NC would help because right now although she’s still in contact with you, the fact remains the same that she won’t give you another shot. You have to give her some time to change that train of thought and by showing her you’ve changed. This is hard to see when she’s still in constant contact with you. Complete NC and work on your issues before coming back and asking her for a second chance.
Italiano: Fare in Modo che il tuo Ragazzo o la tua Ragazza ti Baci, Español: hacer que tu novio o novia te bese primero, Português: Fazer Seu Namorado ou Sua Namorada Beijar Você Pela Primeira Vez, Русский: сделать так, чтобы ваш партнер поцеловал вас первым, Français: inciter mon copain ou ma copine à m’embrasser, Deutsch: Bringe deinen Freund oder deine Freundin dazu dich zuerst zu küssen
Update: I caught up with my ex girlfriend recently and she told me she doesn’t love me anymore and she was quite clear and her feelings faded a while ago and she was just in the relationship for me, not for her. She doesn’t want me anymore and I’m obviously depressed. This is the girl I wanted to marry. I don’t think any amount of no contact is going to help my situation at all as she said she wants to be alone for a while and is ok with being single the rest of her life. What do I do now? She’s already deleted photos of us and me off Facebook and told me she won’t add me back on Facebook. She doesn’t want anything to do with me as the trust she had for me went a long time ago. She always suspected me of cheating when I’m never did anything of the sort. 5 years spent with this girl to end like this. She caught me off guard and left me. And she’s much happier without me. Someone please help me. What do I do? Is there any chance of getting her back at all? I want her back
Peter’s young wife Paulette had said to him, “That’s it. You’ve betrayed my trust one time too many. You are far too nice when you talk on the phone to the mother of your daughter, and by contrast you show no love toward me. All you do with me is avoid me or get mad. I’ve had it. Please, leave the house.”
The success rate of the coaching provided by the experts is high, but there is no 100% confirmation that you will get her back. In case you fail to win her heart again then don’t consider yourself as a loser, but move on in life. You will meet many more new girls that would like to have a boyfriend like you. You tried your level best to bring her back, but it is she who doesn’t love you and it is not a good choice to be with such a girl. Meet new girls, I am sure you will definitely find a new girl who will love you and it will be your responsibility to multiply the love towards her to live in a happy relationship.
Remember: you have been loved, you are loved, and you will be loved again. You have a place in the world around you. No matter how you feel or what your ex might say and do to make you feel worse in the short term, this fact remains.
One additional thought. You might want to check out my post on infusing your interactions with positivity. It’s not just moths that are drawn to light. See http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/resolution-not-conflict/201207/10-ways-radiate-positivity-and-be-attractive. Maximize the positives in your interactions, delete the negatives like criticism or irritated emotions, and the odds will be likely to shift in your favor.
I don’t need to explain this one do I? Ok, basically this is a tactic where you tell your ex boyfriend what you miss about your relationship. Be careful though because these messages need to be worded properly or your screwed.
The most important thing for you to do while your ex is in a rebound relationship is be cool about it. Whatever happens, do not tell your ex to break up with their rebound partners. Let it be their idea. They have a huge hole in their life after breaking up with you which they are trying to fill with someone new. They will soon realize that a rebound relationship can not fill the emptiness and they will end the relationship. (Do you think his relationship is not just a rebound? Read How To Get Your Ex Back When He Has Moved On To a New Girlfriend. or Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back When She Has Moved On To a New Boyfriend)
We are supposed to go to a concert in 2 days and bought her a ticket (before we broke up of course) and we are still supposed to go together as i dont know “friends”. At least thats what I said. Should I talk to her about something or what am I supposed to do? I can’t believe I love that girl so much. Distance and time did not change a thing for me. I could have had sex with 5 girls while in the US and same goes for her but we both didn’t… Doesn’t that mean anything… Please tell me what you think ASAP !!! [otp_overlay]