i was having the relationship problems for around one month…..fault was mine i was so indulged in my bfs lyf…so that he felt so bounded…..i was feeling no important to him…i didnt supported him for his work which he was doiung for me….i blamed him for physicallity and asked for break up many times and put ol the gifts in garbage in front of him….but after that i realized that i was so wrong…i know he loves me..and he know that i love him truly too…i tried alot to make him conveinced that i m so sorry feel guilty and changed….some how i managed to do so…we went in relationshp again but just for 10 days….after that he suddenly messaged he can never get comfortable again he cant forget what i have done…his will power is just so strong..that if he says its no……is there an chance or way to get him back….coz i realy love him alot

hi i just lost my bf 1week after 3 years (. he was all sort of bad boyfriend) but i still fell in love with him and still is havibg problems dealing with the breakup . i dnt knw on which no . im in but im having swing moods sometimes i accept nd i move on nd sometimes i don’t i think im going crazy … and this weeknd im having a trip and its the first time im on my own … but i want him to tell me bon voyage ! ?

This really makes me feel crap..maybe you say I need more patience. I know. But His replies gave me hope. Maybe he thinks I start gnatting again because I have sent 4 messages after he asked how am I… and all of them are unread. He has done that before…leaves my messages unread until he replies.. or not going to reply at all. I don’t wanna ruin this again.

Pinpoint the reason not because you want to think of your relationship negatively but because you want to open up your heart to heal and forget. Regardless of the reason, your goal is to think about whether you can start with a clean slate.

Hard to admit, but true: in every breakup you’ve experienced, you were the common denominator. Instead of blaming him exclusively for what happened, look within and determine how you contributed to the demise of your relationship. For instance, do you tend to question your exes about their whereabouts because you have a hard time trusting them? If so, those are your trust issues to address and fix, not his to magically resolve.

Well, I will be the first to admit that it’s not going to be as easy in your case because your ex boyfriend probably thinks he knows everything about you and part of the power of this connection method that I am talking about is when your ex learns something new about you.

Once he sees and feels this energy from you it can often lead him to rethink why the two of you are not together. You should never have to try to convince him that you should be together. He needs to be able to view you as his prize to win.

Now the first of all things you must do is to check after your health. Quit smoking at once. Instead of increasing on number of cigarettes every day and letting your nerves get dependent on it, it is time to play the reverse back role. Control upon your own self. We know that you are destroyed from inside and looking for measures to help yourself out, but believe me it isn’t going to help.

I understand it can be hard if you have to see your ex at work on a daily basis, however just proceed normally with your life as you normally would and avoid her unless necessary. It’s unavoidable to have to come into contact and continue to talk to her about work related topics, but since she is acting dry, do not engage in any small talk beyond that.

My question is: what’s the best timing to send the e-mail? Isn’t it overwhelming around holiday time? Shall I just extend NC until he’s back in town? Maybe I could combine it with wishing him happy holidays and happy birthday?

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If he contacts you, do yourself a favor and don’t pick up. I’m serious. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve fallen into the “Baby, I miss you” trap. Here’s how that trap goes: Your guy feels a little nostalgic and decides to call you. You answer and get all emotional with him. You end up in bed together. You think you’re back together, but he realizes it’s a finished relationship and once again is out of your life. You’re devastated again (even harder this time).

Obviously, you’re hurt and so is he. It’s important that you remember that he is likely going through some of the same emotional responses that you are, albeit in a different manner. We all cope differently, it’s the human way. As you think about the steps you’re going to undertake in getting him back try to remain aware of the fact that he too is emotionally hurting and vulnerable, even if he doesn’t seem to be showing it.

AND REMEMBER THIS: Guys want what they can’t have, it’s human nature. Recognize that it’s not you he wants, it’s the control that he wants because you’ve disarmed his power source (his ego. Deep down he’s an insecure ninny). You show him what you’re made of and introduce him to the girl that he never got a chance to meet: The one that doesn’t have time for the likes of him or ANYONE that treats her in a less-than manner.