Make The Man You Love, Love You…
Love is such a beautiful thing. We are naturally predisposed to find love. From a biological perspective, this is because of our natural need to want to reproduce, ensuring the survival of our species. However, we have come a long way since we were living in caves, fighting mammoths, and trying to focus on survival. Now, we see love as something beautiful, magical and necessary for our survival. It has transcended the need for reproduction and is now about happiness, companionship, safety, security and much, much more.
Unfortunately, what hasn’t changed is our desire to get someone specific to fall in love with us, and that is something incredibly difficult. All too often, we fall in love with a specific person and we worry that our feelings are not reciprocated. And, unfortunately, these worries are often correct. So how can you stop this from happening? How can you make him fall in love with you? While nothing in love is guaranteed, the following tips may just be of tremendous benefit to you.
1. It’s All About Body Language
While we all know that we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover, and it is certainly not true that all men are so shallow that they only judge you on your looks, your body language is incredibly important. You use your body as a way to deliver subconscious communication. This isn’t so much about what you look like, in other words, but what you actually do with your body.
“We naturally blink faster when we are emotionally excited. Bat those eyelashes to let him know you’re interested without saying a word. People also lean toward whatever – or whomever – they find most important at the time. Use this trick and slightly lean towards him, whether it’s in your chair in class, or while standing at the bar.”
Remember that different movements also convey different messages. Swaying your hips may get his attention, it will probably tell him that you are available for a good time, not that you are falling in love material.
2. Smell Good
As said earlier, we have come a long way since our cavemen days. However, some things still work exactly the same way, particularly the neurological processes in our brain and the way our five senses (or it is six?) work together. This is where pheromones come in. They are little scents that we cannot actually detect, but our brains definitely can. If you have strong pheromones, the brain of the guy you are after will immediately register you as attractive, and you can achieve this by wearing a good perfume.
“Wear perfume (don’t over do it ladies, couple shots will do), something nice, fruity. We may not admit it but we notice your smell… now after you have flirted with him, give a quick shot of your perfume on something of his… his locker door, his backpack…. something he won’t notice right away but will come back to later on.”
Women often complain that men don’t listen to us. Unfortunately, this is very much true and something you will probably just have to learn to live with. However, you do have to listen to him.
“Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a guy. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control the conversation about 80% of the time.”
Finally, always remember that you cannot get anyone to love you unless you also love yourself. Good luck!