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Right now, you’re probably feeling and acting quite differently than what you’re typically accustomed to. You might even be giving off some negative energy to the people around you. I can tell you confidently that if you want your ex back, you need to put an end to the negative image you’re giving off.
Since she has felt this way, you could slowly warm back up to her. However, I would suggest continuing with NC because it may be too soon for changes to have occurred in both your lives, so if you guys get back together, the same issue might eventually surface again.
I promise that if you follow the advice on this page then your chances of getting your ex back will increase. Now, I do want to point out that I can’t guarantee that your girlfriend will come back. Ultimately the final decision on whether or not you two should be a couple again lies with her.
In these situations, it’s impossible to not want to try again, and I forgive you in advance for doing what all the movies and TV shows tell us not to — and for trying to get back with your ex. So here are some tips for not screwing it up too bad.
Keep in mind that this does not mean you should change who you are. If your personalities are incompatible, it’s probably best to look for a new boyfriend who appreciates you for you. If, however, you have some bad habits that you can address, go ahead and work on them.
I am thankfull for the breakup, because it gave me the opportunity I never had before. I got to know myself better, who I am, what I want, and that this school doesn’t make me happy. I learned how to be happy. I learned, that my inner fire dissapeared, and I have to respark it by doing the things I love, not what the others want me to do. I lost my optimistic and happy attitude. Thank you a lot for this opportunity.
Anyways almost two weeks ago… Finally she broke me up. I was very very embarrassed and felt like panic. And i wrote a letter and a poem. I said to her ‘ im so sorry i was an asshole bla bla and what i did wrong from bigining to the end. However she rejected me . she said ‘ im very tired of you and it caused me to love you less than before. So i cant keep loving me and this relationship. I think my decision is right.’
5. Go out on a date. This is absolutely essential and if you are reading this, then I will recommend that you definitely go out on a few dates before ending no contact with your ex. It’s absolutely imperative for you to get some perspective right now and meeting new people is the best way to do it.
Maybe you’re lazy or unhealthy or negative, these are real reasons. If you come to her door with a handful of gifts, sure, she’ll take them, but that doesn’t mean she’s going to be with you. She wants real results.
It is because you can also experience such security and excitement with someone else. There is even a possibility that you will experience those feelings while having a more stable and healthier relationship than before with another girl.
With hindsight, Peter could see that the unpleasant situation he found himself in every day at work had left him depressed in the evenings. His response to depression had been to sink increasingly into “poor me” ruminations. “How can they treat me so unfairly? Why can’t my boss appreciate my talents? I’m stuck in a job that’s not my thing. I hate having a job that doesn’t fit and a boss who’s chronically negative.”
My experience is that some abusers are genuinely willing to learn and to apply what they learn so that they cease their controlling and abusive ways (note: the controlling stance as well as the explicit abuse must change for the future to look promising).
Sooo, I reconnected with a girl I knew a couple of decades ago. I had a huge crush on her but both of us were married. I’m not now and spent a lot of time on self improvement, which she gravitated towards as she works her way out of another marriage. After about three months of platonic self help counseling we caved…it was intense for about two months; she started working with a counselor to save the marriage/amicably divorce and suggested I pursue other women for awhile. I backed off, maintaining contact via text/cell about every 3 days; not too heavy subjectwise. Made the mistake of telling her I was doing great without her. After that she shut off contact, and responded to my attempts with a hostile voicemail telling me to stop all contact. I went into no contact mode for two weeks, sent a couple of happy holiday texts, then wrote the no contact letter. A week later her husband comes up and introduces himself, tells me he’s in the middle of his divorce and she’s eligible now but has a boyfriend. I reach out for confirmation and to give her a heads up and ask for a meet and am given a letter with all the nevers (never want to talk to you, never want to see you, never be friends, etc) and threatening to go to the cops over stalking. I know I should cut and run but we got so close in those early months…I don’t want to give that up. I also don’t her throwing the stalking card out to everyone…most of all…don’t want the anger, nor do I understand it. How do I turn this around to platonic at the least and repair it to a couple at best? Yeah I called texted lettered about 20 times in 80 days and maybe drove by her house twice but STALKING? I never raised my voice to this woman.
I promise you that this page is going to blow you away with it’s insight and actionable steps. Take it from someone who has helped over 20,000 women with their exes (see my sister site Ex Boyfriend Recovery) that this desperation you are feeling is not helping you, it’s hurting you.
Well, the truth is that there is no best method. Every single relationship is different and will require different methods. Some people prefer calling while some prefer letters. Personally I prefer texting. So, from this point on I am just going to be focusing on that method and the best practices using it. But first….
And like I said many times you have done nothing wrong. Having ambition to achieve your goals does not make you seem like you’re in your own bubble in fact it’s one of the things I like most about you. It shows much determination and that’s an attractive quality. And you have it wrong in the sense you would have always achieved what you have already, having someone to share it with is the bonus. Just remember your life started without me, your dreams were there before me, everything in your life was there before me. You had it all to begin with and it was complete, I’m just an add on/an option if you will but with out me you are still complete.