If you’re calling, texting, or showing up in places you know he’ll be, you are letting him know that you are still into him. In other words, you are letting him know that he can go do what (and who) he wants and you’ll still be there. You’re hooked, and he can reel you in at will. If you’re available all the time, there isn’t any sense of urgency to get back with you.

Ignore your ex’s life. Don’t show your ex that you are interested in him at all. When he posts updates about life events, like a promotion or a trip, don’t engage. Don’t like the post, don’t comment, and don’t mention it to your friends. Make it so your ex thinks you are totally off his radar.[20]

You let your ex walk all over you. You become a doormat. You agree to the most ridiculous demands your ex has. But your instincts tell you, it’s OK. Because having your ex in your life is the only thing that matters.

Most importantly of all, if you actually want to stand any chance of getting your ex-boyfriend back in your arms again one day, you have to take your level commitment from interested to committed to do whatever it takes to bring him back.

The first step in discovering how to get your ex boyfriend back is to first take a closer look and discover why the relationship ended. This is not just looking at the final conclusions that drew the relationship to an end, but rather to be clear on all the small steps over time that may have lead to that outcome.

As common knowledge goes, you cannot make a person have certain feelings for you. However, you can encourage them to feel a certain way through reminders, thoughts, gestures and messages, so there might be some ways to help your ex think about the good things the two of you shared together. For more details on how this might be possible, read How to Make Your Ex Miss You.

In the relationship you like to spend most of your time with your boyfriend but now you cut off your all connections with him and you are having lots of time alone. You may be wondering what to do in this time? How to make full use of this time so your mind doesn’t think about your ex boyfriend?

Apologize if you hurt him. If you did anything at all to hurt your ex-boyfriend, whether you said something that offended him or you weren’t there for him in a time of need, it’s time to apologize. It takes great strength to offer a sincere apology, but it will go a long way in helping you repair your relationship.[11]

If, for example, you cheated on him, I must say to you now, you have small chances of getting him back. He is hurt and things will probably never be the same. So, maybe the best thing you can do is move one and leave him alone.

In order to move on, you have to be able to heal. While you might still be in love with your ex, you won’t be able to move on if you don’t heal properly. For some, healing means spending a week in bed crying; for others, it means burning everything he ever gave you. Whatever it means to you, you have to have time to heal. Even if you are still in love with him, it’s important to get all the hurt out of your system.

The second techniques you can use is to get in contact with your ex friend who are also friend with your boyfriend. Like if your ex and you know David collectively, you can message David and ask him how is he doing these days? And then upon his reply ask him about his schedule on Sunday or Saturday. If he is free, just ask him to hang out with you. This way your plan of interfering with your ex-boyfriend will accomplish since he will come to know of you two contacting each other.

Exercise helps boost your confidence. When you accomplish even small goals, like running a mile or hiking a trail, it helps make you more confident. Confidence is definitely something you want to have to make your ex jealous. Being a strong, confident individual is a cause for jealousy.[5]

Learning to forgive and make peace with things that happened in the past can happen more easily when you take your focus off of the specific events that occurred and instead try to see the perspective of the people involved. Most people don’t act with the intention of directly hurting someone else; generally, they make choices intending to make themselves feel better. For better or worse, it is in our nature as human beings to operate from our own self-beneficial perspective and the impact of our actions on others is often a secondary consideration. It doesn’t make it right, but sometimes seeing someone else’s perspective can help you understand the events that unfolded better and make them less personal. It can also be easier to forgive someone when you see them as a whole person. If you find yourself stewing in anger over something that someone else did or didn’t do, try to pull back and remember the good qualities you saw in them when you first met, and recognize that we all have flaws and we all make mistakes.

Wealth, health and love are three important fixtures of one life beyond the worship of GOD. You cannot survive or even think about living in the world without them. Moreover, your mental aptitude actually describes your performance in all of these 3 traits mentioned above.