Everything you do is crucial, from the moment your ex breaks up with you to the moment you wrap your arms back around her again. In between, there are a LOTS of big mistakes to make. Commit too many errors, and you’ll lose your one chance at ever dating your ex again.

Yes! I know it is really difficult for you to stop all the contact ways with the one you love most but for the sake of getting your ex back you have to take this step and you can ignore it in any way. If you contact your ex without being in control of your emotions then most probably you will hurt your chances of getting them.

Your instincts tell you that if your ex just realizes how much you love them and how much you care about them, they will come back. You just need to make them believe that no one in the world will ever love them the way you do. How can they reject you once they realize how much you love them, Right?

#7 Don’t make a move if she’s with someone else. This isn’t a chick flick, man. Don’t show up at her door when she’s seeing another man. What are you thinking? Your relationship with her has a past, one that, from the looks of it, didn’t end too well. If she’s moved on, respect it. Maybe she’ll dump the guy, who knows, but that’s not for you to decide. [Read: 16 signs your ex clearly still wants you back in her life]

Anytime a girl is breaking up for a time, she is unsatisfied and trying to do better, but wants to know you’ll be there if she can’t. She is basically treating you like an insurance policy. If she doesn’t find another guy, she still has you at the end of summer. If she does, sayonara.

Basically, society tells us that feeling intense grief after a break up is part of a normal, healthy healing process. But, the truth is really this period of discomfort is not as necessary as we are being told and the lack of this period is just as healthy. Following a tragedy we are told to expect such a period of intense grief. But, research shows that those who don’t experience such a period of grief are doing much better one year after the tragedy. Mearns concludes that “people who didn’t think they could bring themselves out of depression generally didn’t.”

There are a hundred reasons why you can’t maintain a post-breakup friendship. Jealousy, bitterness, the fear of your ex getting a new boyfriend… these are only some of the pitfalls of staying friends after breaking up.

Work on yourself. Take some time to work out whatever problem may have ended your relationship, and just spend time enjoying your own company or hanging out with friends. Make a list of three flaws that you’d like to change about yourself, and slowly start to address them. It takes a lifetime to grow as a person, but even taking small steps to become your ideal steps can help your relationship.

In other words, giving in to the desires and instructions of women on an even semi-regular basis is unattractive to them, and if you were doing it, then it will have definitely been a part of the reason she dumped you.

Well my situation is very complicated as all the others, you see, my boyfriend broke up with me because I have an attitude problem, I’m constantly bitching and nagging and it tore us apart. I wanted to change my attitude issues but I never did, until he left me I said that if he’d give me another chance then I’d take anger management counseling to help our relationship, but he said that he won’t give me anymore chances and that’s it’s over. I don’t know what to do because I know we still love each other so much and that we always will, but how can I get him back :(?

#2 Why did she dump you? You need to figure out what went wrong. Trust me, she told you, probably a thousand times, but you didn’t listen. So, go back into your memory and try to remember why you two always fought. That’s the reason you’re single.

Relationship breakups are really heart breaking. It is disappointing to live without the person you love most in your life. You are ready to do anything to get your ex back, you are ready to beg to your ex to get back in your life. WAIT! Read this carefully this is not the right way to get your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend back.

It is as old as the previous week when there was statistical analysis of the broken relationship and psychological issues. It states that the sole reason of unprovoked serious attitude of an individual is because of the result of remembering of people ex around.