What is really driving you to want to get back with her?  Is it because she is the most special girl in the entire world, your one true soul mate?  Because out of the 3.5 billion women in the world, she is the most amazing, beautiful, perfectly matched girl for you?

Notice how I didn’t specify if this friend was a male or female. You just planted a seed of doubt in your ex boyfriends head and now he is going to wonder if you saw a romantic movie with a friend or with a date.

After the recovery period, we move on to the rekindling period. There are two parts to this. The first part is making your ex MISS you. Yes, part of this is NOT talking about her. Think about it… when you were with her, you were around her and talking to her like crazy. Now that you’ve taken that away from her, she’ll begin to miss you. This is one of the reasons why the ‘no contact’ thing works so well.

The first phase is the recovery phase. Why recovery? Well, you need to recover and get over that loneliness and heartache so you can think rationally. I know it’s difficult at this point to just think about recovery, but in this state, you don’t want to slip up and say something that will push your ex girlfriend further away.

This time off will also help you to distinguish between normal grief after a breakup and a real desire to be with your ex again. Nearly everyone feels sad after a breakup, even if their ex was a jerk and they were truly incompatible. Time alone will help you sort out these feelings.[4]

Unfortunately, sometimes relationships get shaky and come to an end, but they don’t have to be permanent. If she is worth the effort, you may follow these suggestions to win your ex girlfriend back in 5 steps.

Kevin, we broke up 8 days ago. Since then, I have messaged him everyday constantly and he barely replies. I have to text him a hundred times before he replies just once. I really love him and want to be with him, but I don’t understand why he is acting like this. He said he loved me and then suddenly this.

I moved in with two people as roommates. And as you can guess I fell in love and started a relationship with one of them. I am west European..she Japanese and she is a few years older then I am and she is also the apartment owner. …ads up doesn’t it? Anyway for like 3,5 months we hat a intense relationship. everything started off fine…both being very happy. Occassionaly we hat a fight (both of us being very stubborn) but managed to make up with each other everytime. Up until she hat enough and told me: we are not fit for one another. and that is where she broke up leaving me devastated for a couple of days. The whole thing was more awkward because we still kept seeing each other as roommates. After a hard blank look in the mirror at myself I decided I did not like myself like this and that I would smash that mirror into pieces. So I started working on myself…being more tidy, clean, went running, hang out with friends more etc. She did started to respond positive to my new attitude, suddenly being overly sweet and nice (playing with my hair, gentle touches and telling me her favourite words were: stupid-*my name*) but also saying that we would just be roommates. For me who held myself together for 2 weeks that was just to much and boy did I cry once she left the house. Then I made a decision. I could not live together with her like this. It was pure torture. I mean: ‘no I don’t want a relationship with you anymore’ and ‘yes, I do want you to stay my roommate’ doesn’t add up now does it? So the next day I confronted her and told her I was going to move out. Then she starts to cry and telling me that she doesn’t want me to leave. ‘What the hell?!’ im thinking but also: ‘Aha, finally some emotion’. Next day she comes up with reasons why it might not be practical to move out yet and that I probably will not find a better place. At the same day I did find another place close by and later told her I would be leaving soon. Now contact between us is on surface-level…mainly being polite to one another. Soon I am going to move out and there are still a thing or two not talked over yet. Also im wondering..what after I moved out? Will she start missing me and try to contact me? And if she does how will I respond and what to do?

Please reconsider our relationship and please give it another chance!!! I’d do anything and give anything to make you happy and make our relationship work!!! Please, I’m begging you baby!!! This is obviously not the way I want to ask, and I’d want to do it more romantically and in person, but please marry me!!! You’re the best thing that has ever happened to me, you’re the best thing in my life and always have been!!! And I want to spend the rest of my life with you, and someday have a family with you!!!”

While it is quite challenging to figure out exactly how to get your ex-girlfriend back, note that it is actually possible. There are plenty of solutions out there that will help you win her back and let your love bloom once again. However, before making your move towards her, it is important to ask yourself first whether it is really what you want.

hello my name is shane. I recently broke up with my ex about three months ago. She was the only girl that i knew and after i got broke up with her she was not talking to me at all so i let her cool down for a least two weeks and she and me started talking again.i tried to tell her i dont feel lkie talking to her she kept talking to me and i dont know why but when i got a new phone she asked for my phone number and i gave it to her without asking why but we started talking everyday.i still have feelings for her but ii dont know if she does for me a week goes by and she said are you dating anyone and i said no i was confused because she just asked that out of the blew . I REALLY need advice should i get back with her or stay single for a little more .im only 16 years old anyway and i really need help at this time.

Ideally, you want it to be your ex’s idea to get back together. You just want to be yourself (attractive, fun, happy, and awesome). Do not talk about your past relationship or your breakup. It will lead to no good. That relationships is over and if you two do get back together, it will be a new relationship. There is no point digging old graves when you want to start a new life.

You are going to call him with the intention of only going out for a small get together. The key here is to be non threatening. Your ex boyfriend might not be as receptive to meeting you somewhere extravagant and out of his way.

Dating again to re-kindle the spark immediately after the breakup doesn’t usually work well, because not enough time has passed since then for real changes to have been made for fresh feelings to develop. Additionally, old habits would still remain, and it could easily turn into a situation where you face all the problems of a relationship, but not the full benefits of it since you guys are only ‘dating’. I suggest taking some time off to actually focus on yourself since he is doing the same, and gauge the situation again later on.

My gf doesnot want to c me anymore..nor c wants to talk 2 me..or evn hear her voice..everything was alright jst a month ago..bt nw cz suddenly changed..i tried calling her messeging her bt no use..c evn hav unfriend me from facebook..n nw dnt accept my frnd request..c jst wants me 2 go away..

By taking the initiative instead of waiting to be invited out, you’ll show your friends you still care about them. Additionally, you’ll have a greater amount of control over where you go and what you do together, which should help minimize the chances of running into your ex or anything that reminds you of her.