Ok, so you sent out your text to remind them of the good ole days where the two of you were as thick as thieves but they haven’t responded yet. First off, it isn’t the end of the world. Sometimes people get busy and don’t have time to respond right away. Waite a few days before you jump to any conclusions.
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We men naturally don’t attract to those girls that show power and ambition (we view them as thread). After getting into the relationship most guys lost their purpose and make their girlfriend only purpose of their life.
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Oh, if your relationship was less than 3 months old, then you should reduce no contact to about two weeks. Perhaps, learn a bit of communication skills during this time so you can make the relationship about something more than sex when you get back in touch. Also, before you contact him again, make sure he is worth it and you have the right attitude about this. After all, you don’t want to invest too much time and energy into someone with whom you had a shallow relationship based on only sex.
It is recommended that you stop contact for at least one month. If you think you need more time, you can extend it. It should be at least a few weeks. If you and your ex have to see each other (due to work or kids) then make sure you keep the conversation professional or just related to the kids. Do not talk about your feelings or your relationship with them.
You often heard men complaining ‘they don’t want to get nagged’ – The problem is not in nagging instead men feel their women start showing unsatisfaction of who he is and what he has to offer and that what eats away the relationship. This doesn’t mean you can’t express your true feelings. Make sure to balance your true feeling with love and admiration to keep fire in your relationship.
Apologize. Think deeply about anything you did or didn’t do that somehow contributed to the downfall of the relationship, and clean the slate by giving your ex a proper apology. Take full responsibility for the offense, without blaming your ex, giving excuses, or expecting an apology (or even forgiveness) in return. It may very well be that your ex contributed to the situation, but you cannot apologize for someone else; you can only apologize for yourself. Leave him or her out of it and odds are the apology will be reciprocated.
Long Distance often causes a couple to lose attraction, lose connection or betray of trust. If you and your ex girlfriend broke up due to long distance; it’s probably because one of the above reasons happened. If that’s the case; you will have to apply the tactics mentioned above for each case.
Thanks for this article. I am dating my ex of 5 years after a 12 year break. He has kids from previous relationships. I am unable to have children. So far things have been going great. Dating again has been met with a few bumps. I really feel like he is truly my soulmate. We are definitely taking time to get to know each other in our adult lives after so many years.
Thanks Kevin. I figured the same, but it’s difficult. I saw potential in us and I feel that although she loved me, she just wanted the security of a ring.. and when she wasn’t getting that commitment from me, she was prepared to just shelve me despite her strong feelings.
And after the break up my ex husband indicated he wanted me back (we have two kids) but I refused because I want someone better. Also, interestingly right after the break-up my former neighbour asked me out for a drink through facebook. But I did not want to play with others since I am into my ex boyfriend. So I refused especially because I know that my neighbour would be serious about the relationship. He was trying with me previously, confessed his feelings but he is too simple for me: I mean he is not interested in deeper things and I am. So I refused him previously as well. And I am chatting with a guy who is quite interested in me. So as you can see I dont have to feel that I would not have any other chance. I am on dating sites. I am friendly and quite ok for my age. Also, i have 4 degrees. So I am not absolutely stupid. Men are attracted to me. And I am 38. I am after a 20 year long marriage so obviously I know my feelings for this guy wont last forever. I am not that naive. The main point is that: I would like one more chance with this guy because maybe we would get on very well if I try seriously. And since I realized that I need not only sex but someone who loves me and who I can love, at the end of the day I have to change my approach/behaviour anyway. So why not now and why not with this guy. It is not that easy to find someone who is interested in deep-speaking and still sober enough and who behaves in a loving way towards me. Also we were perfectly in synch in sex. So what else would I want? Of course maybe it wont work. I am realistic. I know this guy only for 3 months and we had fights. I am nornmally not an agressive type but I was the one who started the fight, he remained polite while I was swearing. This shows that I tried to protect myself from emotions. He realized that it is my fear but i did not want to realize. And you know I want this only if it works well. Basically I dont want this guy at any cost but I wanna see where it goes if I really try without fears. Maybe he is the right person for me.
