This tactic is a little like flirting. The key to compliments are to work them in during your conversation over text. Knowing when to slip them in will depend on your gut feeling and the context of the conversation you are having. Here is a good example of a great compliment:
Even if she talks about something negative about you or your past relationship; you should not take it a bad sign. If she is sharing something with you (even if it’s negative); it means that she is trying to convince herself to get back together.
Your body is in good shape and mind now it is time to update your mind as well. You have to update your knowledge by reading books and surfing different websites. It is important to update your information about the topic that is common in between you and your ex. When you both meet together it is also important for your body and mind to meet together as well.
A hand written letter is a great way to contact your ex right after you’ve finished no contact. A hand written letter stands out in this age of digital technology. Of course, you can use an email as well.
Also, this is slightly different than I thought I should do it. Based on what I should text him after the 30 day + few more for divorce date to go by mark, (based on your article) I have actually composed a message. The flow of the message is as follows:
Complete the NC first and make your plans again from there. If you guys were best friends for 2 years and had a meaningful relationship, it wouldn’t be possible for her to move on that quickly and completely disregard you unless she never felt the same way.
a lack of respect on either side. If you or your ex call each other names, belittle each other’s accomplishments, or say disparaging things about one another to your family or friends, then there is no respect in that relationship. These are all features of an emotionally abusive relationship. Find someone who shows you the respect you deserve, and commit to treating him or her with respect as well.
You should be extremely careful whenever you go out drinking. You might end up calling your ex and making a fool of yourself. So whenever you go out drinking, have a friend with you who can stop you from making this mistake.
***Recently started dating someone I’ve known for a while. I always knew she had a thing for me and I was also attracted to her so I thought I would give it a shot. This time around, she’s the one that really likes me and I’m just going with the flow and taking it step by step (compared to my previous relationship). I’m also learning a ton from this relationship and realizing many things from my previous one with my ex. I still catch bad habits that I use to to do with my ex, but more importantly I have much more empathy for my ex. The bad thing about this relationship is, the more imtimate I get with my current girlfriend, the more I realize I’m still in love with my ex…
There are certain texting and calling rules you can follow that will ensure you come across more attractively to an ex than you have been recently. These rules are simple but extremely powerful. Obviously they’re only simple and powerful if you know what they are. Once again, see my Category A video to learn more.
So in reality, all that you really need to do to regain credibility and a certain interest from your ex is to do go through the right process of personal development and to keep steady over time. Your ex will have no choice then to acknowledge your new outlook and you will instantly regain credibility at that point!