Note that most issues in a relationship do not just come up unexpectedly. They actually build up overtime. There is a chance that the problem is not just one-sided. Both of you played a role in the break-up. In fact, you will realize that there were actually signs that showed up before that the break-up was imminent.
Me and my ex broke up a month ago she said she need space. We was together for almost three year. I really don’t know what happened we still talk on the phone everyday talking and texting we only hung out a couple of times since we broke up. Im just confused and don’t know what’s up she saying she wanna network. Can someone tell me what you think about this cause I do wanna be with her but I’m feeling mixed signals. We slept together one time since breaking up.
In most cases, couples break up because they fail to communicate properly with each other. If you had an unhappy relationship, then commit to preventing the same problem again by setting clear expectations.
At this point, even if it was your ex who broke up with you, you don’t want to give them all the power. You don’t want to be the one who is always available for them. You don’t want to be their contingency plan.
I read the whole entire thing, and it broke my heart! But if she dragged her arm down yours it means she wants you to chase her and doesn’t want it to be over! I’ve done the same thing with my boyfriend . She misses you, if she is not seeing someone just tell her you need her and you don’t want to live without her! You want to grow old with her! And do all the romantic things you’ve done in the past! Tell her what’s on your mind! If you don’t want to let go… DON’T!
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HER LAST RESPONSE TO WHICH I DID NOT REPLY TO: “You don’t have to believe what I say and yes I was excited for our Europe trip. No I didn’t imply I never loved you in fact I’m saying I do love you still. I may have said those things in the past even if I still can’t recall it but now it’s different. And if you actually read the card properly it says as much as I want to spend the rest of my life with you, I would let it all go in heartbeat if it meant you were going to be happy. And that there is exactly the way I feel because I do believe you will be happier without me.
I’m not sure exactly how our relationship ended, just like I can’t pinpoint the moment it began. Don’t get me wrong, I remember very clearly the night when she turned to me in bed and asked if we could talk. And I remember crying in the bathroom stall at work the next day, not because I was hurt — it was something I had wanted, too — but because the relationship I’d been in for almost four years was suddenly over.
That’s the story of around 80% of the people who are desperate to get their ex back. It’s a huge mistake to text and call your ex all the time. In fact, it’s a huge mistake to call them even once. Your instincts tell you that if you stay in contact with your ex, they will not forget about you and hopefully come back.
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Since you guys shared a meaningful relationship, there would be a chance for you guys getting back together but you have to work on those issues first or the same problems would occur again. I suggest applying NC and spending time and focus on those issues like trust, insecurities and overthinking. Understand why you feel this way and try to change it. The best thing you can contribute in getting back together is to change yourself as that’s always the most effective.
‘No Contact’ doesn’t mean your ex-girlfriend can’t call you. If she calls you, then this is an excellent thing for you. But make sure during No contact you don’t have to initiate contact, she should be one initiating the contact.
Start by not contacting him any further. Apply No contact to give yourself some distance from the situation and to give him space. Spend this time to work on yourself and improve your life. Right now he is dating someone else, and you should not interfere, because it will lead to him thinking you’re desperate and start getting annoyed or resentful towards you. If you really want to be with him, you’ll have to wait until he contacts you first, or if they break up. Doing anything now related to him will only push him further away from you.
Don’t duke it out. Instead, consider taking a time-out. “There’s a concept called ‘loss aversion’ in economics, which simply means we really hate to lose. And when we think we are losing, we fight like there is no tomorrow to try to win,” says Anderson. “It happens when couples talk about hot-button issues like sex, housework, money or the kids. If either person thinks he or she is losing, he or she will ratchet up the stakes and escalate the issue.” The next time you see a spousal spat going to a not-so-happy place, take a break and revisit the subject when neither one of you feels overwhelmed by the topic.
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Amazingly though, a few months later, we were (and are) back together and engaged. We couldn’t be happier, and it’s all because of an old friend of mine from way back, who showed me that there’s a specific get your girlfriend back process which you NEED to follow if you are going to succeed in getting your girl back.
Over the next month we are going to turn you into an “ex-magnet.” We are going to transform you into the type of person that your ex (hopefully) CANNOT resist. I am going to school you in how to become irresistibly attractive to them.
Right now you’ve been going down all the wrong paths, and you’ve encountered strong resistance on the part of your ex girlfriend. This is because you’re approaching things in all the wrong ways, and your attempts to get her back have been entirely too predictible.
Always be yourself. Though it’s important to make the changes that are necessary for improving yourself as well as your relationship, don’t go so far as to change yourself completely so that you — or your girlfriend — don’t even recognize the person you’ve become. Your girlfriend must have liked many things about you to be in the relationship in the first place, so don’t forget to maintain the positive qualities that made you a great guy in the first place.