Greatzula@gmail.com did a love spell for me about 3 days ago and the results came out miraculous! My ex and I ran into each other! It was totally unexpected. He seemed a little nervous at first, but then we actually got to talking. Later that night he ended up apologizing to me for everything! And I mean EVERYTHING!:) I am so surprised yet I never knew this would come through for me. things are now working out perfectly. We have planned to getting married next month. I feel that without zula this would not have happened.

You had a choice to think your relationship WAS EASY. When you think it’s easy, it will be easy. When you think it’s complicated, it becomes complicated. When you stress over it, it becomes stressful.

For years Peter had reacted to Paulette’s complaints about him with defensiveness. When he did allow himself to hear information about what he was doing that troubled his wife, he’d get mad at himself.  Listening to her had escalated his agitation and distress instead of leading to learning. Now Peter decided he’d better address her concerns, beginning by writing out a list of all he could recall. “Information is power,” he reminded himself to ease the sting of shame and guilt. 

And that’s what I speak to — I tell you what would be most effective in getting what you want. You’re the one who wants it and the only person you can control is you, so why wouldn’t I talk about things you can do if you want to get what you want?

I met her when I was 18. She was my everything. 3 years with the most physical attraction I’ve ever had. No one has come close since. I’ve pined for her for 30 years. It doesn’t stop. I still love her. I contacted her via Facebook we spoke lots. She couldn’t believe I felt that for her as she’d practically forgotten about me for all these years.

Here’s my story, I would love to hear your insight and advice. I was with my bf , he’s 23, I’m 19, for a few months and I fell in love for the first time. After all the guys I’ve dated I’ve never ever felt this way with someone and the feelings were mutual, he told me loved me, wanted to marry me and have a family with me one day, he too said he has never felt this way before with anyone . It was genuine and loving and I saw a future with this guy which I’ve never seen with anyone and he the same. We spent a lot of time together, got to know each other, but he was insecure at times, worried about other guys which he didn’t have to do. At moments he pulled away, which I know guys do sometime, but the problem for me was they he would blow me off for his friends when we had plans, he just wouldn’t think and was in the moment. I told him on several occasions, it wasn’t cool, we’re together and you just can’t ditch me, he’d apologize, say he was wrong, etc. tbh, I felt like he was testing me, to see how much I’d put up with, but after speaking with him several times, he did it again. So after a week of him trying to see me, ( I put him off) I broke up with him, on the phone, I know I shouldn’t have done it that way, it was impulsive and stupid, but I was fed up. I felt like he was taking me for granted and I wasn’t going to put up with it. I have it together, I’m going to school full time, working full time, im smart, fun, good looking & athletic, I’m not trying to be arrogant and sound full of myself, it’s not my intent, but I’m secure and confident and I know my worth. In hind sight, I should’ve talked to him in person, I was wrong to do it that way. I’m not going to lie, it’s been hard, I do care about him and miss him but we had no contact for 4 weeks, until I saw him at work one day, I was surprised to see him as we wouldn’t normally run into each other. He came right up to me and hugged me, he was so warm affectionate, I couldn’t believe it, he wouldn’t leave my side, hugged me from behind, any excuse to touch me or talk to me. We did talk for a bit, he apologized again to me for treating me the way he did, and was def remorseful. I apologized too for breaking up with him the way I did, and said I was wrong to do that to you. And that I didn’t break up because I didn’t love him or have feelings for him but because I felt he didn’t respect my time or value me. He also asked me if I was dating and was bold enough to asked if I hooked up with anyone,(which I have not) he was annoyed thinking about it. I told him I did not, and that I cared about him. I prob made a mistake saying that, even if it was true, it gave him peace of mind I def don’t have. I am asked out and dating but didn’t tell him, another mistake . He said he wanted to get together and talk more, but couldn’t after work because he had a meeting.that evening. So we went our separate ways. I texted him a few days later saying it was good to see him and let’s get together soon, we texted back and forth a bit, but never went anywhere . So that’s a little over 2 weeks ago, and I have not texted him, not looked at social media, nothing, fell off the earth. I felt he was avoiding me or not sure, I just don’t know. I felt he still cares about me based on when I saw him, but he’s not tried to see me. I heard he’s dating someone too. As much as it hurts and I still care about him, I care about myself more and won’t put up with not being treated right. In the mean time, I’m living my life, focusing on myself, school, work, friends & family. I’m also continuing to date. I would love your help and opinion on what to do, I would love to work things out but we are at a stand still. Thank you ?

He won’t notice the hole that you left in his life unless you let him. So if you’re still in contact with him, he won’t get lonely. If you’re still having sex with him, he won’t miss the sex and companionship. If you’re still emotionally engaging with him, he won’t miss the love and satisfaction of being with you.

How to get over someone you have to see everyday?My long-term boyfriend told me that my mental health has affected him and he just wants to be friends as though nothing more ever happened. This really hurts me. What should I do?Can or should I ask my significant other to stop talking and to not associate with his ex? If so, how? How do I know if I’m in a toxic relationship?Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?What to do when you feel you are not good enough for someone?I wanted to remove/delete my account from here, tell me the way to do ?I m going through anxiety and depression and trauma post breakup I tried many listeners but non is able to help me I want expert advice or somebme plz msg me if u do.?He said I was perfect for him, but he chose someone else?I regret breaking up with my ex. What should I do?

The other theory, is that people use to linger more because of the lack of sex and the physical attraction. People use to confuse physical attraction with love. And this can be very depressing and harmful for both sides.

For me personally, number 9 is the most important. I never thought of it before, but I’m not happy with myself. What makes it harder though is that I have kids with this man “2 boys” and I don’t know how to go about being civil and talking to him proper for the kids sake. I so wanna get over this, and it’s only been 2 weeks but it feels like a long time. We live in the same area, I bumped into him yesterday and I didn’t know how to react, he greeted and asked if he could accompany us “was with the kids” and I just ignored him didn’t even make eye-contact with him. It was very hard, my emotions were all over the place, heart beating so fast. At some point I even contemplated suicide and he knows about it, but I do think we better off apart “he’s not good for me” despite that I love him

Picture this: you have two people, a master and a slave. Who do you think is higher in the social hierarchy? The master, obviously. By accommodating your ex girl’s every desire or demand, you behaved like a slave (inferior) and she behaved like a master (superior).

you for being an absolute life saver recently for me. Your posts are helping me get through every single day. I was just wondering if you had any opinion or any insight into what potentially could have caused my current situation.

Hi all ? my ex broke up with me almost a month ago, since then Im in NC for 20 days. I stopped all form of communication, unfortunetly we attend same classes so its impossible to get out of his sight and come after a month great looking. However Im working on myself, study and go out. The thing is that he acts like NOTHING happend. No emotions at all, no hate or anger. he looks happy and completely ready to move on ( since he broke up with me) . I plan to start texting a little after NC, however holidays are coming and we wont see each other ( well thats maybe good, I can work on myself even more) but what Im scared of that he will basically move on. Now he has to watch me being smart, funny, beatufil.. but when Im gone, he wouldnt see any of these. And another thing, I know he is texting like 5 girls in really cute way ( before our relationship it was the same, he has so many female friends and almost no male ones) so Im scared I would end up in friendzone. You know texting all night but he would put me there. And then when I come back to school I will have to act like his friend and Im scared theres no solution. Well, the thing is how to make him want be as GF and not as a friend.

Men are comparing creatures and whether you want him to or not, he’ll subconsciously compare you to other women in his life. Maybe he’s with some new girl right now, and that’s the one you need to take him back from. How do you make sure that this won’t just be a one-night-stand with your ex-boyfriend?