Long story short, I met this girl and fell head over heels in love. We have been together four years. We moved in together almost two years ago. I asked her to marry me about two months later. During this time, I have stayed in contact with my ex-wife in just a friendly way, however, I kept this a secret from my fiancé. Well, she found out about six months ago and flipped out and asked me to move out. I did and begged her to take me back. After a few days or so, she agreed to start seeing me again. Now, about ten days ago, she broke up with me again and said it weighing on her mind all the time and she has thought about it and wants to break up. The difference was with the other breakup, she still texted me and said things like, “you just lost the best thing you’ll ever have”, etc. This time, I can barely get her to text me or anything. First few days she was very quiet, then she started ignoring me, then for two days she texted me like old times, then on Friday I wake up and she texts me that I am contacting her to much and she is unhappy about it. I say I won’t contact her anymore and I stopped. Well, Saturday night, she starts texting me asking me what I am doing, etc. This went on through Sunday, now here is Monday and she has gotten quiet again. I feel like I am dying. I did something stupid and nothing is working. She said, “No flowers, no cards, stop it.” Help please.
Now, the texting rules as mentioned in the video I linked you to, will do a lot of the work to make her WANT to hang out, and as soon as she WANTS to hang out, then arranging to meet should be very easy. I’ll talk you through what to say to set up a meet with her regardless, though.
Message her saying that you were scared to come on too strong before, and if she will give you another chance, you will show your true passion for her. Then, when you guys meet up again, grab her and kiss her immediately. Do whatever it takes to show her that you’re sexually attracted to her, that all you can think about is her.
more worse is that she is saying u r abusing me hacked my facebook account and irritating my sister. i had done everything to get her back but she is totally ignoring me. i feel that i m nothing without her and always cry for her, just a glance of her is enough for me to be happy.
Prioritize yourself – This is the perfect time to prioritize yourself. Start hanging out with your friends once again. Focus on your career or do some extra-curricular activities, particularly those that you have been longing to do. Never appear too needy. Make your ex miss you more and do the things that you have once only dreamed of doing. This is the key to regaining back your self-worth and sense of self, allowing you to recover fast and find out whether you still really love her.
Be the person your ex fell in love with. Try to think back to when the two of you first got together. What about you did he or she love? Was it your quirky jokes, or maybe your amazing sense of style. Whatever it may be, try to rekindle the fire the same way the flame was started before.
Following these six tips on getting your ex back will surely help you. The most important thing is you need to take things slowly. Stay no-contact with your ex for at least 30-35 days. If you run into her during these days, keep the meeting short but polite. Fighting, argument and love is the part of every relationship. When you get separated from her don’t lose hope and start working on these getting your ex girlfriend to want you back tips to win her over.
I have this vision that one day your ex runs into you at a coffee shop. You give her a charming smile and wave at her. She gives you a smile back and waves at you and then you do the inevitable, you talk.
First, I would find out why your “friend” and brother is spouting lies about you. Anyway, It doesn’t matter if your ex believes you or not. She has moved on and told you to do the same. She has another person in her life. Give her space and use this as an opportunity to grow and work on yourself.
Enjoy your own company. You shouldn’t spend all of your “me time” obsessing over improving yourself or wondering what your ex is up to. Instead, enjoy your own company by reading, exercising, or just taking the time to pursue your own interests and goals to become a better person. If you’re comfortable on your own, then your ex will know it once you reconnect. It’s important to be secure by yourself before you try to jump back into a relationship again.
Set strict boundaries. Make a conscious, sustained effort to maintain a bubble around yourself that your ex can’t pass into. If you’re still in contact, make it clear to her that you’re breaking off contact so you can take the time you need to heal. Tell her not to call or text you, since you won’t respond.
When the woman I love broke up with me, my world fell apart. I had gone to several casters and I got no results or insufficient ones. I found help and gave another try to retrieve my lover and restore the passionate relationship I had with her. I’m so glad I did and trusted him. he performed a spiritual cleansing to banish negative energies and cast a love spell. After 2days, the woman I missed dearly started to call me and told me few days ago that she still loves me and wants to try again. Thank you
You just need to give her space and time let her heal first. In the mean time go and get your self together work out hang with friends and make your self happy. I will admit it will be hard it trust me it will work. Dont put your self out there make her come to you. Don’t pay her any attention to anything she does. It’s going to be ok and who knows maybe yall wasn’t meant to be. There may be someone else out there better than her for you.
At this point, you’re going to give her a chance to become a part of your life again. Note, I said a part of your life again. Do not approach the situation like you are begging for her to accept you again, instead give her a chance to see how you’ve started improving yourself, and extend a nonverbal invitation for her to join you and you both become better together.
It’s been a little over three months since my ex and I broke up. I’ve completed no contact, given her space , never begged or been pushy did the right moves based on advice given on here and other places. She’s still will barely talk to me (we work together) and will barely reply to text messages. Back in September I purchased a Christmas gift for her and even though we broke up I still sent it to her on Friday. She replied thank you for the gift. You didn’t need to. Merry Christmas! Attached to the gift was a clean slate letter. She made no mention of it. I told her she was welcome for the gift. I asked her if she was going to be up for talking soon to clear the air. She never replied back. She isn’t seeing anyone, nor did we have a bad breakup. Since the breakup I have found out that she is mad at me about something I said but I don’t know what I said or who I said it to and she won’t tell me. We’ve had some positive interactions as of late at work, but she’s got a wall so high up now. Where do I go from here? Three months, no contact completed, clean slate letter given, space given, showed activity on social media sites as well and not much recoconcilation has occurred. What can I do? Or is it time to accept the fact that I’m not going to get her back?
It is good to avoid talking about previous relationship and don’t put blame of previous breakup on your ex girlfriend. This will raise her defense level and it may be possible your meet up ends up on arguments and disagreements that you never want.
It is vital that you understand who controlled the breakup and why it happened in the first place. If it was you, and your ex was against breaking up, getting back together might be easier than if it was initiated by your ex in the first place.
Psychologist Jack Mearns studied people’s reactions to breakups. Those who got over the relationship quicker and easier were those who coped actively – by pursuing new friends, getting involved with hobbies, etc. [otp_overlay]