It is natural to feel scared about going up to someone who has rejected you. You may be worried that he won’t talk to you, won’t be friendly and perhaps won’t answer any questions you may have. All of this is natural and normal. If you really want to approach him to ask him something, consider going with a friend you can rely on and perhaps having them doing some of the talking on your behalf. Choose somewhere neutral and calm, and have a good excuse to leave quickly if things seem too awkward for you, such as “Thanks for the quick chat, I have to get to an appointment now”. Most of all, realize that if you don’t get the answers or discussion you’d hoped for, that it’s not a reflection on you, as you’ve shown much courage, but is about your ex-boyfriend’s method of dealing with the situation in his own way and isn’t a slur on you.

My brother — don’t you be one of the 70% that flakes out on God. He has sacrificed His son and purchased us with His blood, so that we would live sold out to Him. Give yourself fully to Him, because He is God – not just to get your wife back. Your wife will thrive on deep, selfless love, but to give that to her will require that you drink from God’s well of love daily.

There’s this guy that had a crush on me,and i also loved him.We where in the same class.He’s a shy type,he couldn’t tell me his mind.people started calling me his name.we quarrelled cos he’s friend also had feelings towards me.he once askd me if he (his frnd) luvs me and i said he doesn’t.we both quarrelled cos he beared a girl’s name.He blocked me on all social networks.It took us 10 months to reconcile.He came back first.bt right now he hasn’t said anything to me abt dating.I want to know if he still luvs me

Don’t jump in with over the top expressions of love. Instead, reach out on the lighter side and share a fond memory you shared together. Or tell him you’re craving your favorite takeout food. Bring him back to the positive times you had and let him reminisce about the great person you are.

Thanks for this article. I am dating my ex of 5 years after a 12 year break. He has kids from previous relationships. I am unable to have children. So far things have been going great. Dating again has been met with a few bumps. I really feel like he is truly my soulmate. We are definitely taking time to get to know each other in our adult lives after so many years.

I had an unusual childhood. My dad was the number one self-help author of all time and the world’s leading relationship expert. I was a kid who ate dinner to the tune of gender and relationship discussions and boy, did I learn a lot. So when I first started dating, I assumed I had it all figured out.

At one time you were dating this person. Maybe it was serious, maybe it was casual. Whatever the facts you need to accept that your old relationship is dead. Not only that but you want it to stay dead. A lot of times women make the mistake of picking up right where they left off whenever they do get their ex back.

I signed up today, when will I get my first email? I need the support asap. We dated for 2 years, broke up three months ago and I made all the mistakes. Although, she would call/facetime me and tell me she missed me and how much she loved me too. We would talk about how special we are to each other, but I have two children and she couldn’t deal with the ex issue. It has bee really rocky over the last few weeks and she admitted to going out on a date last night after I pressure her. I truly believe it was the first real date she has been on since we broke up. I will admit that I have gone on a couple myself, but didn’t tell her that. I was initially upset and told her I wouldn’t still be around to watch her move on. I told her I wouldn’t call anymore. She said no one will ever compare to me, but she doesn’t know what else to do to get over me. She got really sad and started crying. I sincerely told her I want her to be happy and I understand that is what she is trying to do before we got off the phone – I was sincere, but hiding a tremendous amount of pain.

Hey Kevin! My name is Toni and my ex girlfriend of 14 months just broke up with me 4 days ago. She said she needed to focus on herself and grow. During the relationship, I kept telling her the exact same things she just wouldn’t do it. Her friends and some of her family members had a big influence in her decision to break up with me. We started off long distance (11 hours driving) and I ended up losing my apartment and my car in the same week. She offered to drive there let me stay with her at her parents house which I did and we were staying from January to September. We got our own place finally last month. Everything was fine so I thought. We had a couple nights of bad moods before it happened. I suggested we take a little break so we didn’t do or say things that we’d regret and figure things out. Then she just broke up me through text message while I was at work. I don’t know what to do. I built a life here and I don’t think I can just go back to where I’m from. I’m so lost on what to do. Can you help me?

            A woman who leaves her husband doesn’t want to throw away her marriage, but she feels like someone deprived of oxygen. In desperation she escapes the marriage just so she won’t suffocate. In the separation she then feels like she can breath for the first time in years, and doesn’t want to return to a relationship that only robbed her of breath.

I need help. My long time boyfriend has suddenly got me pregnant and has immediately moved in with a girl. I still am in love with him and this is a time I need him most. He tells me its too late he now has an instant wife. What do I do?