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Thanks for sharing your story. I feel like, due to your histories, distance is really necessary. Don’t let the emotional floodgates run rampant. Let her miss you and continue focussing on your personal development and the rest will fall in to place.
Let’s start with talking about the recovery phase which is the first phase. This is where you’re feeling lonely, depressed, and lonely. This is about the first month or so after the breakup. The goal of this period is exactly what it’s called — recovery! One of the main things you need to do is ignore your ex for the first month or so. Additionally, you want to remove reminders of your ex. Put away all the love notes, pictures, and reminders from your life. Be sure to block them on your phone and on Facebook as well.
my boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago. although it was a break up, he also said he just wants time and space to think about things and he would consider getting back together if major things changed, but he’s not sure if that’s possible. we had a really great relationship full of respect and trust, we just started to argue more and more and i think we need some time apart for him to realize the problems can be fixed and are not worth throwing out an amazing relationship over. we’re both in college and on winter break, so i’m planning on reaching out when we both get back. i’m in the middle of no contact, but should i text him on christmas or new years? does this sound like a relationship that can be fixed?
Peter’s young wife Paulette had said to him, “That’s it. You’ve betrayed my trust one time too many. You are far too nice when you talk on the phone to the mother of your daughter, and by contrast you show no love toward me. All you do with me is avoid me or get mad. I’ve had it. Please, leave the house.”
I feel like my ex-boyfriend is a slightly special case. He went through a great deal of trauma shortly before he met me. He had been in a 6 year relationship with a physically and emotionally abusive partner. They had been living together and engaged, but he was finally forced to leave her when the toxic environment became too much.
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So after two weeks of her being very ver unsure, she broke up. She said she has deep fwwling but there are reasons she will not tell me. I took a week of spontaneous vacation, came back and demanded she shouöd at least tell me the reason she broke up. After a lot if convincing she toöd me it was just little things she never wanted to talk about and that was why shw went cold. So now i am moved away (already signed a job contract), and i still want her back. I did 2 weeks of NC until she messaged me happy christmas (i didn‘t respond, i didn’t know how), the next day she texted that she understands now that her lack of communication was the reason and that she hurt mw deeply by this but that she stays with the decision. I didn’t respond to that either, wxcept after 10 more days i just texted „i know you feel sorry. Merry christmas and happy new year.“ and left it at that. 2 weeks later i sent the elefant in the room text. She responded that i don’t need to be sorry, she didn’t act mature and stuff, but ahe made the decision now and that means however we proceed with each other is now my call and that she hopes i have a good new start away (i don’t, honestly, everything was planned for the two of us, and the other stuff falls apart rn, but that’s unrelated) and she wants to hear from me sometime.
This time off will also help you to distinguish between normal grief after a breakup and a real desire to be with your ex again. Nearly everyone feels sad after a breakup, even if their ex was a jerk and they were truly incompatible. Time alone will help you sort out these feelings.
I am sorry that you are going through this pain. The first thing you need to do is back off for a while. If she is dating someone else, you need to respect her new relationship and don’t do anything that threatens it.
If you have the patience and emotionally capacity, I would suggest waiting it out and staying with friends with him first and see if their relationship lasts. If not, it would be a better idea cutting him out completely since it’s only fair to yourself.
PLEASE Kevin. Think hard about what I should do. Ive been doing no contact but I see long-term potential (always have). And now Im in a new place away from her. The glass is broken so to speak and I just dont know how to ideally get us back together (she would eventually have to move here as there is no way I could leave my position).
Anyway i had a tough time with family issues whilst away on holiday for the weekend and my ex text me that he’ll be there for me and promised me all this wonderful things for our future. but after the crisis i had with my family i also mentioned that i had enough of people belittling me incl his mate. To my shock he said he couldnt be with a girl who doesnt get on with his mates and started saying we are very different with our view esp on this topic. he packed his stuff that eve and by morning he was gone.. 2 days later he came to collect rest of his stuff..
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