3 Tips To Make Him Love You Again
When people first fall for each other, they start wearing rose-tinted glasses for a period of time. This is known as the ‘honeymoon period’. After a while, this infatuation starts to change into real love. However, if couples don’t continue to work on that real love, it can at best grow into companionship and, at worst, into full resentment. Thus, it is important to keep the magic, the spark and the love alive in other words.
If you find yourself in a situation in which you feel that your husband no longer loves you, is there something that can be done? If it is real love, there is always a way to make things work again, so long as you both commit to that. Here are a few ways that you could use in order to make your husband fall in love with you again.
Tip #1 – Dress Up for Him
Once people fall into a routine and become comfortable with one another, they often stop making an effort to look good. While this is only superficial and true love transcends superficiality, it doesn’t mean that dressing up nicely wouldn’t be appreciated.
Just make it a point to maintain yourself well, and dress up nicely on a regular basis. At times, you can even surprise him with a deadly combination of a sensuous dress and his favourite fragrance.
Remember, as well, that much of the initial honeymoon phase that you are trying to rekindle was based largely on sexual desire as well. There is nothing wrong with giving that same passion a little nudge in the right direction.
Tip #2 – Stop Nagging – Understand Him More
Men have, since the beginning, complained that their wives are naggers. Wives, meanwhile, have complained that their husbands don’t listen and don’t understand them. Try not to fall into this stereotypical trap.
As the marriage progresses a lot of wives forget how to simply talk to their husbands without “nagging” at them. When men feel like their wives are constantly on them about something they start to tune them out, and eventually they start to lose respect for the wives as well.
That doesn’t mean that you, as the woman, have to put yourself second and should just take anything he has to give. But you have to understand that problems in a relationship are almost always caused by two people. So why don’t you be the bigger person, hold your hands up, and start making a change. He will likely start doing the same.
Tip #3 – Be Cheesy
Men don’t need red roses, chocolates and endless ‘I love yous’. They want to feel like men. Many women are quite loathe to indulge in this, because they find it quite cheesy and even a little bit gross. But some of these things really work. There is nothing wrong with stroking your man’s ego every once in a while.
Ask him to flex his muscles, then swoon. Tell him he’s sexy when he fixes things.Take him out to the latest action movie and share a tub of popcorn.
Men really respond to these little things. If you show them, in this way, that they are appreciated and loved, they may just start to rethink their own commitment in the relationship again as well. Often, when a relationship is on the verge of breaking down, it is because both parties feel the other is not doing enough. So why not be the one who does enough and turns things around for the better? You can’t make someone fall in love with you, but if the love was already there, it is absolutely possible to rekindle it again.