Sometimes after a breakup, you realize you still have feelings for your ex and want to be with them again. Asking your ex to get back together can be scary, but if you take your time and learn from the past, there’s a chance they’ll say yes.
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I am a junior in high school and I dated this guy for two years. We have EVERYTHIHG in common. Except during our softmore year we had a really big tradgey and one of his close friends died and he changed. for the worse I might add. he turned into a total jerk. he told me I wasn’t there for him and he stopped talking to me for a little. than he made a bunch of new friends. they are all the popular people. I have my set of friends im not popular im happy with who I have in my life. Okay so than he started getting really cocky and he met this girl. She kind of stole his heart basically. Than my grandpa died the same year right after my birthday it was really hard for me and my family. we started fighting all the time and he said I was an emotional wreck and a bunch of stuff. I also am really insecure about my acne and stuff… than he broke up with me over a text… I find out that two months later he is making out with the same girl. He really likes her.. and I have tried to replace him with three guys and nothing has worked its a year later and im heartbroken and devastated. I miss him so much. but I know that we are no good for each other and I want to move on. I think I just need help. I hate being alone and I hate how he ignores me. he keeping playing me tooo… he says he loves me and than wont answer any texts or phone calls for weeks. He goes back and forth between me and this girl… like why is she so special. idk. im really down about this. I just want to move on.
my boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago. although it was a break up, he also said he just wants time and space to think about things and he would consider getting back together if major things changed, but he’s not sure if that’s possible. we had a really great relationship full of respect and trust, we just started to argue more and more and i think we need some time apart for him to realize the problems can be fixed and are not worth throwing out an amazing relationship over. we’re both in college and on winter break, so i’m planning on reaching out when we both get back. i’m in the middle of no contact, but should i text him on christmas or new years? does this sound like a relationship that can be fixed?
You have to make a plan on how you want to spend time with your ex boyfriend in your date. You spend a good amount of time with your ex boyfriend, and you know his likes, dislikes and everything in between.
While it is important to not pursue your ex for a month or so, it’s okay to be responsive if he or she pursues you. In other words, if you get a call, don’t hang up on your ex or refuse to talk. It is not necessary to try to play mind games or play hard to get, and doing so would have the potential to push him or her further away, which is the opposite of your goal at this point.
Our relationship was so strong and it just doesn’t make sense that it’s over. He was so in love with me and couldn’t even stand a day without saying he misses me. And even about two hours before he started ignoring me, we were talking like normal.
When you shower him with attention and affection, it shows him that you’re desperate. He knows you love him – he just broke up with you. When you remind him how much you love him, what actually happens is that he thinks you’re trying to manipulate him into getting back together with him, and it turns him off.
Your story is very similar to mine. He was dating another girl but i didnt know it. He came back to me several times but didnt want to work things out so i blocked him from social media. that was three months ago. He has been dating that girl for several months even when when he was trying to convince me that he still loved me and missed me but because of my shortcomings he couldnt be with me. Now they are a couple and he hasnt tried to reach out. i changed my number though.
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The reason is that people usually get back together for the wrong reasons and without addressing the real underlying issues, so it’s not so surprising that history repeats itself. I’ve seen ex-back scenarios unfold in a variety of ways—some that end in utter, massive heartbreak, others that end with a trip down the aisle. I’ve even seen couples get remarried after many years being divorced who are now happier than ever!
“After ending it with the boy I had been with for over a year, I was crushed. Everything I looked at and everywhere I went somehow always brought me back to him. So, finally one day I deleted his number from my phone, blocked him on AIM, deleted him on Facebook and MySpace, and got rid of all the pictures and teddy bears and everything that held a connection to him. By getting rid of everything that reminded me of him, it helped me to forget everything I didn’t want to remember.” –Melissa, 16
Now, while I do admit that nothing can help you get over an ex more than time there are things that you can do that can speed up the process. That is what I am going to be covering below. Here are the things I recommend doing to speed up the ex recovery process:
It’s important to realize that people, men and women, want to be around happy people. It’s important to realize that nobody, man or woman, wants to “deal with” your negativity and negative emotions. They are your responsibility.
Initiate Contact Via Text Message- Test the waters with your ex boyfriend via text messaging. There are a whole set of rules and regulations that go with texting an ex. I am not going to go into those here but if you want to know them then please visit this page.
He said later on that maybe we could be together in a couple of years when we’ve both had our time apart and if we were both single and there’s still a spark. But we also talked about the social media situation, if we should delete eachother or not and he said that we both might end up dating other people and probably don’t want to see it on our socials. Only today did I realise that didn’t make much sense because he just said that he wanted to be alone for a while and enjoy his young adult years.
Think about it this way: negative emotions and feelings are working against you, and will wind up pushing him away, while positive emotions and feelings will work for you, and magnetically draw him back to you.