is over?

b.  Appearing to treat his wife as a second-rate citizen by ignoring her much of the time and by disagreeing with whatever she would say when they did talk.  His kindly telephone conversations, by contrast, with his ex-wife added fuel to her fire.